5/20, 8:25am

Good morning hot stuff!
     

5/20, 8:38am Phil

Good morning. Off to do an initial consult with the lawyer today. Find out how bad a financial hit I will take.        

       
5/20, 8:43am Phil

I have a woman who has been pampered and pretty much been able to do anything she likes, who has given very little back. So why do I feel bad about walking out? Fred is such a loving, tender person and my wife is so not. Fred just makes me feel happy.  My wife in general pisses me off. I did not miss her when I left before and she admitted to being deceptive and just mean. I guess I have grown accustomed to this and accepted that it’s what life is all about. It’s still a hard thing.

       
5/20, 1:38pm

Hope the lawyer had better news that you thought.  You have gotten through hard things.  You will get through this.  You are not alone this time.     

       
5/20, 2:13pm Phil

I go at 4:30. Everyone always says, you don’t look miserable but you try to tell people, that’s not a reason to stay married. You don’t have to hate the person. My wife and I enjoy dinner and wineries but how much more fun to sip wine with your hand on your babies ass, to ride the bike with her deliberately dropping her hand to your crotch or rubbing an amazing rack on ur back. To party and get a little hammered and take a cab home, be a little crazy. Everyone wants to treat you like a total ass. I want the best for my wife, I want her to find a man who adores her and wants to move to Fla and live next to Disney.  I want the foot rubs, the laughter, boating and fishing. Mind blowing sex. I want that so badly. Want to spend the day on a boat drinking beer, relaxing fishing and not with my buddies but with a woman I’m crazy about.

5/20, 2:33pm Phil

you’d think I threw her out in the cold or something rather than letting her keep a house, the savings, the time share, furniture, everything plus half my pension a year in income

       
5/20, 2:51pm

You don’t have to justify this change.  You don’t have to convince people.  If they care about you, say it’s right for you and they will be happy for you.  If not… keep moving.  Focus on her and you and the amazing future!

5/20, 7:06pm
The Ninety Nine makes the best fried chicken!  Had a great dinner with Mom.

5/20, 7:15pm Phil

Going to cost me half my retirement plus at least 2k/month on top of that and she can drag it out for 2 1/2 years. Wow! Best case is a divorce in 8 months, worst case is 2 1/2 years with 50k in legal bills. Unbelievable!

I’m stunned! I expected half my retirement a month and out in six months.

It’s more money and she can break me financially if she wants to
      

5/20, 8:56pm Phil

Think I’ll still take the red head

5/20, 9:05pm

I have two thoughts.  What if you don’t divorce, just leave?   Or is there some leverage you can put into the settlement to incentivize her to sign and not contest?

Ask the lawyer to be creative.   Or talk to another one?

Also, may seem like a lot but us cheaper than all her usual spending?

So glad to hear it didn’t dissuade you!

     

5/20, 9:08pm Phil

Gonna talk to another lawyer. Did not like this guy at all. Either way, I choose the girl and how she makes me feel

5/20, 9:09pm

I have a friend in chat who got quotes from 3 lawyers – varied by a lot.

5/20, 9:10pm Phil

I put my feet on chair outside tonight, wife went ewww, Fred would have just started rubbing just to watch my eyes roll back.

I did not like the lawyer. Big titted receptionist falling out of her blouse though

Saturday, May 17, 2014

5/17, 8:04am

Good morning kid!

5/17, 8:05am Phil

Good morning! Happy Saturday!

5/17, 8:07am

I’m off to Mom’s for a late lunch and The Preakness!  More cookies!  Have a super Saturday!

5/17, 10:30am Phil

You too! Had breakfast with a friendly red head. Great way to start the day

5/17, 2:26pm
Mom wanted pizza today.

5/17, 9:26pm
Hubby and I had a great time at Jimmy’s Steer House tonight.

       
5/11, 9:32am

Good morning!  See my fun party photos on my wall.  Beautiful home on a lake… great Mexican food.  Nice people.

We’re off to another family get-together at my sister’s for Mother’s Day.  She hired a private chef to serve us brunch!

Here’s the menu:

   

Pear and Mascarpone tortellini

Sausage Frittata

Pull Pork Benedict on Cornbread w/ BBQ Hollandaise

Steak and eggs

Smoked salmon display

Fresh fruit plate

Homemade Bacon

Homefries

Sounds delicious to me!

5/11, 9:54am Phil

Wow! Sounds awesome!

5/11, 10:45am
The chef displayed it beautifully too!

       
5/11, 9:13pm

What game are you playing?!

5/11, 9:15pm Phil

Huh?      

       
5/11, 9:16pm

I see Beach Gal’s favorite painting on your FB wall… just wonder what you’re up to?!

5/11, 9:17pm Phil

Just a bit of art. I like it too

5/11, 9:27pm Phil

It’s a gorgeous nite, lots of stars. Reminds me of her.

You are the only one who would pick up on that. And her of course.

U know me too well
   

5/11, 9:39pm Phil

What are u up too   

       
5/11, 9:40pm

Just got home.  Went to the beach at Plum Island, Newburyport and had supper at a diner in Rowley.  See my wall.

Brunch was fantastic! How was your day?

5/11, 9:40pm Phil

I’ll go look!
Relaxing, spent it drinking wine and laying in the sun. Looks amazing! Chowdah!
    

5/11, 9:45pm

Did you see the family photos from brunch?  I was having a good hair day.

5/11, 9:48pm Phil

You look great! Marvelous pics. Love the plum island ones
     

5/11, 9:50pm
It was 81 here today!  Could not waste it inside.

   

5/11, 9:51pm Phil

Same here!

[photo of him leaning into the camera with his smiling face close]

5/11, 9:51pm Phil

[photo of him toasting me with a bottle of beer]

         

5/11, 9:56pm

Aww..hiya handsome!  Here’s 5 more photos from the diner

5/11, 9:57pm Phil

Spectacular!

You are one intuitive thing. Don’t miss anything.

I like that. You pay attention.

I made crab cakes for supper, came out great! 30 mile bike ride tomorrow and a walk in the park with a young lady

       
5/11, 10:02pm

Oooh       

       
5/11, 10:03pm Phil

Yeah

5/11, 10:03pm

Is that what they call it these days?

       
5/11, 10:03pm Phil

LOL, just a walk in the park
   

5/11, 10:04pm

Why?  

       
5/11, 10:04pm Phil

Why what?

5/11, 10:04pm

Why aren’t you jumping her bones?

5/11, 10:05pm Phil

See what happens from there. Just a chance to see her.

I’m a gentleman. Really.

Don’t want to fuck it up.  Romance and baby steps.  Flowers.

Hand in hand along the water, like the old days
         

5/11, 10:09pm

Yeah… take her something…

Good thought… no rush

I bet she grabs you, though
         

5/11, 10:11pm Phil

Once we touch, it’s over

       
5/11, 10:12pm

I know the feeling.

5/11, 10:19pm Phil

Yup!
         

5/11, 10:20pm

You are such a sexy beast.

5/11, 10:26pm Phil

Nah, but thank you
             

5/11, 10:26pm

I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT!!! 

       
5/11, 10:27pm Phil

Yeah yeah, don’t see it.  At least I’m in good shape for an old guy. Body has held up

5/11, 10:35pm Phil

[photo of him looking sunburnt and tipsy, smiling a very goofy smile at me]

       

Friday, May 9, 2014

5/9, 8:02am

Good morning!  Happy Friday!
         

5/9, 5:24pm Phil

Good evening! Hope you have something fun planned. Another really long nite for us at work. Been a long week but managed to have a little fun
       

5/9, 5:27pm

Out at Redbones eating bbq! Nothing like a pulled pork sandwich!
       

5/9, 5:47pm Phil

awesome! enjoy!

5/10, 3:49am Phil

Still working.  Hoping to wrap in about an hour. Exhausted.

5/10, 3:50am

Oh no!  When’s your flight?

I fell asleep at 7 pm, woke at 12:30 am.  So I could be here for you, looks like!

5/10, 4:05am Phil

flights at 6:30.  should be ok.

Beach Gal posted something a couple hours ago that it sucks when your past catches up to you.  Wonder what that was about.  I don’t think it has anything to do with me.

She liked the pic of my Mom.  I don’t get it.

I’m worried about her now. Have no clue what that could have been about but there was a big frowny face
  

5/10, 4:27am

Hunh.  I hate cryptic posts.  Focus… get done… get some sleep!  I’m going back to bed.  Safe travels! Mwah!

5/10, 4:27am Phil

what?  I am focused
 sweet dreams

       
5/7, 9:04am

Good morning!  Here’s to a great Wednesday!

 Sorry I dozed off early last night.  I am enjoying your photos this morning!

 I’m home again today avoiding the boss.  She leaves for Hawaii tonight!    

       
5/7, 9:26am Phil

Well enjoy your day!
 Glad you enjoyed the pix

5/7, 6:24pm Phil

Been having unbelievable phone sex via text all day. Holy shit!
 All I could do not to cum in my pants

5/7, 6:32pm Phil

Unbelievable.
strap-ons, dildos, tongues, fingers, dicks in asses, ball sucking, teasing for hours,
    

5/7, 6:37pm

Nice!  I know you like that.
      

5/7, 7:00pm Phil

Oh mamma… She said come home, hold me and fuck the shit out of me over and over?  Am I misinterpreting something?

5/7, 7:03pm

Seems pretty clear!  Is this Beach Gal?
    

5/7, 7:13pm Phil

No, this is Fred. I was like holy shit!  Beach Gal is quiet as a church mouse and still very happy.  She is taking him home to me her family.  Fred was off the chart and hot hot hot

5/7, 7:14pm

When can you hold her?
    

5/7, 7:27pm Phil

What do I do with that?! Saturday.

5/7, 7:32pm
Enjoy it?

5/7, 7:34pm Phil

This is the prototypical sweet southern girl who is a wild cat in the sack, happy to ride down the road flashing her incredible assets, happy to walk the beach naked, turns every head when she walks in the room. Looks amazing in 6 inch heels, love motorcycles and boats, another beach girl, cooks like a gourmet chef        

       
5/7, 7:36pm

Make a list of what you need to pack.
Go home to her (tell wife “flight delayed”) then pack and roll?
       

5/7, 7:38pm Phil

My Mom loves her, she’s a dancer – so very flexible, loves anal, giving and receiving, and loves the hell out of me.

I thought of that too
   

5/7, 7:39pm
So why not? Can you live with her day to day?

      

5/7, 7:45pm

Anyone has to be better than your wife…
   

5/7, 7:54pm

I’m out at LobstaLand in Gloucester.     

       
5/7, 7:56pm Phil

I thought of that too.

I can live with her. Love her to death. I would be spoiled rotten.  She would not piss away my money, let the house be dirty or ever let me come home without lavishing love on me.

Lobster! Awesome!

       
5/7, 8:01pm

Make it so.
      

5/7, 8:10pm

See photos on my wall!  Om nom nom. Driving home now
   

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

5/6, 8:19am
Good morning!  Beautiful photos… you handsome hunk.  So glad the flowers were a good idea!  Have a super Tuesday.

I am home “sick” today.   Just not up to being insulted and micro-managed by the new boss today.

5/6, 8:35am Phil

Well enjoy the day! Working out to start the day. Beach Gal liked a couple things on my page. Hmmmm
                   

5/6, 8:47am Phil

Another busy one for me
       

5/6, 9:03am Phil

Fresh out of the gym

[photo of his naked chest and shoulders and smiling face]

       

5/6, 9:42am

Damn it.  Your shoulders… your smile… swoon!       

5/6, 9:42am Phil

LOL

5/6, 12:59pm Phil

Girl completely fucked up my head, dammit.
Geez, plays me like a fiddle, knew I would notice.

5/6, 1:00pm

Which girl?        

       
5/6, 1:05pm Phil

Beach Gal. Fred knows which strings to pull too but Beach Gal knows me better than anyone. Sucks that you have to ask. There are worse problems I guess        

5/6, 1:22pm Phil

That little girl just drives me crazy, always will.

5/6, 6:33pm
Hot lobster roll for dinner with Mom at The Ninety Nine.

5/6, 11:29pm Phil

What are you up to tonight?

5/6, 11:29pm

Figuring out how to sell Mom’s car
  

5/6, 11:30pm Phil

I do ok?

[photo of the flowers he sent Fred]

        

5/6, 11:30pm Phil

[photo of his chest, belly button and legs, with his hand over his privates, sprawled on a bed]

     

5/6, 11:31pm

Fabulous flowers!
 Mmmf… wanna hit that.
      

5/6, 11:32pm Phil

[same shot as before except his erect cock is the center of it!]

      

5/6, 11:32pm

Yowza!
      

5/6, 11:33pm Phil

Ha ha       

       
5/6, 11:35pm Phil

[close up of his erect cock with his hand at the base tilting it toward me]

5/6, 11:36pm Phil

Just relaxing

5/5, 8:22am

Good morning kid!  Hope you have a great Monday far away!

I’m off to the office to hold a farewell lunch for my interns.  Hope to stay off the boss’ radar!

5/5, 8:52am Phil

Have a great one!

[He sent the photo of him with the HUGE beer again]

5/5, 9:36am Phil

[photo of him in a dress shirt and tie, smiling at me]

5/5, 9:42am

Well!  Great to see your smiling face!

5/5, 9:43am Phil

Have a great day Sass!
           

5/5, 11:05am Phil

These were happy times

[photo of him with a red head with her arm around his neck, them drinking margaritas]

       
5/5, 11:06am

Made any progress today?  Sent flowers?  Started on your list?

5/5, 11:06am Phil

Sent flowers – check.
Reviewed list – check.
We don’t look bad together
   

5/5, 1:50pm

It’s interesting how much brighter your smile is with her compared to with your wife.

5/5, 2:59pm Phil

had so much fun with her and you see how she is touching me, like she enjoys it.

I’m just very relaxed and happy when we are together

5/5, 5:43pm
Picking up my favorite Chinese comfort food from Mary Chung.  They’ve remodeled!

5/5, 7:45pm
Have you seen these?  Onion ring swiped with siraccha sauce and wrapped in bacon for the grill… might be fun for a party.
http://www.grilling24x7.com/oring.shtml

5/5, 8:49pm   

5/5, 8:49pm

Hee hee… how about this for your second wedding vow?

5/5, 10:35pm Phil

[photo of a gorgeous marina]

[photo of his dinner plate]

5/5, 10:36pm

Stunning!  What was that dinner?

5/5, 10:38pm Phil

Dungenous crab cakes, Penn Cove mussels, clam chowder, rhubarb crunch
           

5/5, 11:04pm

Yum!
     

5/6, 12:15am Phil

It was amazing
    

5/6, 12:15am Phil

5/6, 12:15am Phil

[photo of him at the marina at sunset]

         

5/6, 12:16am Phil

[photo of his naked chest, shoulders and smiling face]

5/6, 12:16am Phil

Fred loved the flowers. She was so happy.
  

5/6, 1:15am Phil

Thank you baby for that idea!

Saturday, May 3, 2014
     

5/3, 8:26am
Good morning kid!

5/3, 12:15pm

You have the sexiest toes!
I’m off to Mom’s for our annual Kentucky Derby watching fest!

5/3, 2:00pm
Had a great Mexican lunch with Mom.  Picked up raspberry lime rickies from Brigham’s and cookies for a treat while we watch the horse race.

5/3, 6:01pm
Cookies for the Derby!

5/3, 6:46pm Phil

Oh cool! Have fun! I spent the day at the beach!

         

5/3, 6:47pm
Great photos you posted!

Adore you toes.
      

5/3, 7:07pm Phil

Why thank you.
Tried to get my mind off other things and relax. Actually smiled and laughed

5/3, 7:11pm
Yay!  Me too!

5/3, 7:18pm Phil

Well good for us!        

       
5/3, 8:58pm Phil

Off on another work trip to [redacted] in the morning
Enjoying a cigar, sipping a scotch thinking of a beautiful lady
       

5/3, 8:59pm

Wow!  You been there before?

        

5/3, 9:00pm Phil

Many times. One of my favorites
Very pretty place
     

5/3, 9:03pm

Yes.  I’ve been several times.  Great fun.       

5/3, 9:03pm Phil

Great town!  Love the seafood!

5/3, 9:09pm Phil

Maybe we can have some fun

5/3, 9:30pm

: )

5/3, 9:43pm Phil

: )