August 25, 2016 Thursday
6:21AM Sassy
Good morning kid
6:36AM Phil
Good morning!
3:06PM Sassy
The big conference is OVER! I survived!! Another success. Great sessions, great socializing, great food and amazing teamwork!
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Sharing sexy stories
August 24, 2016 Wednesday
From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 10:59 AM
Subject: The view
Just as I was finishing my last meeting of the day yesterday,
gathering my papers off the marble table in the conference
room on the 36th floor, the sound of sirens wafted up from
the expressway below. Everyone else had left the room, so
I took a minute to lean over the marble counter and stare
down at the roadway. There was a horrible wreck of mangled
metal and shattered glass, several cars and a tractor trailer
twisted together. The traffic was stopped behind the mess,
and the cars on the other side barely moved, rubbernecking.
Suddenly, I heard the door close. I straightened up, but before I
could turn, I felt your arm around my waist, and felt the heat of you
on my back through my dress. You were already hard, pressed
tightly against my ass. I started to speak, but you put a finger
on my lips and teased a corner. I licked your thumb, and you moved
your hand down to unbutton my dress. Just enough to slip
your hand inside and tease a hard nipple. I moaned and let my head
fall back against your shoulder. You bit my neck and ran your
tongue across my skin.
You slipped your hand under my skirt and inside my underwear,
teasing my most sensitive spot. You pressed a finger inside,
unsurprised at the moisture gathered there. I was startled
as you lowered my underwear. I felt like my knees would
buckle, but you tightened your grip and spread my legs to
balance me against the counter. I panicked when I heard
the rasping sound of your zipper, but before I could form the
words in my mind to stop you, I felt you hot and hard against
my skin, and a low moan was all that escaped my lips. You
shoved it inside me, and your breathing grew ragged as you
watched yourself slide in and out. You kneaded the flesh of
my hips as you moved, then reached around me to rub the top
of my slit in time with your strokes. I was trying to be
quiet, but could not hold in all the gasps of pleasure as
you thrust deeper and deeper inside me, your balls slapping
against me. You felt the trembling start inside me, and
the clenching around you. You felt the pulsing, the searing
heat and suddenly lost control, pounding me into the wood
and stone, spurting up inside me over and over.
The only sound was our uneven breathing and the whirring
air conditioning. You pressed your cheek to my back and
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 11:04 AM
Subject: In between
Good morning Thad! I have two minutes between sessions and I am thinking of you! Hoping the dental work wasn’t too bad and you can relax and heal. I sent you a little snippet of erotica. I wrote it long ago but it still gets to me every time I read it. More later!
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 12:37 PM
Subject: mmmmmmmmmmm . . .
Nice! Pleasant surprise after an hour and a half in a dental chair! I am basically a wimp when it comes to dentists, but this appt. was much better than I expected/feared!
Tried to keep my mind focused on pleasant thoughts, so I daydreamed about being with you!
Hugs and gropes
T
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, August 24 12:38 PM
Re: In between
thanks! I’d like to read more! And of course do other things!
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday August 24, 2016 4:55 PM
Subject: Parking
Parking
After dinner, we went back to Susan’s black Lexus SUV parked in the far corner of the restaurant’s dark and almost deserted lot.
We had been flirting heavily over dinner, and immediately we began making out. Some heavy kisses over the gearshift console, and then she climbed over to my side of the car. “This will be more comfortable,” she murmured. I was in the partly reclined passenger’s seat. She knelt on the leather seat facing me and straddled my lap.
We kissed and groped and rubbed and fondled. For how long? Fifteen minutes? Half an hour?
Her tight jeans ground against the fabric covering my stiffening crotch, and I ground back with equal abandon. The friction got hotter and hotter, and my hands on her tight ass pulled her into my thrusts.
Susan’s loose angora turtleneck offered ample opportunities for my roaming hands to make forays into her bra. She responded to my hands fondling her breasts with deep lush kisses.
I picked up my grinding, harder and faster, my cock rock hard. My faster thrusts were matched by hers.
Her breathing became heavier, and her tongue left my mouth momentarily to flit in and out of my left ear. She murmured, “I’m starting to tingle.”
I redoubled my efforts.
Five minutes later I heard a small guttural moan; she shuddered once, twice, then maybe a dozen times, emitting tiny almost imperceptible cries.
“I think I heard an orgasm,” I whispered. She corrected me, “orgasms.”
She slumped into my arms, breathing heavily.
I could feel her wetness even through her jeans.
We cuddled and kissed a while longer.
“I’m so juicy.”
She reached down to my crotch again and stroked my erection still straining at the fabric.
In a low growl she whispered, “Spank me!”
I slapped her ass with my right hand. She squealed, and I slapped again.
“You’re a bad girl?”
She purred, “Mmmmm. . . . “
I slapped again, harder, and she started slightly from the sting of my hand.
“How bad are you? Does your husband know we’re here tonight?”
“Mmmm, I’m very bad. I let you make me cum!”
More slaps, left and right.
“Harder!” she hissed.
I spanked again half a dozen times. She gyrated on my lap again and her breathing grew more and more throaty.
“I’m cheating, I’m very naughty.”
Thwack, thwack.
“But, maybe I’ll get even naughtier . . .”
Thwack, thwack . . . thwack, thwack!
Again, low guttural cries.
Slap, slap, slap . . . slap, slap.
She was grinding very hard and fast.
“I’ll be bad, very bad.”
A short series of quiet cries, and she arched her body up from my chest and leaned backwards. Her cries turned into small high-pitched shrieks, and her body stiffened. She went rigid for a long moment, then slumped forward with a deep sigh.
Another deep kiss.
She fumbled for my belt and unzipped my pants. As my stiff cock sprang out, she stroked it with both hands, and leaned forward to kiss it . . .
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 4:46 PM
Subject: Home
Hiya T!
How’s that sexy mouth? So glad to hear your dentist wasn’t too mean. I used to get awfully nervous at the prospect of a dental visit but somehow after chemo it seems minor now. Not something I’d recommend to make them easier, but I’ll take it.
Day 1 of running the conference is over. Whee. I did not strangle my new boss! Instead of observing, or asking questions, she came in wanting to rearrange how we do things. After 14 years running this event, seeing most of the ways it can be goofed up and finding ways around it, that was hard to take. So I smiled and left her to it and went off to other things!
I am home eating Chinese food in my underwear with my feet up. My plan is to collapse into bed, perhaps look at naughty photos and play with a silver vibrating bullet, if I don’t fall asleep. I would offer to let you watch but the last man who watched told me, “It’s like watching paint dry for 20 minutes and then the wall explodes.” Heh.
Yes, I am a woman who likes sex. There are a lot of us out here! In public, I am demure, proper and even shy! In private… you already have some idea of how different I can be. I look forward to revealing more to you!
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-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 5:03 PM
Re: Home
Hi there
I think that nothing about the dentist could ever be as scary as chemo. You are a brave woman!
Quite a plan you have for the evening! Hopefully I’ll get to watch sometime! :>) the exploding wall sounds very interesting!
Just sent you a snippet of erotica I wrote a few years ago. I wonder if it will contribute to your evening’s fun?
So, when you are sitting around in your underwear, what are you wearing? And what kinds of naughty photos do you have in mind?
Lasciviously thinking of you!
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 10:49 PM
Subject: Sweet dreams!
I hope you had fun with your silver bullet. Please give me a full report! :>]
Your emails turn me on incredibly! I cannot wait to have you turn me on in person. I will explode!
hugs, gropes, kisses and more!
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 12:17 AM
Subject: Re: Sweet dreams!
Hiya T,
It seems very strange to write about such personal moments but what the heck. I saw some very salacious photos of women and men having fun! And I pressed that silver bullet on a very sensitive spot. One photo got me to thinking of you and I closed my eyes and suddenly… boom!! 🙂 Helped me sleep very solidly for four hours!
I adore turning you on. Here’s hoping I can an even better job in person. Exploding is fantastic!
Long, slow licks. You know where.
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-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, August 25, 2016
Re: Sweet dreams!
Yes, strange perhaps. But we both seem to be trying (with success, as far as I am concerned) to turn each other on. I am turned on! Hope you are too!
I will fall into slumber shortly, with visions of long, slow mutual licks!
Yummy!
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Home and horny
August 24, 2016 Wednesday
6:49AM Sassy
6:49AM Sassy
Good morning kid!
6:56AM Sassy
Off early to run day 1 of the conference
7:06AM Phil
Have fun! Good to be home and back at work! Have a great day!
10:39PM Phil
[photo of his hard cock and legs while he’s lying on a bed]
[photo of his cock while he’s stroking it with his legs and toes while he’s lying on a bed]
[photo of his hand on his cock with his legs and feet while lying on a bed]
10:40PM Phil
Thinking of you
Thinking of you
10:41PM Sassy
Mmmm…. been asleep since 5 pm… so glad I woke up to see that!
10:41PM Phil
Ha
10:41PM Sassy
You thinking of doing what with me?
10:42PM Phil
Yup
Thinking about an airport parking lot
10:43PM Sassy
Aha… I saw a photo on tumblr right before I went to sleep… reminded me of that day with you
10:43PM Phil
Was very sexy
10:44PM Sassy
You were in fine form… mmm mmm mmm
10:44PM Phil
Also thinking about being naked in your bed
You swallowing my cock
10:45PM Sassy
That was a magic moment for me
10:45PM Phil
Magnificent
10:46PM Sassy
So intense when I had waited and wanted and suddenly you were very real!
10:47PM Phil
That I was!
Naked, hard, ready to fuck
You were naked and ready to suck and fuck
Loved that tight hot pussy
10:49PM Sassy
SO so hot
10:51PM Phil
Loved being buried deep inside of you, feeling you take my cock
10:52PM Sassy
always feels like what I was created to do… you fit like no one else
10:52PM Phil
We fit
Your pussy is tight, wet, hot and was full of my thrusting cock. Felt so good
10:54PM Sassy
You and lobster inside me… a perfect day!
10:55PM Phil
Loved sitting at Legal with your pussy full of my cum
Actually a very hot and then very romantic evening
10:56PM Sassy
It was so cold that night and yet I was warm all over
10:56PM Phil
Mmmmm
Stroking my cock, remembering
10:58PM Sassy
I can get lost for hours in those memories
Wish I was stroking you
10:59PM Phil
Em easy to do, me too
Feels good
Put a toy on my balls
11:01PM Sassy
So good to know those memories keep on giving.
buzz buzz buzz…
11:02PM Phil
Uh huh
Nnnnnnnn
Yeah
[photo of him pulling on his cock]
11:04PM Sassy
I want to lick that!
11:04PM Phil
Oh yeah baby, lick it suck it
Slip a finger in my ass
11:08PM Sassy
Help you burn
11:08PM Phil
[23 second video of him stroking his cock]
Please
11:09PM Sassy
Oh my…
11:10PM Phil
Mmmmm
Visual
With sound
11:10PM Sassy
Fantastic! Makes my insides tingle
11:10PM Phil
I like that
11:11PM Sassy
There may also be some dripping going on
11:13PM Phil
Love to lick that up from your pussy to your ass and back!
11:16PM Sassy
That would have quite an effect!
11:16PM Phil
Ha ha
I just noticed the time, way past my bed time!
Sorry I woke you up, not really
11:19PM Sassy
Sleep well dear man… sweet sexy dreams!
Sleep well dear man… sweet sexy dreams!
Switching Thad to email
August 23, 2016 Tuesday
Switching from sending messages through Ashley Madison to using my mischief email always seems like a big step. I have to be interested in the guy, starting to trust him, and want to be able to write longer emails and share my erotica. I try to wait at least two days for any danger signs to pop up, but if we’re still conversing at that point, I go for it!
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via Ashley Madison
Date: Aug 23rd – 7:51am
From: Sassy
Message
Good morning T! Wow…you know how to start a gal’s day off right!! All I want at this moment is to answer all your questions and ask more. Sadly, I have to toddle off to work. *Sigh.
Would you like to switch to email? Do you have a mischief email address? No character limit. 🙂
Would you like to switch to email? Do you have a mischief email address? No character limit. 🙂
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via Ashley Madison
Date:Aug 23rd – 11:02am
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Hi there, my mischief email address is [redacted]. I’ll have to check if it still works; haven’t used it in over a year! Can’t wait to ask and answer questions, by email, but better still face-to-face! Hugs and nibbles
Thad
Thad
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SWITCH TO EMAIL
From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 1:07 PM
Subject: Connection
Hiya T! Tap… tap… Does this work? Let me know – don’t want to launch into anything before I confirm. 🙂
-S
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via Ashley Madison
Date: Aug 23rd – 1:12pm
From: Sassy
Message
Hiya T! I sent a short message to your email. Answer and I will respond more fully.
Mwah! 🙂 – Sassy
Mwah! 🙂 – Sassy
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 1:28 PM
Re: Connection
Knock, knock.
This email still works!
This email still works!
I’m here!
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 2:59 PM
Subject: Re: Connection
Hiya T!
Hooray for connecting in email! I like this interface so much better. I am about to exceed the character limit!
Glad you hear you enjoy my messages. I am adoring yours. Thank you for letting me poke around in your head. You make me so curious! It’s so great to learn more, see if we can have fun, but also silly… the most important things are how your skin feels on mine, and how you kiss and… hope I get to find that out too!
Let me get through to Thursday afternoon this week, and then I should have a better idea of what next week looks like.
Thank you for asking questions… for being interested. That is very sexy! There are no questions that are too personal. You can always ask… I will answer if I can! I am very open except on topics that identity me. A reversal of the usual situation…
I had long straight brunette hair all my life… it was a big part of “who I was.” They shaved it for chemo and I rocked a long wig for 6 months. Then my hair grew back in silver! Quite a shock. I am rocking the silver fox now. It’s below my shoulders. I also have hair “down there” if you are wondering.
Here’s a little history:
History
History
Part I
I was a workaholic, spending 70 hours a week at my office. My sister gave me a used “personal computer” in 1993 and put me on the internet. I met Hubby online in the summer of 1994. He wrote a beautiful erotic story and posted it to a USENET group – I thought it was written by a woman! I wrote to tell her I liked it and… surprise! I had a reason not to work so much!
He moved here from the Midwest to be with me. We got married about a year later. He got very ill and stopped touching me in 1999. When he got better, he never started again. I tried everything… he says it’s not me, it’s him. I just don’t know. I went 10 years without sex, figured that part of my life was over, and no one would want an old curvy married lady. And sex wasn’t much fun anyway, just a guy doing his thing and me waiting for it to be over.
I was a workaholic, spending 70 hours a week at my office. My sister gave me a used “personal computer” in 1993 and put me on the internet. I met Hubby online in the summer of 1994. He wrote a beautiful erotic story and posted it to a USENET group – I thought it was written by a woman! I wrote to tell her I liked it and… surprise! I had a reason not to work so much!
He moved here from the Midwest to be with me. We got married about a year later. He got very ill and stopped touching me in 1999. When he got better, he never started again. I tried everything… he says it’s not me, it’s him. I just don’t know. I went 10 years without sex, figured that part of my life was over, and no one would want an old curvy married lady. And sex wasn’t much fun anyway, just a guy doing his thing and me waiting for it to be over.
Part 2
In August 2010, an old flame from high school found me after 37 years. We “dated” for three weeks when I was 14, which amounted to sitting together at lunch and kissing under the stairs. I remembered his name and that he dumped me but very little else. Turns out he had traveled all over the world dreaming about me, wondering if our chemistry still burned… he begged to meet again. I figured he would never touch me, but it could be fun to have dinner. I talked to Hubby and he said go for it! So I flew to his city and… the chemistry was nuclear!! And he was totally different in bed from any other man… he made sure I had fun! He resurrected me sexually.
And he got me to have the mammogram that saved my breast and perhaps my life, and stayed with me online tantalizing my brain when my body was useless. I learned ways to excite a man far away. I began to explore my “Sassy” side. I looked for p0rn to teach me how to do things, and shared them. I wrote erotic stories. He was military, married and miles away, so he encouraged me to find a local option. I had no idea how to do that. I read about a lot of options but couldn’t imagine having any success online.
In August 2010, an old flame from high school found me after 37 years. We “dated” for three weeks when I was 14, which amounted to sitting together at lunch and kissing under the stairs. I remembered his name and that he dumped me but very little else. Turns out he had traveled all over the world dreaming about me, wondering if our chemistry still burned… he begged to meet again. I figured he would never touch me, but it could be fun to have dinner. I talked to Hubby and he said go for it! So I flew to his city and… the chemistry was nuclear!! And he was totally different in bed from any other man… he made sure I had fun! He resurrected me sexually.
And he got me to have the mammogram that saved my breast and perhaps my life, and stayed with me online tantalizing my brain when my body was useless. I learned ways to excite a man far away. I began to explore my “Sassy” side. I looked for p0rn to teach me how to do things, and shared them. I wrote erotic stories. He was military, married and miles away, so he encouraged me to find a local option. I had no idea how to do that. I read about a lot of options but couldn’t imagine having any success online.
Part 3
A rainy night in September 2012. My husband and my old flame forgot my birthday. I was online in an IRC chat room for cheaters. They are wonderful people just trying to make the best of it. They convinced me to put up a profile on Ashley Madison. I bet them no one would answer. I was wrong. 🙂
A rainy night in September 2012. My husband and my old flame forgot my birthday. I was online in an IRC chat room for cheaters. They are wonderful people just trying to make the best of it. They convinced me to put up a profile on Ashley Madison. I bet them no one would answer. I was wrong. 🙂
We can talk more later about fantasies…you’ve given me some ideas of where your mind is. Just want to be sure there isn’t some major kink I can’t help you with. I am not vanilla…maybe… butter pecan? A little more flavor and lots of nuts. 😉 I’ve explored a lot and mostly come back to two people being nice to each other… you do things, I do things, we do things… mmm… no ropes, not much pain, lots of variety!
I adore a wide range of food. Do you cook? I make really good reservations. 😉 Lobster is my favorite. Or this amazing dish from Mary Chung’s Chinese called suan la chow show that is pork wontons in a spicy sauce. Or the perfect filet mignon. Or a pizza with sausage and bacon and garlic. I’d better stop… haven’t eaten lunch yet!
As for religion, I grew up in the church – my dad was a minister – and I was into singing in the choir, being on committees, helping with events, even served on a national charity board… until 10 years ago. I was on the search committee and brought in a new pastor. I’ve dealt with ministers all my life, thought I knew how. But this one was… evil. I tried lots of ways to work with her and then around her and then… gave up. I miss it, especially the music and the special holiday services and sense of community. I help run a community project now… that is my community!
If you like, I will tell you more about Hubby and me and our conversations and what he knows about my affairs… the short answer is he does his thing and I do mine. He identifies as polyamorous, has a girlfriend he sees every Tuesday, is very open about it. Many of our friends are poly and open. I am a secretive person, keep my adventures quiet. We share the basics – he knows if I see someone – but no details. You can meet him if you like.
I am used to protecting the men I see and helping them protect themselves. Starting out with a military man who would face not only a furious wife but the morals clause of the military code of honor made me very circumspect. I can help you maintain a “don’t ask, don’t tell” situation. In my experience, your biggest risks are:
1) a strange change in your attitude (don’t get TOO CHEERFUL all of a sudden!),
2) a stray text sent to her or your son that was meant for me,
3) syncing your phone to the wrong machine that your wife also uses, or
4) a son who will hack your email.
Be careful on those fronts, and you’re golden. Many things I do are to keep you safe… no perfume or make-up to get on you or your clothes, no lush kisses in public… if you have any questions don’t hesitate to ask. I spent 4 years listening to cheaters all over the world tell about their successes and their mishaps, and I’ve read a lot of blogs written by AM adventurers.
In this same vein, I try to stay anonymous. Not so much worried about you, but about who might see our correspondence. I aim to be untraceable… no real name, no address, mischief email, not my real phone etc.
I am used to protecting the men I see and helping them protect themselves. Starting out with a military man who would face not only a furious wife but the morals clause of the military code of honor made me very circumspect. I can help you maintain a “don’t ask, don’t tell” situation. In my experience, your biggest risks are:
1) a strange change in your attitude (don’t get TOO CHEERFUL all of a sudden!),
2) a stray text sent to her or your son that was meant for me,
3) syncing your phone to the wrong machine that your wife also uses, or
4) a son who will hack your email.
Be careful on those fronts, and you’re golden. Many things I do are to keep you safe… no perfume or make-up to get on you or your clothes, no lush kisses in public… if you have any questions don’t hesitate to ask. I spent 4 years listening to cheaters all over the world tell about their successes and their mishaps, and I’ve read a lot of blogs written by AM adventurers.
In this same vein, I try to stay anonymous. Not so much worried about you, but about who might see our correspondence. I aim to be untraceable… no real name, no address, mischief email, not my real phone etc.
Please tell me lots of stories about your travels! And living abroad! Wow! I’ve traveled a lot too… more on that later!
I need to get back to work… ugh. I’d rather slide up over you on a bed and suck on you, but it has to wait. -Sassy
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 4:50 PM
Subject: !!!Re: Connection
Hi there, Sassy!
Finding out how our skins feel next to each other and how we kiss is top on my list of things I am eagerly curious about (!!!), but I realize that we’ll be playing 20 questions for a while longer.
When you figure out next week’s schedule, let me know!
I’m having some dental surgery tomorrow; I don’t know how much anesthetic I’ll be getting, but I imagine I will not be emailing much.
Thanks for your very nice message! Lots of things I am curious about, and will ask about later. Your relationship with your husband is fascinating. I am certainly curious about your other affairs! :>)
I didn’t want to ask directly about your cancer, but I assumed it was probably breast cancer! I’ve known quite a few breast cancer patients over the years, so I have an inkling of what you have been through! My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer and lived another 50 years, defiantly proud of beating the odds.
Vanilla vs. butter pecan?!? I’ve had a pretty vanilla marriage, but I think my brain is a little bit more on the peanut-butter-chocolate-crunch side of things. My wife has always been very conservative in bed, and there a lots of things I’ve wanted to try but haven’t or haven’t very much. Nothing rough, but maybe more experimental? (role playing, talking dirty (I bet you are good at that), toys, a blindfold or mask, that sort of stuff.)
What kinds of porno did you (do you) watch for inspiration?
You have certainly mastered the art of exciting a man from a distance!
Your last line is an real attention grabber! Grrrr!
Travel — some future message. Short answer, I have lived in abroad, and have traveled a lot!
Hugs and nibbles and MWAH
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 5:21 PM
Subject: Re: !!!Re: Connection
Hiya T!
You are a good correspondent. 🙂
Skin… skin skin…kissing… mmm… got lost in thought for quite awhile there.
Ah dental surgery! Hope that goes well. Thanks for the heads up. I will likely be mired in work.
I never know how much to say about other men… there are some strange and wonderful stories I can share later if you’re serious about hearing them.
Glad to hear your Mom carried on! I was so lucky – did not have most of the side effects they scare the crap out of you warning you about, was able to work except for treatment days… and have no lasting effect except for a small scar and 5 tiny blue tattoos you can explore.
I can talk dirty! 😉 Feels odd to type it but in the heat of the moment? You betcha. And I have a bunch of toys. We can talk more in person about role playing… the phrase scares me a little but I have a feeling you would make it fun. Blindfold on you or me? Or both?
Do you watch p0rn? What do you use for inspiration? Something in your head or online? At first I watched to learn specific things, like how to give a blow job or different positions. Now I go through spells with the p0rn. I feel like I’ve seen it all. Most of it awful! Not much that appeals to me, but lots that can inspire a man. When life is good and I’m having sex, I watch romantic stuff. When I get tense and it’s been awhile, I slide over into raunchy stuff like exhibitionism or crazy clubs scenes. Do you know about Tumblr? Is it cool to send samples or no?
Travel…later. Gotta run home… I will leave you with the vision of a buxom lady losing a piece of her lunch down her front and you having to help retrieve it. 🙂
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 10:47 PM
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 10:47 PM
Re: !!!Re: Connection
Hi Sassy
Glad to be a good correspondent! Being in touch is very exciting.
I am trying to process how we got from our initial contact on Sunday to a full-blown on-line flirtation (and I hope more) within a couple of days! My head is spinning (in very good ways)
As I mentioned before, your last lines are real turn-ons!
“I will leave you with the vision of a buxom lady losing a piece of her lunch down her front and you having to help retrieve it. :)” Some of my favorite thoughts or images involve busty, buxom, and cleavage! Happy to to lend a hand any time! Grope!
My query about other men was not meant to be intrusive, but the fact of the matter is that I am really turned on by the idea of women who like sex, so women who have sex with multiple partners is something I pay attention to. I think this may be a reflection of the fact that I have been married for so long to a woman with sexual interests that disappeared over the years, so I am fascinated by women who actually enjoy sex! I wish I had such a woman in my life right now! I hope that will be you, and us!
Don’t mean to scare you with role-playing. I have nothing particular in mind. I won’t do anything you don’t want to do. Blindfolds? On you, on me, both or separate! The kissing and fondling is the important point.
Yes, I know about Tumblr. If you want to send me images that turn you on, please send away!
I am inspired both by my head and by the internet. From time to time I write erotic stories for my own enjoyment, but I will never share them!!!
Yes, I view p0rn. I wouldn’t have made it these sexless years without some release! The following is unfortunately crude. My apologies in advance. What do I watch? Depends on my mood! I am intrigued with mature women who like sex and will have sex with multiple partners. I like big buxom women, and I like to see them having sex in various positions. I like to see men fondling, groping breasts. Blow-jobs are popular with me! Women on top. (See comments above, about my wife and how I think our relationship has probably shaped my fantasy sexual life!) And much more that is never on the agenda at home!
So much to talk about. I can’t wait to meet you to begin to unpack complicated feelings. and I can’t wait to figure out how to be with you in bed so that you can slide across the sheets and climb on me and begin to . . .
It will be hard to wait!
cheers
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 10:48 PM
Subject: Travels
Good evening T!
Hope you could enjoy this beautiful evening… I read over your messages, and got to thinking about my travels. Thank you for starting to share about yours. Wow! You have definitely gone further for longer. Will you tell me stories in bed? With my head on your shoulder and your hand on my breast. 🙂
My parents were big travelers with us, then I continued with my sisters, and did bits on my own. I have slowed way down because Hubby won’t fly, so we enjoy wonderful day trips now. New England has beautiful places!
Here’s a fun U.S. map of where I’ve been – only have 6 states to go! My best memories are of the red rocks in Garden of the Gods in Colorado Springs or standing on the black sand at the bottom of Waipeo Valley on the Big island of Hawaii, or touching a glacier in Alaska. My maternal grandparents lived in North Carolina, so we spent school vacations driving back and forth.
States Visited
• white for states where you’ve not been.
States Visited
• white for states where you’ve not been.
• red for states where you’ve not spent much time or seen very much.
• amber for states where you’ve at least slept and seen some sights.
• blue for states you’ve spent a lot of time in or seen a fair amount of.
• green for states you’ve lived in or spent a great deal of time in on multiple visits.
You can try it yourself if you feel like it.
https://www.gasfoodnolodging.com/visitedstates/generate/
I’ve also been out of the country:
Canada – Montreal, Quebec City, Toronto, and BC and the Yukon. Nothing like afternoon tea at the Empress Hotel in Victoria, BC.
Mexico – three times to Cancun. My little sister was an exchange student and likes to go back to refresh her Spanish.
Puerto Rico, to St. Thomas for carnival… I stayed with the local who took me dancing and told me, “Ain’t never seen no white woman move da way you do!” Trunk Cove on St John is the most beautiful beach in the world!
Sis, my little sister, lived in CA for awhile, so I got to visit the San Francisco area and Sonoma. Then she moved to the UK for two years, so I got to visit twice. I adore it there. I got to see the Queen! She attended the opening of an arena in Nottingham that featured the figure skating stars of the day from all over the world, gathered by Torvill & Dean! We also saw Princess Diana’s childhood home at Althorp, Parliament and Buckingham Palace, Harrod’s, Baker Street. And four shows in the West End! She knows how to show a gal around.
My dad was in summer school in Oxford when I was 7. We drove to Rome and back in three weeks, so I have a small girl’s view of Europe. My older sister kids me that I only remember when we were lost or there were ducks or doll houses. Mostly true! I remember something about England, the channel crossing from Dover to Calais, Paris, Lyon, Amsterdam, Edam, Munich, the boat down the Rhine, the Swiss Alps (cow bells!), Luxembourg, Lichtenstein, Monaco, Florence (with flood marks above my head), Rome, Venice, Marseilles, Nice, Brussels…
There is still a long list of places I want to see.
I always look around and wonder if I could live where I am visiting… and always come back to Boston!
-S
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To: Sassy
From: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 10:59 PM
Re: Travels
Stories in bed, your head on my shoulder, my hands on your breasts! Anytime sweet Sassy!
I am incredibly turned on by our emails!
We’ve got to meet face to face, skin to skin, lips to lips, as soon as possible!
T
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To: Sassy
From: Thad
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 12:17 AM
From: Thad
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 12:17 AM
Subject: Sweet dreams
Sweetest Sassy
I’m up late and about to crash.
Just want to say how much I am glad to be in touch, and how much I want to meet you!
As I drift off tonight, I will be thinking of you! Sassy dreams ahoy!
New zebra
August 23, 2016 Tuesday
Baby zebra cuteness alert!
Meet Rey, the Toronto Zoo’s new endangered baby zebra
Brett writes back
August 22, 2016 Monday
From: Brett
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday Aug 22, 2016 9:00 AM
Re: Long week
Re: Long week
Sassy,
My week was a little work wacky too but at the end of it I think I solved a big problem that might have held up our current project. Time will tell, I expect to know for sure by tomorrow.
I can’t imagine what video you watched to inspire such new antics. It must have been very sensual.
I hope we didn’t miss an opportunity with Hubby out! For me, weekends should go back to normal soon. This week will be crazy prepping for our fantasy football draft on Thursday. Lot’s of research and organizing required for that.
-brett
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Getting to know Thad
August 22, 2016 Monday
Date:Aug 22nd – 10:23am
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Hi there I’m just about to drive home, so I’ll write more later.
Quick answers:
one kid who lives elsewhere.
Eyes are brown, as is my hair. My beard is salt-and-pepper.
Guilt . . . hmmm I’ll have to think about that one.
Hugs and nibbles
Quick answers:
one kid who lives elsewhere.
Eyes are brown, as is my hair. My beard is salt-and-pepper.
Guilt . . . hmmm I’ll have to think about that one.
Hugs and nibbles
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Date: Aug 22nd – 10:28am
From: Sassy
Message
Good morning! Hope you have an easy trip.
Here’s to a long luscious kiss. Mwah!
Here’s to a long luscious kiss. Mwah!
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Date:Aug 22nd – 7:44pm
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Dear Sassy (or Saucey) It was a beautiful day for a drive. If I’d gotten your message about looking forward to a long luscious kiss, before I started out, I would have driven faster! :>)
You said that you will be getting busy very soon. Would you have time to get together for lunch either this Thursday (24) or this Friday (25)?
Cheers by the way, what is the color of your hair?
I should let you know that I loathe Donald Trump, hope you do too!
You said that you will be getting busy very soon. Would you have time to get together for lunch either this Thursday (24) or this Friday (25)?
Cheers by the way, what is the color of your hair?
I should let you know that I loathe Donald Trump, hope you do too!
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Date:Aug 22nd – 9:18pm
From:Sassy
Message
Hiya! So you made it back, eh? I’m so glad. Nothing must happen to you before i can see you. It was a perfect day outside. Too bad I was inside for most of it. This is my nutty week. Can we pick a day next week?
My hair is silver. And long. I wear it up most of the time but you can take it down, run your fingers through it… it’s softer than it looks. Maybe grab a handful while… oops. I got a little carried away there. 🙂
Ah politics. Fear not, I agree with you. True blue gal here. 77 days until we vote and can stop hearing his name please please.
Today’s troika of queries:
1) Are you sports fan?
I’m not a fanatic but keep up with figure skating and what the Sox are doing.
2) What do you fantasize most about, i.e. if we click, what do you want most, first?
3) What about you will surprise me?
People usually find the fact that I don’t watch TV unusual.
My hair is silver. And long. I wear it up most of the time but you can take it down, run your fingers through it… it’s softer than it looks. Maybe grab a handful while… oops. I got a little carried away there. 🙂
Ah politics. Fear not, I agree with you. True blue gal here. 77 days until we vote and can stop hearing his name please please.
Today’s troika of queries:
1) Are you sports fan?
I’m not a fanatic but keep up with figure skating and what the Sox are doing.
2) What do you fantasize most about, i.e. if we click, what do you want most, first?
3) What about you will surprise me?
People usually find the fact that I don’t watch TV unusual.
I’d better get some sleep… my brain is mush.
Sweet sexy dreams! – Sassy
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Date:Aug 22nd – 11:43pm
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Hi Sassy! Enjoy sweet dreams as I write!
I really enjoy your messages! Odd to realize we’ve only been in touch with one another for two days! Can’t wait to meet! Sorry this week doesn’t work, but next week I could meet for lunch on Wed or Fri. Or I could get together for a late afternoon drink on Tues, Wed. or Thurs.
Long silver hair! I love running my fingers through long hair, and grabbing a handful . . .
Glad to know that we are in synch about the Donald!
Your questions: you’ll know everything about me before we even meet (but don’t stop asking).
Sports – not a dedicated fan of any sport, but I watch the world series and the superbowl. I keep vaguely aware during the season of how the Red Sox and the Pats are doing, but I am actually more interested in sports news about fans or about the politics of sports. I always watch figure skating during the Olympics, but I don’t really know the finer points.
What do I fantasize about – **that is a loaded question!** (it takes two to tango, so it is hard to answer your question, except close-up ;>) I want to gaze into your blue eyes, hear your sultry voice, and appreciate your winning smile. All true! But you’ve tantalized me with talk of long luscious kisses, ear nibbling, and running my fingers through your silver locks. Those sound like good starters! Some groping and making out would be a good second course. I love foreplay (giving and receiving). Beyond that my fantasies could go in many directions, depending on where your’s lead you (and us, if we’re in this together!) So, send me something about your fantasies!
What will surprise you? Great question, but I don’t know. I think I’m a pretty normal guy with few pronounced eccentricities. (And if I try to tell you what will surprise you, it won’t be a surprise!)
I’ll drift off to sleep with sexy Sassy running – cavorting? — through my dreams! All best T
I really enjoy your messages! Odd to realize we’ve only been in touch with one another for two days! Can’t wait to meet! Sorry this week doesn’t work, but next week I could meet for lunch on Wed or Fri. Or I could get together for a late afternoon drink on Tues, Wed. or Thurs.
Long silver hair! I love running my fingers through long hair, and grabbing a handful . . .
Glad to know that we are in synch about the Donald!
Your questions: you’ll know everything about me before we even meet (but don’t stop asking).
Sports – not a dedicated fan of any sport, but I watch the world series and the superbowl. I keep vaguely aware during the season of how the Red Sox and the Pats are doing, but I am actually more interested in sports news about fans or about the politics of sports. I always watch figure skating during the Olympics, but I don’t really know the finer points.
What do I fantasize about – **that is a loaded question!** (it takes two to tango, so it is hard to answer your question, except close-up ;>) I want to gaze into your blue eyes, hear your sultry voice, and appreciate your winning smile. All true! But you’ve tantalized me with talk of long luscious kisses, ear nibbling, and running my fingers through your silver locks. Those sound like good starters! Some groping and making out would be a good second course. I love foreplay (giving and receiving). Beyond that my fantasies could go in many directions, depending on where your’s lead you (and us, if we’re in this together!) So, send me something about your fantasies!
What will surprise you? Great question, but I don’t know. I think I’m a pretty normal guy with few pronounced eccentricities. (And if I try to tell you what will surprise you, it won’t be a surprise!)
I’ll drift off to sleep with sexy Sassy running – cavorting? — through my dreams! All best T
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Date:Aug 23rd – 12:31am
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
The message I sent earlier ran up against character limit, so I had to cut a bunch of comments and questions. Here they are now!
You said “I crave the basics – a simple kiss on the back on my neck, holding hands, nibbling, a back rub. I will start to crave more as I get back into it, but for now the idea of little touches revs me up!” I’m in pretty much the same boat. It has been so long (and I mean years) that I have had many little touches, those alone will send me into 7th heaven.
Perhaps this is too personal a question, but how long have you and your husband been only room-mates? How long have you been married? (My wife and I got married shortly after college over 40 years ago. Still best friends, just not sexual partners!)
Some other questions:
What are your fantasies if we click? Physical and/or emotional?
You asked me about how I got involved with AM. Have you been on the site for a while?
What color was your hair before silver? How long is long?
Favorite foods? (yes, I’ve noted that you like lobster risotto . . . yum!)
You said “I crave the basics – a simple kiss on the back on my neck, holding hands, nibbling, a back rub. I will start to crave more as I get back into it, but for now the idea of little touches revs me up!” I’m in pretty much the same boat. It has been so long (and I mean years) that I have had many little touches, those alone will send me into 7th heaven.
Perhaps this is too personal a question, but how long have you and your husband been only room-mates? How long have you been married? (My wife and I got married shortly after college over 40 years ago. Still best friends, just not sexual partners!)
Some other questions:
What are your fantasies if we click? Physical and/or emotional?
You asked me about how I got involved with AM. Have you been on the site for a while?
What color was your hair before silver? How long is long?
Favorite foods? (yes, I’ve noted that you like lobster risotto . . . yum!)
Are you religious? I am not.
Have you traveled much outside the US?
(I’ve lived overseas, off-and-on for roughly 10 years.)
* * And here is a really serious question. My wife has told me several times (including at least once or twice in public) that she doesn’t care if I have an affair (she might not have used the term “affair”) as long as she doesn’t learn about it. I’ve attempted to get a more extended conversation going, but she doesn’t want to talk about sex in our marriage at all, as far as I can tell. So, my question is whether you and your husband have had a conversation about you having an affair? Does he know, does he care, does he object? On my part, whatever we end up doing with each other, it will be entirely behind closed doors. Let me know what you think about these issues
Sweet dreams T
Amazing grab
August 22, 2016 Monday
10:14AM Sassy
Good morning!
Great to see a photo of the manatees! They’re so sweet. I swam with them, petted them and fed them lettuce in Mexico…like big cows. I so wish I could walk a beach with you…hold your hand and quietly take it all in.
11:03PM Sassy
New guy in left field shows his stuff on a spectacular catch!
Great to see a photo of the manatees! They’re so sweet. I swam with them, petted them and fed them lettuce in Mexico…like big cows. I so wish I could walk a beach with you…hold your hand and quietly take it all in.
11:03PM Sassy
New guy in left field shows his stuff on a spectacular catch!
Boston Red Sox video (51 seconds)
Andrew Benintendi, you dropped something back there… our jaw! 
Benintendi makes an amazing grab to rob homer
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New AM man writes
August 21, 2016 Sunday
It never fails… I don’t hear from any Ashley Madison men for weeks, and at the start of my busiest week of the year at work? Boom! A new man writes! Philip started this trend six years ago this week.
I woke up Sunday morning to a lovely long introductory message!
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via Ashley Madison
Date: Aug 21st – 12:46am
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Hi! I am a 65-year-old guy, hoping to find a spark of romance and to develop a discreet relationship over time. I am low-key, well-educated, well-traveled, and people tell me I am charming and witty. Ethnic restaurants, museums, the New England Aquarium, old movies, jazz. Kissing and snuggling are things I love, but haven’t had much of in a long time (I’m in a roommate sort of marriage.) Please take a look at my profile and drop me a note if I sound like someone you would like to meet for lunch sometime so we could begin to get to know each other. Cheers
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Wow! He certainly knows how to write! Complete sentences, no typos and he knows how to spell discreet! He sounds nice. I looked at his profile – more sweet sentences and appealing ideas!
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Wow! He certainly knows how to write! Complete sentences, no typos and he knows how to spell discreet! He sounds nice. I looked at his profile – more sweet sentences and appealing ideas!
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Date: Aug 21st – 2:26pm
From: Sassy
Message
Hiya, How’re you this fine summer Sunday? Thank you for your nice message!
You picked a great profile name. I embrace the “both” theory – I like meat and fish! 🙂 And thank you for writing a profile without typos. Lunch sounds wonderful – give me a few messages to check that we’re on the same page and you’re not an axe murderer?
Three quick questions – What’s your favorite food for a special birthday dinner? What brings you to AM now? How did you hear about it? (I’m curious as well as Sassy!)
I adore the lobster for my birthday, and am also a big fan of tempura soft-shell crab and unagi nigiri at Genki Ya near Alewife. I’m on AM because Hubby and I are great friends, but haven’t had sex in a long time. And I beat cancer five years ago. I’m whole and healthy, and want to live life to the fullest!
Men say I am an awesome kisser, a great communicator, very discreet, no drama, super-nice… looking for fun and passion and a confidante. Is that you? Feel free to ask me whatever you like to see if we click, and tell me more about you.
Hugs with groping. -Sassy
You picked a great profile name. I embrace the “both” theory – I like meat and fish! 🙂 And thank you for writing a profile without typos. Lunch sounds wonderful – give me a few messages to check that we’re on the same page and you’re not an axe murderer?
Three quick questions – What’s your favorite food for a special birthday dinner? What brings you to AM now? How did you hear about it? (I’m curious as well as Sassy!)
I adore the lobster for my birthday, and am also a big fan of tempura soft-shell crab and unagi nigiri at Genki Ya near Alewife. I’m on AM because Hubby and I are great friends, but haven’t had sex in a long time. And I beat cancer five years ago. I’m whole and healthy, and want to live life to the fullest!
Men say I am an awesome kisser, a great communicator, very discreet, no drama, super-nice… looking for fun and passion and a confidante. Is that you? Feel free to ask me whatever you like to see if we click, and tell me more about you.
Hugs with groping. -Sassy
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Date:Aug 21st – 3:05pm
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Hiya On this particular fine summer day I am in away on vacation and thinking about lobster for dinner. Brief last summer break before September and the beginning of the academic year (I teach).
Here is a good summary of my marriage (courtesy of Ella Fitzgerald and Louis Armstrong):
“A fine romance, with no kisses.
A fine romance, my friend this is.
We should be like a couple of hot tomatoes
But you’re as cold as yesterday’s mashed potatoes
A fine romance, you won’t nestle.
A fine romance, you won’t wrestle.”
My wife and I haven’t nestled or wrestled in years. So it sounds as if maybe you and I are in a similar place.
Why am I on AM now? Good question. I browsed a bit a year or so ago, and actually met someone for lunch twice, but nice as she was, we didn’t click, and so I didn’t pursue anything since then. But maybe the reason I have browsed again is the fact that I am 65. I am not panicking about getting old, but 65 is a milestone that makes you pause to think about what you want out of life. And what I realize is that I would like to have the tingle of flirtation and romance again. Kissing, making out, groping, sex.
What would my favorite birthday dinner be? That’s tough. Probably the wonderful Afghan food at Helmand’s, or a great lobster risotto somewhere. (chocolate cake with a candle on it would be nice too).
I’m pretty sure I am not an axe murderer. I think of myself as level-headed, romantic, low-key, witty, charming, and gentle. Fire away with additional questions.
A hug and a grope, back at you!
Here is a good summary of my marriage (courtesy of Ella Fitzgerald and Louis Armstrong):
“A fine romance, with no kisses.
A fine romance, my friend this is.
We should be like a couple of hot tomatoes
But you’re as cold as yesterday’s mashed potatoes
A fine romance, you won’t nestle.
A fine romance, you won’t wrestle.”
My wife and I haven’t nestled or wrestled in years. So it sounds as if maybe you and I are in a similar place.
Why am I on AM now? Good question. I browsed a bit a year or so ago, and actually met someone for lunch twice, but nice as she was, we didn’t click, and so I didn’t pursue anything since then. But maybe the reason I have browsed again is the fact that I am 65. I am not panicking about getting old, but 65 is a milestone that makes you pause to think about what you want out of life. And what I realize is that I would like to have the tingle of flirtation and romance again. Kissing, making out, groping, sex.
What would my favorite birthday dinner be? That’s tough. Probably the wonderful Afghan food at Helmand’s, or a great lobster risotto somewhere. (chocolate cake with a candle on it would be nice too).
I’m pretty sure I am not an axe murderer. I think of myself as level-headed, romantic, low-key, witty, charming, and gentle. Fire away with additional questions.
A hug and a grope, back at you!
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Date:Aug 21st – 3:10pm
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Sorry, I forgot to congratulate on you cancer survivorship! That is a very big deal!
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Date: Aug 21st – 3:46pm
From: Sassy
Message
Hiya! Great to hear back and so quickly. Thanks!
If you wanted to get me drooling, the word lobster was a good way! Yum… hope you find a juicy one. Good you can get a break before school starts.
Next week is crazy at work but it should calm down after that. I’m that efficient office manager no one notices who takes care of all the admin details so the staff can focus on their work. There are teachers where I work but it’s a big place and I don’t interact with them much. Hope we’re not at the same place… hmmm.
Sorry to hear you are in the same boat I am with a room mate spouse. Maybe we can fix that if you take a shine to me. It is strange how sometimes people click and sometimes they don’t. Hope you have better luck with me that you did last time! I do like to nestle! and kiss, make out, grope… definitely sex. 🙂
I hear you about milestone birthdays. Interesting how a random number can bring on such reflections. Glad they brought you out to play now!
I adore the food at Helmand! The service is sometimes so glacial I lose patience, but I don’t go often enough to remember that. Have you been to The Red House in Harvard Square? Their lobster risotto comes very close to heaven. The lobster chowder there is the best thing I’ve ever put in my mouth, except for… um… where was I?
Three more questions:
If I could take you to a concert, any time in history, what would you choose?
How old were you when you first had sex?
Have you always lived in MA?
Hugs with groping, and an ear nibble. Just because. – Sassy
If you wanted to get me drooling, the word lobster was a good way! Yum… hope you find a juicy one. Good you can get a break before school starts.
Next week is crazy at work but it should calm down after that. I’m that efficient office manager no one notices who takes care of all the admin details so the staff can focus on their work. There are teachers where I work but it’s a big place and I don’t interact with them much. Hope we’re not at the same place… hmmm.
Sorry to hear you are in the same boat I am with a room mate spouse. Maybe we can fix that if you take a shine to me. It is strange how sometimes people click and sometimes they don’t. Hope you have better luck with me that you did last time! I do like to nestle! and kiss, make out, grope… definitely sex. 🙂
I hear you about milestone birthdays. Interesting how a random number can bring on such reflections. Glad they brought you out to play now!
I adore the food at Helmand! The service is sometimes so glacial I lose patience, but I don’t go often enough to remember that. Have you been to The Red House in Harvard Square? Their lobster risotto comes very close to heaven. The lobster chowder there is the best thing I’ve ever put in my mouth, except for… um… where was I?
Three more questions:
If I could take you to a concert, any time in history, what would you choose?
How old were you when you first had sex?
Have you always lived in MA?
Hugs with groping, and an ear nibble. Just because. – Sassy
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Date:Aug 21st – 3:53pm
From: Sassy
Message
Thanks for the cancer survival congratulations! Crossing the five year mark, when recurrence percentages go way down, is a big relief. I mostly forget about it now, except when someone else gets sick and I can help. I was lucky, found it early, was able to work most of the time through nine months of being cut, stabbed, poisoned and zapped, and kept my sense of humor. God bless the wonderful staff at MGH! I’m not into pink ribbons or rabid fundraising and such. I try to be a thriver, not just a survivor! But it can help you understand why I am out here looking for a man to hold my hand and rub the inside of my wrist with his thumb.
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Date:Aug 21st – 10:47pm
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Hi again This is not a response to everything you’ve asked since it is late and I’m in post-lobster (and wine) bliss-out.
I appreciate the ear-nibble! I love nibbling on ears (or being nibbled on myself). Can’t remember when last I received/gave such attention!
As for where we both might work, that is really a “hmmm . . . ” kind of question, and I have been trying to think about how best to deal with that. Frankly, when I sent you a message knowing that your posted yourself as being in Boston, I wondered if this could be too close! But at the moment my feeling is that we should explore whether we connect or not, and worry about proximity etc. after we know a bit more about each other.
“Three more questions:” (you have an interesting knack with questions!) If I could take you to a concert, any time in history, what would you choose? — tough choices! Concerts by Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, Dexter Gordon, on the one hand. Patsy Cline on another. Offenbach in Paris in the 19th century.
How old were you when you first had sex? — 17. She was much much more experienced than I was. Memorable for me, maybe not for her!
Have you always lived in MA? — Nope! I was born in the South, but my family moved to the West Coast when I was little. I still think of the West Coast as my “home town.” I’ve lived around here a long while but I still find myself a bit at sea in New England. I love living here but I constantly realize that it remains a semi-foreign culture to me.
That’s it for tonight! I’ll write some more tomorrow In the meantime I will fantasize about being kissed, groped and having my ear nibbled upon! Grrrr!
I appreciate the ear-nibble! I love nibbling on ears (or being nibbled on myself). Can’t remember when last I received/gave such attention!
As for where we both might work, that is really a “hmmm . . . ” kind of question, and I have been trying to think about how best to deal with that. Frankly, when I sent you a message knowing that your posted yourself as being in Boston, I wondered if this could be too close! But at the moment my feeling is that we should explore whether we connect or not, and worry about proximity etc. after we know a bit more about each other.
“Three more questions:” (you have an interesting knack with questions!) If I could take you to a concert, any time in history, what would you choose? — tough choices! Concerts by Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, Dexter Gordon, on the one hand. Patsy Cline on another. Offenbach in Paris in the 19th century.
How old were you when you first had sex? — 17. She was much much more experienced than I was. Memorable for me, maybe not for her!
Have you always lived in MA? — Nope! I was born in the South, but my family moved to the West Coast when I was little. I still think of the West Coast as my “home town.” I’ve lived around here a long while but I still find myself a bit at sea in New England. I love living here but I constantly realize that it remains a semi-foreign culture to me.
That’s it for tonight! I’ll write some more tomorrow In the meantime I will fantasize about being kissed, groped and having my ear nibbled upon! Grrrr!
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Date:Aug 21st – 11:54pm
From:Sassy
Message
Hiya hot stuff, Thank you for writing more tonight! Fun to think of you in a post-prandial bliss typing to me.
You make me smile. I crave the basics – a simple kiss on the back on my neck, holding hands, nibbling, a back rub. I will start to crave more as I get back into it, but for now the idea of little touches revs me up!
I puzzled over the employer thing, too. Your solution makes sense. Now you’ll be looking at all the admins wondering… hee hee. I am not around teachers much, and I tend to stay anonymous, so we may not even have deal.
Thank you for answering my questions and telling me little stories. I adore that! A jazz fan eh? With country and some can-can! Wow… I like folk, a cappella and Broadway tunes, mostly to sing along. I was lucky to see David Wilcox, my favorite folksinger, in the back room of the Burren recently. Incredible to sit 5 feet from him – he usually plays places with 5,000 people! Patsy… ah yes. I’ve sung her songs. She reminds me of another favorite, Patti Page. I can also move to the current grooves like Uptown Funk or Meghan Trainor’s All About the Bass. I am a figure skating fan and have fun with the music it teaches me.
I was 17 also, with my high school sweetheart. Neither of us knew what we were doing and it was… dull. We puzzled over why adults liked it. I’ve learned a lot since then!
I was raised in upstate NY. Came to MA for college and stayed. I think I’ve got it now.
Three more questions:
Do you have children? Grandchildren?
My husband adopted two cats while I was in chemo, but we never made it to parenthood. I dote on my young niece.
Are you going to face any guilt?
I thought I should feel some but I don’t.
Where is your favorite place of all your travels?
Oh… one more. What color are your eyes?
So happy to spark some fantasies. Hope you have sweet sexy dreams. -Sassy
You make me smile. I crave the basics – a simple kiss on the back on my neck, holding hands, nibbling, a back rub. I will start to crave more as I get back into it, but for now the idea of little touches revs me up!
I puzzled over the employer thing, too. Your solution makes sense. Now you’ll be looking at all the admins wondering… hee hee. I am not around teachers much, and I tend to stay anonymous, so we may not even have deal.
Thank you for answering my questions and telling me little stories. I adore that! A jazz fan eh? With country and some can-can! Wow… I like folk, a cappella and Broadway tunes, mostly to sing along. I was lucky to see David Wilcox, my favorite folksinger, in the back room of the Burren recently. Incredible to sit 5 feet from him – he usually plays places with 5,000 people! Patsy… ah yes. I’ve sung her songs. She reminds me of another favorite, Patti Page. I can also move to the current grooves like Uptown Funk or Meghan Trainor’s All About the Bass. I am a figure skating fan and have fun with the music it teaches me.
I was 17 also, with my high school sweetheart. Neither of us knew what we were doing and it was… dull. We puzzled over why adults liked it. I’ve learned a lot since then!
I was raised in upstate NY. Came to MA for college and stayed. I think I’ve got it now.
Three more questions:
Do you have children? Grandchildren?
My husband adopted two cats while I was in chemo, but we never made it to parenthood. I dote on my young niece.
Are you going to face any guilt?
I thought I should feel some but I don’t.
Where is your favorite place of all your travels?
Oh… one more. What color are your eyes?
So happy to spark some fantasies. Hope you have sweet sexy dreams. -Sassy
Sporting behavior
August 21, 2016 Sunday
9:21PM Phil
[photo of a beautiful beach at sunset]
9:22PM Sassy
Spectacular!
9:22PM Phil
[photo of him smiling, wearing a reversed baseball cap]
[photo of a beautiful beach]
9:23PM Sassy
Awww… you look relaxed.
9:23PM Phil
Yeah, this doesn’t suck
Smoking a cigar in the surf under amazing stars
9:24PM Sassy
Could do that every night?
9:24PM Phil
Oh yeah, I like it here.
So peaceful
Listening to music
9:28PM Sassy
Sounds ideal.
9:30PM Phil
Looked at houses today. Lots of tiki bars and plenty in my price range on the water
9:39PM Sassy
That one place looking incredible. Will it be safe in a storm?
9:42PM Phil
Has automatic shutters on all doors and windows. It’s up off the water a bit. We want something exactly like that with a small boat. The neighbors say they do ok
9:43PM Sassy
Can you hire a pool company? Keeping those up is tricky. Does it have a great bathroom or two?
9:44PM Phil
Spectacular neighborhood and exactly what I hoped for in retirement. I’ll stay in the DC area another few years but would like to buy a place while the rates are still low and use it as a vacation home
9:45PM Sassy
Can you rent it out when you’re not there to make some back?
9:45PM Phil
Bathrooms are spectacular. I had a pool for 20 years but would hire someone here
Sassy
Oh right… I remember now.
9:46PM Phil
We could but would rather not
9:46PM Sassy
Is there a military base around there, PX etc.
9:47PM Phil
Houses are cheap compared to DC so not much of a mortgage
Lots of military folks
So yeah, all that stuff is available
9:48PM Sassy
Wow
That kid from our little hometown has come far!
selling your other property?
9:48PM Phil
Yeah
My retirement income is generous so we should manage ok
9:50PM Sassy
Wowzers
9:51PM Phil
I still make 95% of what I made on active duty in retirement pay
9:51PM Sassy
I am looking into retirement at age 60
9:51PM Phil
Plus my retirement from the current job
9:51PM Sassy
Had my broker crunch the numbers… he said I have 133% of what I’d need.
9:51PM Phil
I’ll work till I’m 65 cause I’d go crazy other wise
That’s awesome!
9:52PM Sassy
My employer has this benefit where if I work until a certain age and service, I get retiree health care
9:52PM Phil
We won’t be rich but we will get by, especially down here
9:53PM Sassy
That date is only two years away… so I could go anytime after that
9:53PM Phil
My medical and my wife’s is free
That’s awesome!
9:53PM Sassy
We plotted for me to pay for stuff until my pension kicks in, then SS… and I’d still have lots of money. Mom took good care of us.
9:54PM Phil
That’s very cool too
9:54PM Sassy
It’s freaky to have my pipe dreams all of sudden look possible and less than 3 years away
I will find some volunteer work or even another job. Thinking about leaving helps me put up with the hard days now.
9:55PM Phil
: )
[photo of him smiling in the shower from the chest up]
In the shower I go
9:55PM Sassy
mmm mmm mmm…
Rub something for me
9:59PM Phil
Ha!
10:59PM Sassy
Great to see these women recognized for their sporting behavior!
10:59PM Sassy
Great to see these women recognized for their sporting behavior!
https://www.si.com/olympics/2016/08/21/abbey-dagostino-nikki-hamblin-fall-sportsmanship-award
Though they failed to medal, runners Abbey D’Agostino and Nikki Hamblin were given special Olympic medals for their display of sportsmanship last week.
D’Agostino and Hamblin collided during the 5,000m on Tuesday and paused during the race to make sure they were both alright. D’Agostino ended up finishing the race despite suffering a torn ACL, sprained MCL and torn meniscus. For their actions, both runners were presented Saturday with the Pierre de Coubertin medal, awarded to those who exemplify the Olympic spirit.