November 9, 2017 Thursday
9:06am
From: Sassy
Message
Good morning hot stuff!
I’m dressed in dark blue with a light floral silk scarf and so excited to see you!
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9:58am
From: ogs1967
Message
Very excited to see you too! I have blue shirt, tan pants, brown jacket.
2:30 still good for you?
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12:42pm
From: Sassy
Message
Yes indeed! See you at John Harvard’s! Mwah!
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1:15pm
From: ogs1967
Message
Awesome! See you there
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2:13pm
From: ogs1967
Message
I’m here at the bar whenever you get here!
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Report #1 Bob 11/9/17
November 9, 2017 Thursday
Put in AM messages from Nov 6 on
I made it to the bar at John Harvard’s at exactly at 2:30 pm. I walked slowly down the stairs, looking around. A man seated about halfway down the bar looked up and smiled. I checked his clothing and it was him! He stood up to greet me and opened his arms for a lovely hug! He’s cute! He is tall and skinny and has a shock of reddish hair!
He asked if I wanted to join him at the bar or get a table- he had a beer half-drunk and a glass of water, and a glass of water for me! Very thoughtful! I said it was fine to sit at the bar and thought “that way I can touch you more easily” but I didn’t say it. I hopped up on the bar stool and pulled closer to him. He stared at me and smiled. There was no one close to us so we could talk freely.
The bartender came by and I ordered a diet coke with lime. Bob asked me if I didn’t want something stronger? I told him I can’t drink. He seemed a little startled, but I assured him it was fine that he was.
He said he’d gotten there early and nervously looked up every three seconds hoping I’d arrive. I told him I was so glad he was there first so I didn’t have to do that! He said every time his phone pinged he thought it would be me flaking out. I told I don’t do that. He said he didn’t mean me, just him being nervous. I patted him on the arm and told him I understand.
He asked me where I live and when I moved there, so I got to talk about my condo a little.
He told me about his history on AM – he’s been on and off twice in the past two years, met four women, none of which seemed worth following up with. He said it’s a big step and he didn’t feel ready to take the risk for any of them. I said it’s true, and you have to be careful, but it should be fun! It’s not a huge deal… it’s… scratching an itch. It doesn’t “go anywhere” except a few hours of amazing physical contact and someone to listen and appreciate him. He smiled and said he was way overdue for that!
I told him that my husband and I are open, so I don’t need to worry about stealth, but that I know how to help men keep themselves safe, and I try to stay anonymous. He nodded. He said he wanted to keep using the AM interface – no texts or emails – to keep himself safer. Probably a good idea but… yuck.
He asked how my meets usually go – where, when. I said mostly hotels or after awhile, maybe at my place. And that I can pay and he can give me cash. He nodded but seemed daunted at the idea of paying for hotels. He said he has kids in college. *sigh
I got him talking about his work. He had some great stories. He talked about the sports he likes to participate in – hockey, basketball, skiing. I told him I am only athletic in bed. He grinned. He said he is really out a practice in bed but hopes to get up to speed quickly. I told him about how I’ve learned so much in the last few years. Like what? He asked. So I got to tell him about how I used to think blow jobs were just sucking but I’ve learned they are more. “Oh?” he asked. I said they are about licking and touching, and he trembled. Heh. I am so sassy!
I mentioned I might retire in a couple of years. He said he could never retire – he has kids in college and other expenses that will keep him working and he likes it, so he’ll keep at it.
We talked about tumblr and my toys. He said the internet is very helpful for “inspiration.”
It got to be an hour and I decided this was enough for a first meet. He seemed surprised but said he hoped we could see each other again soon for “more adult activities.” I offered to take him into the handicapped-accessible bathroom right now for some kissing and groping. His eyes went wide but he declined. He said there would be time and a bed soon. He said he wanted me to know right away that he was interested. That was sweet.
I stood to leave and he got up and hugged me again. I felt good in his arms. He pulled back a little and kissed me quickly on the lips. So chaste. This guy has not been with a woman in a long time. And maybe never with one who likes sex.
He smiled and asked if he could do it again. I grinned and nodded, and he pecked my lips again and looked very pleased, like he had crossed some line and not gotten hit by lightning and was emboldened. Heh.
I smiled and took off up the stairs, wondering if I’d hear from him but not really caring either way. Which is probably good so I don’t get my hopes up but am pleasantly surprised if he writes. He does not seem to have thought this out, the cheating thing. Wonder if he will?
