June 21, 2018 Thursday
From: Sassy
Subject: Adulting
Happy Summer! Hope your day is starting well.
Most days when I am heading to work, I have a mild case of “I’d rather be doing something else.” I’d rather sleep a bit more, go to the ocean and eat lobster, read fun stories on the internet, or have lunch with a friend. But I go to work. That’s what adults do most of the time. Go to work, eat dinner, talk with the family, do chores, read a little. Get ready to do it again. Adulting.
But today? I have one of the worst cases of what I have to do conflicting with what I want to do that I can remember. My mind screams to run and find you! The memories of our first meet are playing over and over, mixed with the myriad of possibilities for our next one. I don’t want to go to the office. I want to see you! Touch you… listen to you, taste you!! I long to invite you to lunch but I know you have other things to do.
This may have been the best first meet I’ve ever had. The first hug was a fantastic mix of comfort and excitement. There was that “rightness” of your arms around me, of the fit of our bodies close together. Then your smile… oh my. I relaxed enough to enjoy our conversation immensely. You are easy to talk with – an excellent foundation for whatever else we build. Thank you for talking about the past, the present and considering a future with adventure!
We went to a buffet last night, even though we didn’t eat anything. We sat and talked about many dishes – the appetizers, the meats, the vegetables, the rices and the sweets! We allowed ourselves one taste. I hope that wasn’t too scary. I couldn’t resist finding out a few more facts in that certain way. It was incredible! It set off all my senses! I want MORE! SOON!
Finally, thank you for quickly reassuring me that it went well… that there will be more. I want it…I want you. I want to rush, and yet take our time. I want to skip work and have FUN. Help me figure out the best way to do that? I will be in touch soon with some ideas. Have a terrific Thursday!
-S
From: Reggie
Re: Adulting
Sassy
Yes, I have been adulting since dawn and I know about this feeling only too well. Not a day goes by when I don’t think of my corporate enslavement and how I would rather be doing something else.
I loved chatting with you and learning a little about what makes you tick. Your sex-positive, vivaciousness is infectious. I like the self-assurance that you have about seeking sex – I must say I don’t. It is too wrapped up in subterfuge and some amount of guilt and your attitude is very reassuring.
I am eager for you to tell me about your ideas.
-R
From: Sassy
Subject: Meet planning
Hiya Reggie!
I am trying to work but… ugh. I’m supposed to be reading resumes and planning incisive interview questions to choose a new colleague, but I have to write to you!
Two logistical questions:
1) When?
As I thought about the logistics for our next meet, it suddenly occurred to me that lunches work for you and me but don’t work hotel-wise. They’re locked down from 12 noon – 3 pm. Argh. I have two theories:
– Afternoons
Can you leave work early, meet from say 3:30 – 5:30 pm?
I can do Monday, Wednesday or Friday next week at those times. Fridays are cheaper at a hotel.
– Mornings
Meet before work 8 – 10 am?
I can do that any morning next week.
If the answer is yes but it will take time to set up, I can wait. Somehow. If this is not possible, let me know and I will try to figure out something else.
2) Where?
Are you comfortable with hotels near work? Or would you rather be further away?
Close: Friday 6/29, I’m looking at the Marriott @ 50 Broadway $151.Â
Or I can look further around T stops heading up the Red Line for safer and/or cheaper spots.
Cash cab option: Green Cab 617-625-5000. I’d say pick an address up the block or around the corner for pick-up, so you’re less likely to be seen by colleagues and your office address is not in their records.
NOTE: These questions may only apply once, as after that I hope to have gained enough trust to invite you to my condo, which is walkable from your office. Hubby can work at a cafe and we can enjoy on our own schedule!
Very soon we’ll get through these questions and on to FUN!
More hugs… more groping… more!
-S
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From: Reggie
Re: Meet planning
Your planning is impeccable. I am totally comfortable with hotels near work and Marriott sounds very doable. I just pretend to go to a work meeting which can be anywhere in the “sprawling” complex of buildings and go to the hotel. Maybe Friday next week but I will have to confirm that.
Damn..I am excited to see you in private. I want to see you naked. I want to touch you.
Did I tell you that I have a friend coming to visit tonight. He is in town for work and is visiting us for the weekend. My emails will be a little sparse over the next couple of days but I do want to hear from you about all the things you have been fantasizing about us.
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From: Sassy
Re: Meet planning
Hiya Reggie!
Wow… don’t think anyone has used the word impeccable on me before… I am beaming! I worry that it is too much trouble, but I try to make it as easy as possible. Good that we have a theory rolling. I usually put a doctor’s appointment or something on my work calendar so no one schedules over whatever time I have planned to be with you. I use Dr AMY. AMy… heh. It makes me smile every time I look at it.
Let’s try to keep in the forefront what this is all about. SEX! Ha! That includes hugging, kissing, exploring, laughing, moaning, and penetration! And afterglow with cuddling and conversation.
We didn’t talk about frequency – I want to see you A LOT but I know there are many other pulls on your time and all plans are subject to change to keep you employed and safe. If we have fun and want to continue, I would hope for at least once a month. But whatever we can manage, more or less, I have that tingle that tells me each time will be a marvelous interlude.
I do have to warn about first times… they can be weird. But you have given me confidence that we can communicate and get beyond that. We can test things and check in and try other things and… have fun doing it! Please don’t be shy about saying or showing me what works best. Slower, faster, harder… I can adapt. And don’t take those words coming from me as criticism – just suggestions on how to make it even better.
Wonderful you get to see people! I do appreciate the heads-up, especially in these early stages. I try not to expect emails, just enjoy them when they appear, but so appreciate you removing any doubt that you’ve given up on me. I will try not to pester you too much, but my brain is full of possibilities and they may leak out in your direction.
Hugging, groping, kissing… like yesterday only in private and for much longer!
-S
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From: Reggie
Re: Meet planning
lol@ Dr. AMY.
Yes, it is about sex and I would love for it to get to a place where it is uninhibited and immensely pleasurable for both of us. And I realize that the first time will be awkward. I know you can be open about things (while being kind, gentle, compassionate) and that means a lot in being able to open up and get to that place of sexual satisfaction for us both. I will try to be as well but I am (and I will say this without any shame) much more inexperienced than you are.
As for frequency – twice a month would be nice as long as we don’t have to spend on hotels. I like it that you think we can get to place where you can invite me over. I truly appreciate it.
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From: Sassy
Re: Meet planning
Hee hee… told ya I have fun names for everyone.
We’ll see if we can up your experience level. I have a feeling you’ll catch on pretty quickly when you notice that I don’t react badly to what you say. Even if we don’t manage sexual perfection, I hope we can be “way better than nothing!” And have fun practicing. 😉
Are you used to running things in the bedroom? I will mostly let you do that, at least to start, but don’t want to shock you if I try to have a turn at deciding what’s next. Most men seem to be stuck in the “she lets me…” and I want you to know I am not just letting you, I am into it too!
Twice a month? Oh sweet man… that sounds amazing! I will not expect that but it sure is fun to think about!
My instincts say I could have you over right away but my experience tells me to wait. Giving away where I live is a huge Full disclosure – My place is a cluttered wreck due to Hubby’s current reorganization effort and his general lack of interest in un-cluttering, and the cats best efforts to create chaos. But I do have a cleaner in regularly, and I keep the path to the bedroom and my uncluttered bathroom clear! I hope if there is a king-sized bed, a bathroom, and me, you’ll be okay. It is an excellent place for a tryst, as someone might see you go in, but they’d have no idea which of condos you go to. We can even take you in through the garage which is hidden from the street, if that extra step helps your peace of mind.
One other thought – I do not own you or demand exclusive sexual rights. What you do on your own time is your business, as long as you stick with safe sex, and treat me well when you see me and write me now and then. 🙂 If you get other chances, take them. Tell me about them or not, as you see fit. Let me know if you want to hear about mine or not. I recommend talking about things, but I know that may seem radical to you. Right now the only man I see is The Northerner on the rare occasions he can get away. I will say, the thought of being with you will keep me from prowling. I hope that makes sense.
Off to interview. Keep smiling. And daydreaming. Mwah!
-S
From: Reggie
I am a little naive when it comes to risks that I put myself through unlike your other friend who “forgets” his wallet in his car. Nor do I mind clutter as long as it is not on your bed 😉 I don’t know about taking charge in the bedroom but I will not come to you after the first couple of times and say that I am sub and wanted to be domme’d – that will not happen 🙂 As for other encounters – there is one other and I will tell you about her when we lie in the afterglow and touch and talk.
I have been feeling very aroused and I think I need relief. Right now, in the restroom at work!
From: Sassy
Re: Meet planning
Hiya Reggie!
You are so cute. I wouldn’t call you naive – you’ve had no reason to know all the crappy things that can go on. I happen to have listened to people in IRC and men from AM for awhile. With some luck I can warn you of ones you need to know, and you don’t need to worry about most of the awful things. I don’t want to be a downer, but I do want you safe. Remind me to tell you about the bank robber. You’re not a bank robber right?
If you have any kinks – things that you need to get off – be sure to say. I can’t tell what is kinky anymore. One guy was shocked I want to leave the light on, and several who thought blow jobs were wild. And then the guy who wanted to listen to me poop! Called him Mr. Scat and never went there!
Did I say something arousing? Feels like all I did was logistics today. Or are you remembering or planning for the future? Did you really go get relief? Mmm…. may have to get you to film bits of that sometime and send it to me! I adore watching and listening in.
-S
From: Reggie
Hi Sass
I like listening to your experiences. You come across as genuinely curious and caring about your lovers while not being judgmental at all. Not even about Mr. Scat.Â
From: Sassy
Subject: Summer evening
Hiya Reggie!
Hope you’ve had a fun evening and your visitor made it into town easily. How old a person is he?
I managed to get work done and go out to Border Cafe for dinner. Their gumbo and crawfish etouffe are delicious! All I wanted to do was write to you but I kept on with “real life” placated by the thoughts of seeing you again.
Sleep well! Dream sexy dreams of a bodacious buxom beauty who is thinking of you!
-S