Getting to know Thad

August 22, 2016 Monday
Date:Aug 22nd – 10:23am
From: Meat_or_Fish
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Hi there I’m just about to drive home, so I’ll write more later. 

Quick answers: 
one kid who lives elsewhere. 
Eyes are brown, as is my hair. My beard is salt-and-pepper. 
Guilt . . . hmmm I’ll have to think about that one. 

Hugs and nibbles

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Date: Aug 22nd – 10:28am
From: Sassy
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Good morning! Hope you have an easy trip. 

Here’s to a long luscious kiss. Mwah!
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Date:Aug 22nd – 7:44pm
From: Meat_or_Fish
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Dear Sassy (or Saucey) It was a beautiful day for a drive. If I’d gotten your message about looking forward to a long luscious kiss, before I started out, I would have driven faster! :>) 

You said that you will be getting busy very soon. Would you have time to get together for lunch either this Thursday (24) or this Friday (25)? 

Cheers by the way, what is the color of your hair? 

I should let you know that I loathe Donald Trump, hope you do too!
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Date:Aug 22nd – 9:18pm
From:Sassy
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Hiya! So you made it back, eh? I’m so glad. Nothing must happen to you before i can see you. It was a perfect day outside. Too bad I was inside for most of it. This is my nutty week. Can we pick a day next week? 

My hair is silver. And long. I wear it up most of the time but you can take it down, run your fingers through it… it’s softer than it looks. Maybe grab a handful while… oops. I got a little carried away there. 🙂 

Ah politics. Fear not, I agree with you. True blue gal here. 77 days until we vote and can stop hearing his name please please. 

Today’s troika of queries: 
1) Are you sports fan? 
I’m not a fanatic but keep up with figure skating and what the Sox are doing. 

2) What do you fantasize most about, i.e. if we click, what do you want most, first? 

3) What about you will surprise me?
People usually find the fact that I don’t watch TV unusual.

I’d better get some sleep… my brain is mush.

Sweet sexy dreams! – Sassy

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Date:Aug 22nd – 11:43pm
From: Meat_or_Fish
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Hi Sassy! Enjoy sweet dreams as I write! 

I really enjoy your messages! Odd to realize we’ve only been in touch with one another for two days! Can’t wait to meet! Sorry this week doesn’t work, but next week I could meet for lunch on Wed or Fri. Or I could get together for a late afternoon drink on Tues, Wed. or Thurs. 

Long silver hair! I love running my fingers through long hair, and grabbing a handful . . . 

Glad to know that we are in synch about the Donald! 

Your questions: you’ll know everything about me before we even meet (but don’t stop asking). 

Sports – not a dedicated fan of any sport, but I watch the world series and the superbowl. I keep vaguely aware during the season of how the Red Sox and the Pats are doing, but I am actually more interested in sports news about fans or about the politics of sports. I always watch figure skating during the Olympics, but I don’t really know the finer points. 

What do I fantasize about – **that is a loaded question!** (it takes two to tango, so it is hard to answer your question, except close-up ;>) I want to gaze into your blue eyes, hear your sultry voice, and appreciate your winning smile. All true! But you’ve tantalized me with talk of long luscious kisses, ear nibbling, and running my fingers through your silver locks. Those sound like good starters! Some groping and making out would be a good second course. I love foreplay (giving and receiving). Beyond that my fantasies could go in many directions, depending on where your’s lead you (and us, if we’re in this together!) So, send me something about your fantasies! 

What will surprise you? Great question, but I don’t know. I think I’m a pretty normal guy with few pronounced eccentricities. (And if I try to tell you what will surprise you, it won’t be a surprise!) 

I’ll drift off to sleep with sexy Sassy running – cavorting? — through my dreams! All best T
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Date:Aug 23rd – 12:31am
From: Meat_or_Fish
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The message I sent earlier ran up against character limit, so I had to cut a bunch of comments and questions.  Here they are now! 

You said “I crave the basics – a simple kiss on the back on my neck, holding hands, nibbling, a back rub. I will start to crave more as I get back into it, but for now the idea of little touches revs me up!” I’m in pretty much the same boat. It has been so long (and I mean years) that I have had many little touches, those alone will send me into 7th heaven. 

Perhaps this is too personal a question, but how long have you and your husband been only room-mates? How long have you been married? (My wife and I got married shortly after college over 40 years ago. Still best friends, just not sexual partners!) 

Some other questions: 
What are your fantasies if we click? Physical and/or emotional? 

You asked me about how I got involved with AM. Have you been on the site for a while? 

What color was your hair before silver? How long is long? 

Favorite foods? (yes, I’ve noted that you like lobster risotto . . . yum!) 

Are you religious? I am not.

Have you traveled much outside the US?
(I’ve lived overseas, off-and-on for roughly 10 years.)

* * And here is a really serious question. My wife has told me several times (including at least once or twice in public) that she doesn’t care if I have an affair (she might not have used the term “affair”) as long as she doesn’t learn about it. I’ve attempted to get a more extended conversation going, but she doesn’t want to talk about sex in our marriage at all, as far as I can tell. So, my question is whether you and your husband have had a conversation about you having an affair? Does he know, does he care, does he object? On my part, whatever we end up doing with each other, it will be entirely behind closed doors. Let me know what you think about these issues

Sweet dreams T

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