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Category Archives: Usual Man
Sound of Silence by Disturbed
Not a word from the Usual Man since midday yesterday. No answer to three messages. No response to the perfect blow job video? Hmmm…
Why wouldn’t he write? He’s traveling. Driving. Busy with family. Right?
No time for a quick text? He can’t pop into the men’s room and send a sentence? Nothing? Really? He managed to keep in touch last weekend…
I am not panicking. It’s only been 24 hours.
Okay… I am panicking… a little. Okay… a lot. He wouldn’t just go silent after telling me our time on Monday was spectacular and writing every day since? Would he? The universe wouldn’t take away two men in less than a month, men I thought I had a special connection with? Right?
I’ll wait to really panic. There’s plenty of time over the weekend to panic. *sigh
Argh… I hate silence.
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Disturbed – The Sound Of Silence
Fantastic Friday
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Like those things
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Naughty plan
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So bad it was good
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Meet #1 Usual Man – The Back Seat
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I took off work. I thought I’d sleep in but I was so keyed up I woke up early and did about 90 minutes worth of reading emails and taking care of various tasks online for the office. I took a serious shower, then put on my “Sassy go to meeting” outfit – blue slacks, blue top that buttons (or unbuttons) all the way up the front, a silk scarf.
I went down to the car at 11:10 am and sent him a quick email.
I parked the car on the upper level of the mall, shushed my phone then made my way down and out through TJ Maxx. I was on the second floor and looked over the railing to see if he was standing outside Starbucks! There he was! Yay! I don’t have to wait for him to appear!
I took the escalator down and about 2/3rds of the way, I smiled at him and waved, and he smiled back!
11:30 am
The first hug
He asked me if I wanted a coffee or lunch? I raised an eyebrow and shrugged, leaving it up to him. He said, “Let’s make it lunch!” A very good sign! We made our way out of the mall into the sunshine and both commented on what a perfect day it was!
The first kiss
We went in to PF Chang’s and there was no one around… no host, no bartender. That’s odd. Finally the host came out and I asked for a quiet corner. She gave us a banquet, which was good so we could slide together on the leather bench. There was no one around, so I was a total hussy and leaned over toward him to offer my lips and he took them, weaving his hand into my hair and rubbing my nipple! Oh my… I am in trouble. This guy is so sexy!
Lunch
We looked at the menu and I told him about their great non-alcoholic options. I asked what he usually drinks. He said he is mostly a beer guy, with an occasional glass of wine with food. But he over-indulged over the weekend, so he was going to be good today. The waitress came over and took our drink order. I got their spectacular strawberry cucumber limeade and he got their housemade ginger beer. He toasted me “to new friends!” Oh yeah…
I ordered the hot & sour soup and a side order of spicy green beans; he ordered the sesame chicken lunch special with rice. He played with my leg, and I rubbed his knee. He asked about my community project so I told him how we got started and what we’ve done (in general terms so he can’t google us!)
We talked about his weekend in NYC. We talked about our siblings.
Our meals arrived. He offered to let me try the sesame chicken. I took a little piece – it is yummy. It’s not coated like most places, just grilled meat with spicing. My green beans were a delight – he demurred on trying them.
I told him about my mom dying in June and all the estate and probate info I was learning. He told me about how his family was trying to make it easier – his mom sold them her house years ago so they won’t have to deal with that after she’s gone. Very smart!
We talked about STDs and I shared that I was tested in 2014 and haven’t done much since. He said he has never had an STD and has not done anything in years. I talked about losing so many friends to AIDS in early 90s. He said it had been awful but seems better now. I agreed, except in Africa. I apologized for being serious… I am never serious!
The men at the table across from us left, leaving us alone in that entire half of the dining room. He pulled me in for another kiss right away. I put my hand between his legs and found the bulge, pressed and rubbed it. He winked at me.
The waitress asked if we wanted dessert. I said I’d look at the menu. I did but he said he was done and he wanted to go somewhere else with me. I was full so I told the waitress no and she brought the bill. I offered to split it with him but he insisted on paying and pulled out cash to do it. It was only $28 so I didn’t feel too bad about it. I am a cheap date!
He opened the fortune cookies. The first said, “You will be contacted by a relative with news.” I told him he got mine, that I expected a call any minute from my cousins telling me my uncle was dead – he’d been taken to hospice last week and stopped eating. He offered condolences. He opened the other cookie – no fortune! Wow!
We kissed a bit more and then he suggested we go to his car. We wandered down into the garage. He wasn’t sure where he’d left it! We meandered around one level, then backtracked and went down a level! He had found a terrific spot in a back corner! Smart man!
He said, “I think we’d be more comfortable in the back seat.” Ha! Wow! He opened the car, pulled the front seats forward, handed me into the back right passenger seat, raced around and hopped into the back left passenger seat and grabbed me! Whee!
The Back Seat
It was really warm so he opened the windows, which made us a little cooler but made me not want to make much noise. When I had to get loud, I pressed my face against his shoulder so he could feel it but not hear it much. He slipped his hand down the front of my slacks and found my clit. He said he liked how wet I was already. He played me right on up to an almost orgasm. I made him think I did… I know that’s tacky, but there’s no way I can relax enough in a car in a parking lot on a first date to cum! He took some of my juices, rubbed them on my right nipple then licked them off and went “yum!”
He sat back, dripping in sweat. He jumped out to get a towel out of the trunk. He wiped off his face. I said welcome to the Sassy workout. He laughed. He got out again and turned on the a/c, shut the windows. Said he should’ve thought of that right off. I shrugged.. Eh… live and learn!
I sucked on his thumb, then his index finger. I told him it tasted like me! He smiled.
I asked if I could return the favor. He raised an eyebrow. I told him I’d like to suck on him. He drew a deep breath and admitted he’d like that. I rubbed the front of his pants. I asked if he had a name for his cock? He said no. I asked again – no? Not junior? Not Johnson? Not… Fred? Nope. That’s different. I asked if he could let it out to play. He agreed heartily. I helped with his belt and held the zipper so he could lower it and there was a beautiful cock! I leaned over. And lovely dark plaid silk boxers! Very nice, I told him.
I devoured him, sucking him down my throat and got a wonderful deep gasp from him. I pulled with my hand, licked around from bottom to top, around the crown, made appreciative noises. He leaned back, put his hand in my hair. I bobbed up and down, squeezing him up into my mouth. He sounded a little worried, asked it was okay if he came, said if I kept doing that he was going to… I couldn’t talk so I tried an “mmm… hmmm” and he held my head and moved his hips and I sucked him very deep and he came! There wasn’t much but I swallowed hard and he sighed and I hummed around him and then he let go of my head and I sat up. Hooray! He had the biggest smile on his face. He told me I am very talented! I told him I can be even better when I am not in a car!
He said we need to work on that, that he is free on Friday and he wants to get a hotel! Wow! I adore it when a man asks for the second meet before the first one is over! Hooray! I drooled at the thought of being alone with him and a bed!
He stared at me and asked, “May I know your name now?” I stared back then looked away. He said, “Just your first name…please?” I asked, “I have to go first?!” He nodded. I looked away. He pulled my chin until I was looking at him. I whispered my name. I rarely tell a new man my real name… I can imagine he learned these persuasive skills on the job. Or he’s just so charming naturally!
It was easy to get to my car – 3 floors up – it was basically in the same space where he’d parked!
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Song and stories
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I remember speaking to a lot of friends & family after 9/11 and listening to the crazy stories. There were a million. It seemed that a day came and nobody wanted to talk about it anymore. Even now 15 years later there’s no story telling anymore!
How was your day, sexy?!
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Can’t wait to meet
I called him. We talked and talked. He tells the best stories! He listens well, too.
I helped him cum! He got me really revved up. My mind is racing with what we’ll do!!
He was relaxing in his hotel room again, naked, ready… he let me talk more today and I described a Sassy blow job and that had quite the effect on him. We marveled over how well we do on the phone. How comfortable and relaxed, yet excited we are.
We got talking about how to keep each other safe. I ended up telling him about the guy who attacked me and how it makes me play it very safe at first. He growled at that guy but didn’t tell me what I half expected which would’ve been something about his work or suggestions of what I could’ve done with the police. I told him about Philip, and the online group of cheaters and how I had learned to keep a military man safe and entertained far away, how I heard about the things that can go wrong as people talking online so I was aware of all those pitfalls. I wanted to assure him that he is in no danger from me if he keeps himself safe.
I told him I was a little worried that if we broke up badly he had more potential that most men to track me and hurt me. He said he would never do that, that some cops he knew had tried stuff like that and gotten caught and in bad trouble over it, and how their computer systems track everything they access so that was not going to happen. He said in the same way I could hurt him worse than many men, as his job is so keyed into the law. He also worried about Hubby but I told him he doesn’t have to worry about him… didn’t get into much detail, just that he does his thing and I do mine.
I talked about him possibly coming here after a while, after I trust him. He said he’d like that.. Like to play with my toys. I asked if he’d done that before and he said no. So I explained a little about how they help me when I am alone and how they can enhance things when I am with him… add a nice buzz. He sounded very interested in watching me and letting me use them on him!
I got to talking about how he could tell me what he wanted. That I am not vanilla… but not rocky road… more butter pecan because… I like nuts! Ha! I told him I’ve tried other kinky things, read a lot but mostly come back to a man and a woman in a bed, being nice to each other. I told him he can tell me what he wants… I want to be the woman he can talk to, share with, try things.
I talked about lube and my chest and him rubbing his cock between my breasts…he moaned at that! I talked about his moving up to put his knees beside my face and sinking his cock deep in my throat… he groaned. I told him he could put his hands on the headboard and moved back and forth and fuck my mouth… he moaned again. Bingo!
He said he was getting a phone call about his plans for the evening, should call them back pretty quickly. He told me again how great it is to talk to me, how he adores my voice… how he can’t wait to see me. He knows it has to be a Starbucks or something but it will be so tough not to be alone right away and touch me and… he had to go.
Wow. I have never felt so close to someone I’ve never met! He is mesmerizing!
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Talking sexy
He was alone in his hotel room. It was strange – I felt comfortable right away. And turned on. I feel like I know him. But I don’t. I don’t even know his name… not that it matters. He put me at ease and we quickly transitioned into talking about sex.
He described in great detail how he was alone in his room and naked and he wished I was there and he’d kiss me and touch me and learn my body and kiss his way up and down and around and lick my clit while his fingers played and tell me how beautiful I am and how hot I make him feel and how much he wants me to feel good and… WOW! He made me feel like I have a clear picture of what he’d be like in bed… and it was all things I would like to do RIGHT NOW!
I tried to listen carefully, insert a sigh or a moan or a word here and there. He was on a roll so I listened and let myself float along…. Mmm… Toward the end, he put the phone down so he could stroke his cock and I couldn’t hear him so well… I finally had to say it was time for me to go because I couldn’t hear enough to respond properly. He told me how amazing it had been talking to me… how if it was this good on the phone he thought we’d be fabulous together. I do hope so! Then he said goodnight and was gone.
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