With Philip nearby and not finding a way to see me, and not having seen The Northerner in over a month, I was going crazy. I get desperate when I haven’t had sex for over a month. This is when I tend to do stupid things.
Tuesday afternoon I needed a distraction in the middle of a busy day at work, so I decided to log in to Ashley Madison to see if there were any new men to read about. A guy winked at me right away, so I looked at his profile. It was pretty good! He’s about my age, my height, cute face, with beautiful thick white hair! A bit wordy. But he’s kinky. And he’s from New Mexico. Why is he writing to me from so far away? I moved along.
He writes well! I looked at his profile again – so he’s in town on business. I tried having dinner and
playing with a Traveling Man once about three years ago, and have mostly decided it’s not my thing. But it couldn’t hurt to flirt, right? And if he wrote me, I should write back. It’s only polite, right?
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Date: Apr 26th – 1:28pm
From: Sassy
Hiya Tim,
Thanks for your note and for reading my profile. Today I am definitely wishing I could’ve stayed under the covers with someone. Too bad I have to be in the office! At least I can flirt a little over lunch. Three quick questions. (I am curious as well as Sassy.)
1) When you say “in Boston” are you in the city or out in the burbs?
You don’t have to say where exactly.
2) Are you here for a once-for-a-week gig, or longer term, or here now and then?
3) How old were you when you first had sex?
Hugs with groping! -Sassy
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Date: Apr 26th – 1:33pm
From: Oil Man
5am by the Tip O’Neil Federal Building off Sudbury.
I am here for a conference, leave Thursday noonish.
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Date: Apr 26th – 2:13pm
From: Sassy
Hiya Tim, Sorry this is not my style. I’m more a long-term gal. Best of luck with the buxom Boston beauties!
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Date: Apr 26th – 2:13pm
From: Oil Man
OH NOOOOO !!!! You’re dumping meeeee!!!
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Date: Apr 26th – 2:19pm
From: Oil Man
Take care lovely one. 😉
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So we exchanged messages and it turned out this is an honest offer for a one-time thing. He’s only here until Thursday and doesn’t come to Boston much. So I thanked him and sent him on his way.
He was very sweet about being upset about that, and quite gracious. I smiled the whole rest of the day thinking of how fun that was, but glad I didn’t go further. One-night stands are not my style. Being with The Traveler three years ago was odd, and the only other time I met someone after a quick correspondence, he attacked me. Just not worth the risk. I was sad… he seemed so nice! There was this spark… Did you see it? *sigh
Later in the evening he wrote back.
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Date: Apr 26th – 5:47pm
From: Oil Man
Damn. You sounded perfect . . .
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I smiled but resisted answering. I do not want to be tempted to do something foolish!
But the words stuck with me… and right before I was closing up my computer to go to bed, I couldn’t resist writing him back.
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Date: Apr 26th – 11:49pm
From: Sassy
Awww… I hear you. Thank you for saying. I am smiling over your messages…wondering.
Good thing we stopped while we still think it’s perfect!
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Date: Apr 26th – 11:51pm
From: Oil Man
Not goid at all, you still seem to be perfect
ah, sighhhhhh
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Date: Apr 26th – 11:52pm
From: Oil Man
Good nod goid, perfection is unreachable.
But it is so much fun to try
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Date: Apr 26th – 11:54pm
From: Oil Man
And me here in a secret live nest, king size bed,
sighhhhhh
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Date: Apr 26th – 12:02am
From: Oil Man
Secret love nest, that is,
damn phone
My fingers need to lose weight
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Date: Apr 26th – 12:05am
From: Sassy
Want to talk on the phone?
Torture ourselves further in another medium?
Give your number and I’ll call.
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Date: Apr 26th – 12:06am
From: Oil Man
I would love to!!
[his mobile phone number]
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I asked if he’d like to talk on the phone. He was so pleased – sent me his number right away. So I called him. He has a beautiful voice and speaks well. We talked for two hours! He was easy to talk with, and a good listener – let me ramble about my trips to his area, and I let him tell me about his fantasy to give a gal an olive oil massage with mild restraint and blindfold. Never heard of using olive oil! It sounded strange but harmless enough.
He used the word germane at 2 am! He begged to meet me. Breakfast? Lunch? Dinner? I finally agreed in principle to a 6 pm dinner date near his hotel, but asked him to check with me in the morning.
He asked me to bring three things – a small amount of olive oil and two vibrating toys. He had shared five photos, so I sent him four photos – my cleavage in a new bra, a nipple shot, a panties shot and finally… my face at lunch last January! He didn’t run screaming. Phew.
I went to sleep with a smile on my face and a tingle between my legs!