September 20, 2015 Sunday
Here’s a little giggle for you today. And a question:
These words show up regularly in men’s profiles on Ashley Madison in the “Preferences and encounters I am open to” section. It’s one of the dreaded “checkboxes.” I puzzle over them. How can anyone like the idea?
I label them “notch guys” and stay away – all they want is another notch in their bed post, a quick fuck, another hole to stick it in and run? So not my thing! First times are rarely worth anything except a step on the road to better days… the nerves, the unfamiliarity, the likelihood of an early finish… it’s the second time or the third when it gets really good. Maybe they don’t notice any of that… I dunno.
I am not looking for love or commitment or (as so many men say) to “change their situation.” I certainly am not going to change mine for them. And I understand it’s not going to be “long-term.”
But one time? No thanks.
If you have any clue on why this is a thing, let me know!
Two words… new pussy.
Remember men orgasm close to 100% of the time regardless of the skill level of their partner. The same is not true for women.
Ashley Madison profiles, oh my goodness some are absolute tripe especially the one night stands, in my opinion a quick poke and onto the next one type of guy. I feel pleasure also comes from a little bit of familiarity and the ability to say “touch me, feel me”