Monthly Archives: September 2015

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Risk life and limb

Monday, September 15, 2014
Kris: OMG. FINALLY.!!!!!! You really are incorrigible! Willing to risk life and limb.  just to get laid.  and not all that well (give you quarter later).  when? where to? R.I.? 9:00 AM
Me: My goodness you’re insulting this morning! To both of us! My week is open except Tuesday evening. Could take an afternoon off if you like, or focus on the weekend. Not sure about RI vs Gloucester. You have a preference? 11:58 AM
Kris: L0L…”my goodness”?  “insulting”? Too “sensitive/gentle.” Where’s your sense of humor?! (Put Sassy on the phone…she’ll come back with something sarcastic like: “Ha, ha…wise guy…and that will be $1 for the massive self-deprecation.”) If you could get Friday afternoon off that might work.  but need to see what schedule looks like first.  should know by Wed. Either Gloucester or R.I.  no preference. can u afford to split the costs?  serious financial pressure lately.  but want to get a room.  maybe spend night? 12:29 PM
Me: Sounds so good. We’ll work it out. 5:01 PM

Kris: 🙂 5:31 PM

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Go ride

Monday, September 15, 2014

9:40pm Phil 
Hope you had a great day!

9:40pm   
Thanks!  It was better than last week, which isn’t saying much, but is something.

Kris wrote… he wants me to ride his bike, show him the places I love in RI

9:41pm Phil 
Well………

Go ride

9:41pm   

So last week he is pushing me away, this week he wants me to spend the night

9:42pm Phil 
This is very tough. He is on an emotional roller coaster. Help him ride it out
 
9:42pm   
I’m trying to get over my fears and go

That’s my plan.  Here when he wants, don’t bug him otherwise.

9:43pm Phil 

Riding’s a blast, it truly is
 
9:53pm
I am trusting you and him… if he kills me, it’s been wonderful knowing you!

9:54pm Phil 
Trust me, you will love it. He won’t kill you and you will be glad you went.

9:55pm   

Can you talk to each other or mostly not, when you’re riding?

9:57pm Phil 
You can, just lean forward, it’s a very pleasant and exhilarating experience


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Quid pro quo

Sunday, September 14, 2014
Me: Hiya! Hope you’re having a good day. 6:23 PM

Kris: Hi, had 2 dates in last 2 days – both were 2nd dates. 

1) yesterday had dinner on the shores of Lake Champlain in VT (175 miles from my house…350 mile round trip last night just for a dinner date!) older lady, pretty, nice, but still raising too many kids (has total two dozen or so combined bio, step and adopted kids!) went back to her house after dinner and met a number of them. – really nice kids…huge gorgeous house in upscale neighborhood, but just too much with all the kids.  and though she’s pretty… age is showing a little too much (of course, age is not showing on ME at all. I still look 21. LOL). will b gently saying goodbye to her. 9:56 PM

Kris: 2) Today had “dream date” 2nd date – pretty, funny, smart, my age. Decided to go on first bike ride of her life! I wanted you to take the real “virgin ride” but, alas…today’s date was the first woman to take a real ride. Picked her up at apartment at 9:30 this morning, took seashore roads all the way up into Maine. Gorgeous ride and day.  She thought she would be scared, but ABSOLUTELY LOVED IT! had brunch – very ritzy….gorgeous site on ocean. next text is VERY IMPORTANT!!!!! 10:13 PM

Kris: I WANT U TO FORCE YOURSELF TO LET ME GIVE U RIDE ON BIKE TO THAT BOATHOUSE IN R.I.. U DO THAT AND WE’LL GET HOTEL. BREAK MY “RULES” (provided your latest meets wore condoms….and u tell me the truth). no sex with my dates.  woman tonight initiated light kiss goodnight on mouth, quick peck and home I went. PLEASE LET ME TAKE YOU FOR A BIKE RIDE. “QUID PRO QUO” (“this for that”).  I get what I want and u get what u want. wink. Alfalfa 10:25 PM

Me: Good to hear about your adventures! My family spent Thanksgiving one year up in Maine, turkey overlooking the ocean… very special place! 10:37 PM

Kris: SOOOO…BIKE RIDE????? PLEEEEEEEEEEEEZ!!!!!!! 10:48 PM

Me: Yes. 11:07 PM



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Thinking too much

Saturday, September 13, 2014
8:56am
You were up late… hope you had fun!  I woke up early, getting thing done around here, then off to Mom’s. Whee!

I am thinking too much… you  know how that is.  Something needs to give… not sure what.  Praying for guidance, some hint toward a new path… have a fun day!

9:25am Phil 

I hear you. Tough when the job and home suck. You have no sanctuary. Sat up with my kid, wining today and Freding tomorrow.

12:47pm
Took Mom on an adventure out in the burbs.  I had a yen for a salad bar, so we wandered out to Westborough!  So many delicious choices!  

2:07pm
We went on a grocery store adventure to the first Wegman’s in MA – drove up to Northborough.  The place is a zoo!  HUGE food court, humongous store… whee!

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Sexy Toes

Friday, September 12, 2014

8:02am 

TGIF!  Headed to another schnitty day at work, then dinner at Sis’ house with NC cousin who just started at Harvard!  Have a great weekend kid!

8:27am Phil 
You too! My kid is coming up today with a friend. Going to a wine festival tomorrow with her and friends. Sunday it’s down to another office early so I can be settled for FOOTBALL and then a week there working. Whoo Hoo!

5:28pm Phil

[Photo of Philip in a sweatshirt smiling]
5:56pm   
Hubba hubba!

5:57pm Phil 

I don’t know about all that facial hair but it’s fun for now

Gonna have a birthday soon.  Shit! Don’t feel old.  Feel 20 yrs younger!


10:48pm
You are as young as you feel! 

11:02pm Phil 
[photo of Fred and her daughter at a bar]
11:02pm Phil 
They make me feel young

11:04pm   

Rock on!

11:04pm Phil 
Yeah babe

11:05pm Phil 


[photo of Philip’s legs and feet propped up in front of the fire pit]
11:06pm   
Oh sure… tease me with those sexy toes!

12:07am Phil

: )


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Postponing The Talk

Wednesday, September 10, 2014
Kris: Free for a visit tonite? No sex – need to talk. Dating potential wives, then what? Remarry and keep cheating? Can’t do it. U know me…I can’t do “ex-affair partner turned ‘just friend’ either. Tried that already, didn’t work. Plus, Sassy won’t accept that crap…and real you can only restrain her up to a point. It’s not fair to u. So if not tonite, some night soon, to talk. 12:36 PM

Kris: I know this isn’t a talk u want to have. I don’t, but u mean too much to me to do it some other way.  When it’s a good time/day/evening let me know.  You have already done some work in letting me go…..just need to talk about when it really happens, much as you don’t want to talk about it and just “live in the moment” 5:03 PM

Me: Sorry – crazy work, just seeing this. What time did you want to meet? 5:04 PM

Kris: Is it a good time tonite….don’t need to rush it. can do some other time if u r tired. just been on my mind a lot lately 5:06 PM

Me: I’m worn out. Let’s work on another night. Thanks! 5:21 PM

Kris: Ok.  let.me know. Rest. have a good night. Hug 5:27 PM