Birthday blow job

Sunday, September 21, 2014
            
7:16am Phil 
You ok girl? 

Had a horrible Nite. Beach Gal called last night to wish me a happy birthday.  That was nice but she proceeded to tell me that her boyfriend was really into cocaine and she tried it and likes it. The worst sound I have ever heard was her snorting that poison up her nose. Her guy won’t quit, she wants out but likes it, loves the guy but hates what he does. They buy from a dealer which is the avenue to getting arrested and a government employee losing her job. I can’t believe the girl I know would snort cocaine or even allow it in her house. I knew this guy was a dirt ball. I want to go down and beat his stupid ass but I also know he did not make her do this. She made the decision to start. What a nightmare.

8:25am
First – Have a fantastic birthday!

Second – Beach Gal.  Wow.  You can’t intervene.  But can you think of someone who can?  I worry for you if the cops get her and start going thru her contacts.  Be very careful!   I’m going to pray for her.

8:33am Phil 
I’m heartbroken. What’s she thinking and having been through this with my kid, the cops knew his dealer and him. Only a matter of time. Her asshole boyfriend has been arrested for possession and dealing. She’s too smart for this, how do you decide to walk down this road? Guess it was gaining acceptance from the douche, I hate this so much. I am so anti drugs and for my sweet girl to fall into this hurts me so much. 

Appreciate the birthday wishes

8:36am 

So sorry kid.

8:40am Phil 
Me too but I guess I always knew she had this kind of personality

10:59am

[photos of his birthday festivites]

Wow… you are doing it up right!  Beach, donuts, football… now if only I could give you the present I have in mind for you.

11:02am   

I see you standing in front of a full length mirror, with facing to the side.  There is a buxom naked woman kneeling at your feet… with her talented mouth wrapped around your gorgeous cock!  You can look down at her, or look left into the mirror, or close your eyes and savor.  Nothing like a sassy birthday blow job!

11:03am Phil 

I’d like that too! Wow! What a visual that is! Thank you! I need some cheering up!

Very concerned about my buddy. Been reading how hard it is to kick and how damaging it can be. I truly am crushed. Just can’t believe she would do this and she is so ashamed mostly cause she likes it.
8:34pm
Thank you for calling!  So great to hear your voice!! 

I’m up in Gloucester at Lobsta Land eating… you know what.


Meet #33 Part 2 Divine Intervention

Saturday September 20, 2014

[If you missed Part 1, click here]

It was lovely to wake up with Kris nestled beside me in a hotel bed!  He played with my breast as I woke up and smiled at me so sweetly!

First thing this morning he said he could cancel his Sunday afternoon thing (a date with another “potential wife,”) so we wouldn’t be rushed leaving Bar Harbor on Sunday.  It was supposed to warm up, so I resigned myself to going on. He didn’t want to give up on a non-refundable hotel reservation.  He asked me if I really wanted to skip heading north and I took a deep breath and… his phone rang.  
It was one of his new renters, saying there had been a fire at his house!  He and another renter had smelled smoke, discovered a fire on the deck, put it out with the garden hose, and a neighbor raced over with a fire extinguisher.  He said it wasn’t bad, but the back patio door had shattered so the house was open to the elements.  So he had to go home to deal with it.  It is such a mess for him, just one more stressing thing at a time when he needs life to go better, and a financial drain when he is beyond tapped out.  I hate to say, but I saw it as divine intervention to keep me from having to spend another two days on the motorcycle!  
So we packed up, had a quick breakfast at a fun bagel place – Beach Bagels.  I ate a wonderful everything bagel with store-made chive cream cheese that had fresh chives in it!  Yum!  
He offered to take me home, but I knew he really wanted to see the damage and start to deal with it.  So we went to his place.  The highway part was still icky – cold and windy on the back of his motorcycle, but the sun came out and the country roads near his place were lovely!  I could relax and be warmer and see the possibility of being able to ride and not be completely miserable and terrified the entire time.  Like the boating with him, I don’t think it will ever be my thing, but something I can do it to please him and find facets that are not so bad. 
When we arrived, I stayed by the bike unloading our stuff to give him a chance to survey the damage alone.  After a bit he called to me to come on up.  I took some photos for him.  His house looked bad on bad outside with a hole in the deck near the house, the shattered glass deck door and seared siding.  He dealt with insurance calls and the fire dept. and so forth.

The fire department guys came to take a look.  They took photos and samples and poked around, said it looked like an electrical short, but they’d need to investigate further.  He is very lucky there was no interior damage and the renter was there to put it out. 

I went out to his garden and picked veggies to make us lunch.  So wonderful to taste fresh cucumber and tomatoes!  I wanted to stay to help and listen to him, but he pointed out he wouldn’t be able to entertain me, running around to clean up and repair the door, then he had to do some work for his job until likely around midnight, and I really could not stay there, as he had told his renters no overnight guests so he couldn’t have me there.  He said we could go to a hotel late night, but that seemed like a poor use of resources.  I looked for ways I could help, but gathered that he needed me out of his hair.
So I called Hubby, asked him to change his plans and come get me.  He had been totally freaked out about my motorcycle riding, so he agreed very quickly.  He was there in a little over an hour.  He wanted to take off right away, but Kris invited him to look at the damage and use the bathroom.  He agreed uneasily, but got into talking with Kris trying to figure out what caused the fire, and go on a quick tour around the house and yard.  I marvel at how well we interact!  
I hated to leave Kris alone to deal, but he assured me it was better this way.  I gave him a big hug, tossed my stuff in my car and took off for home.  

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Me: I’m home. Thank you for my first bike trip and a wonderful night! 4:24 PM
Kris: you’re such a good sport!  just because you knew I’d like it. 🙂 5:21 PM
Me: Just woke up from 4 hr nap! Hope your work is going smoothly! 9:17 PM
Kris: bike ride really wore you out eh?…lol.  chugging along.  ugh! 9:31 PM
Me: You finish enough? Hugs. 12:02 AM
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I spent Saturday night bouncing around the internet and texting Kris every now and then to see how he was doing.  I was wishing I had stayed up there so I could go into the next room to hug him periodically, but knowing that would’ve been a bad idea this particular day. 
I crawled into bed with Hubby.  It was so tough to lie next to “Mr. Don’t Touch Me” instead of cuddled up with Kris listening to the waves in Maine.  I hate it when going away with Kris makes me see the flaws in my “real life.”  *sigh  At least I didn’t die in a motorcycle accident!  And I have wonderful memories of a stellar dinner overlooking Perkins Cove and some sexy cuddling!  


Not dead

Saturday, September 20

7:52am
Good morning!  Had my first motorcycle ride!  Not dead yet!
       
8:31am Phil
Did you like it?

8:31am Phil 

[photo of Philip all sweaty at the beach in a t-shirt smiling]
8:32am Phil 
Running on the beach

12:32pm

Fire @ K’s house so we had to dash there. 
No Bar Harbor for me and a big mess for him!

1:17pm Phil 

Oh lord, hope it was not the crazy wife

2:05pm

No – she is long gone out of state. 
Thinking one of his renters smoking or something electric.   
Just one more stress he did not need
If it weren’t for bad luck, he’d have no luck at all!

2:14pm
 Phil 
Geez

2:17pm   
Luckily only a little damage outside – nothing inside.
Hubby is coming to get me

2:18pm Phil 

Did you get on the bike at all?

2:23pm
Yup. Over 100 mi in 40 degree weather

2:24pm Phil 

Did you like it?

2:25pm   
Not yesterday…too cold.  But today was fun.

2:56pm Phil 
[A sticker – Facebook fox with a cup of coffee]

2:56pm 
Phil

[A sticker – Facebook fox with a mug of beer]


4:29pm   
Home. 
Hubby came to get me.

11:02pm Phil 

Sorry it did not work out. Poor guy

11:05pm
Thanks… strange to be alone at home again instead of him wrapped around me listening to the waves… *sigh

11:07pm Phil 
I know. I know, Some things you miss so much


Meet #33 My First Ride

Friday, September 19, 2014
Kris: only 42 degrees at my house at 6:30 this morning.  brrrrrr! dress very warmly.  may have to take highways a little more than originally planned.  for sake of time.  still take some scenic roads.  but don’t want to be riding too late.  gets dark earlier and temps go down even more.   6:45 AM
Kris: so dress really warmly!  see u at 2:30 sharp! 6:46 AM
Kris: and btw – you’re going to be fine.  no need to worry or be scared (easy for me to say…right?) 😉  6:47 AM
Me: Good morning hot stuff! Only 44 here! I’m digging out my flannel! 7:24 AM
Kris: 🙂 7:46 AM
Kris: in the interest of time I think we’ll take the highway all the way up 128 to 95 then start taking seacoast roads from Seabrook, NH (where I can take my helmet off and “live free or die”!).  so I’ll depend on u for the best way out of city to 128 (93? or Rte 1?).   10:40 AM
Kris: actually.  it looks like Rte 1 directly to 95.  not either 93 or 128 at all.  is that right? 10:42 AM
Kris: or 93 to 128 to 95.  I’ll let u tell me which is bettah! 🙂 10:43 AM
Me: It will be my pleasure to guide you. Your plan sounds great! Address for restaurant is Barnacle Billy’s, 70 Perkins Cove, Ogunquit, ME 11:08 AM
Kris: k.  thanks! 11:11 AM
Kris: eta 3:00.  just leaving now.  think I got everything.  rock n roll baby! Who hooo!!! 1:59 PM
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The man is so fickle!  Last week Kris left me hanging for days after his meeting with his wife and their pastor when I had told him I’d be on the edge of my seat waiting to hear.  Grrr.  Then said he wanted to have a “last face-to-face” discussion so he could say good bye again.  I had the feeling he was busy dating “potential wives” but only telling me a little about that now and then.  He missed my birthday except for a short text.  I ignored him, didn’t answer when he asked when I could see him.  I wanted to say, “Quit all this drama.  We’re friends. Contact me when you want, don’t when you don’t and let’s just coast along.”  I hate being treated like a bad habit he is trying to get over.  
So this week he invited me to go to Maine with him!  Mr Flip-flop!  
He insisted that I get over my fears and ride his motorcycle.  I gave in and then spent 3 days agonizing about it.  Philip encouraged me, said it would be fun!  Hubby pitched a fit, going on about all the risks and blah blah.  NOT HELPING!
We spent all week discussing options, making plans.  He is fun to plan with!  When Hubby and I travel, I make all the arrangements, so it’s nice to have a man who will share the planning.  We had talked about me showing him my favorite places in either RI or Gloucester.  He decided he wanted to go to Maine so he wouldn’t have to wear a helmet.  He said Friday was going to be too cold to ride (in the 50s) so we should go Saturday.  He booked a room in Bar Harbor for Saturday night and asked how early he could pick me up Saturday morning.  He said he needed to be home by 1 pm Sunday.  I told him I could skip going to Mom’s and he could appear at 9 am.  He wrote back saying Bar Harbor was too far for a one-day trip, could I bundle up and he’d pick me up Friday afternoon and we’d go to Old Orchard Beach (about 2 hrs from here, with 4 more hours to Bar Harbor Saturday).  And could I leave work early?  I had a 1 pm lunch date with my old boss, so I told him 2:30 pm.  That time was the latest we could leave and avoid rush hour. 
At 2 pm he texted saying he was leaving home – it’s a hour drive.  I was worried we’d hit rush hour traffic.  Why can’t he ever be on time?!  I went outside at 3 pm.  He showed up about 3:15 pm.  He strapped my duffle to the bag and I got on the motorcycle!  It was equal parts terrifying, freezing and boring!  
The riding itself is not bad – just hold on for dear life and keep my head down.  But it was SO COLD!  I had on flannel shirt and pants, winter jacket, gloves, scarf and helmet.  Still cold.  And I don’t get cold easily!  
We sat in traffic… took us 90 minutes to do the usual 30-minutes to the highway thing.  He zoomed up 95.  The highway is not  fun… just cling to him for dear life, wind whipping all around… boring, stuck with my own thoughts and the music on the speakers.  
He got off onto local roads and cruised along the ocean from Seabrook NH north.  That was better.  There was no one on the roads so we could roll along, see the ocean scenery.  As it got dark, he hopped back on the highway and we got to dinner about 7 pm.  I was completely frozen! 
It is fascinating to jump into the “motorcycle world.”  Bikers have a special signal they give each other as they pass, and people talk to you at rest stops and even roll down their window in traffic to admire the bike and chit chat about destinations.  As a long time New Englander, it is quite startling!  A group of women in a parking lot in Maine told me I was brave to ride in the cold weather, that he should get a heated side car for me.  I told them he was hot enough to keep me warm!  They are guffawed and he blushed and smiled, whispered, “I love it when you let Sassy out to play.”  Silly fun. 
We had a wonderful dinner at Barnacle Billy’s etc in Ogunquit, warmed up, talked and laughed.  He thought I was a great sport to ride the bike.  I had their hot chocolate to warm up.  Then I was decadent, ordered the lobster stew (like clam chowder only filled with huge chunks of lobster instead of clams), we shared the scallops wrapped in bacon with maple syrup, and I had the lobster saute – big chunks of lobster in butter! 
We rolled on for about hour to Old Orchard Beach.  That ride was beastly, with the temps down in the low 40s, dark.  I closed my eyes and prayed for it to over.  Bleh.  
He had booked a great, inexpensive, clean motel right on the main drag right across the street from the ocean.  We sat on the bed, munching on the Jelly Belly jelly beans and Lindt hazelnut chocolates I brought.  I showed him my new toys – the souped-up rabbit “Wild G” and the little black rubber butt plug.  
I admitted I could not face another long day on the bike to get to Bar Harbor.  It’s okay as a “way to get there” but I can’t see myself enjoying it for the ride, other than it makes him happy.  I asked if we could just stay in Old Orchard Beach, or head elsewhere closer.  We decided to decide in the morning. 
We helped each other undress, kissing and touching, then collapsed into bed to cuddle and warm up.  He is such a good cuddler!   He pounced on me, doing his usual “play with my clit and then come up from underneath to penetrate and pound.”  I was a little disappointed we didn’t try anything special, but it had been a long day.  We nodded off right after midnight.  At least there was some action!  
After years of being miles apart from the man next to me in a king size bed, it is such a treat to be wrapped around each other in a double bed!


Brrr

Friday, September 19, 2014
            
6:37am Phil 
Continued talking to Beach Gal till after 1:00 am. I ain’t questioning. Enjoyed it for what it was. 

Have a great day and a fun trip

7:35am 

Good morning kid!  44 degrees!  Brrr. Packing the flannels!

7:37am Phil
Wow! That’s awesome! Have fun, be safe. Strange, wonderful night for me. Was fabulous even if it was just the mood. Enjoy the ride

3:05pm
Great lunch out.  Sweet potato ravioli with cranberries and hazelnuts!



Your Man

Thursday, September 18, 2014
            
6:55am Phil

[photo of Philip in a dress shirt smiling]
Good morning!

Have a great day!

7:17am

Good morning handsome!

7:13pm
Another delicious dim sum dinner at PF Chang!  

10:49pm
 Phil 

Had a very nice conversation with the Beach Gal today. Our birthday is coming up. Talked about her boy who is at sea and she is getting married in November. Too quick in my opinion. All her friends hate the guy. Just makes her more determined. I truly wish her happiness. I will love her always.  Can’t help it. 

Been working 14 hour days down here. Tired. Hope your day was good. Feeling a little heartbroken and desolate but my own fault. Can’t help but feel that if she met this guy in March and is marrying him in November, I ever meant that much to her.  Some days life is good, some days it sucks.

10:57pm  
Hiya kid.  Good that you can still talk… don’t take her choices personally.  You know it’s way more complicated than that.  Or just that simple.  

I had a quiet night… packing to go to Maine with Kris tomorrow.  May be off the grid until Sunday but will still be thinking of you.  Mwah!

11:04pm Phil 

I don’t take it personally. We talked and we laughed and it was like it always was. He is there and available and I am not. The fact that she still cares says a lot to me. She seems happy though and I would never begrudge her that.  

Have fun in Maine! Enjoy the weekend, have fun.

11:10pm
Listen to the song I just posted on my wall.  Worth a smile.
  

“Your Man” sung by Willie Jones

“Your Man” is track #4 on the album Your Man. It was written by Jace Everett, Charles Christopher  Dubois,  and Christopher Alvin Stapleton. 

Baby lock the door and turn the lights down low
Put some music on that’s soft and slow
Baby we ain’t got no place to go
I hope you understand

Chorus
I’ve been thinking ’bout this all day long
Never felt a feeling quite this strong
I can’t believe how much it turns me on
Just to be your man

There’s no hurry
Don’t you worry we can take our time
Come a little closer
Let’s go over what I had in mind

Chorus
Ain’t nobody ever love nobody
The way that I love you
We’re alone now
You don’t know how long I’ve wanted to

Chorus 2x
I can’t believe how much it turns me on
Just to be your man
11:19pm Phil 
Loved it, thank you

11:20pm
Those bass notes he hits make me tingle!

11:21pm Phil 
Yeah baby, what fun

12:17am Phil 

Had another amazing chat with The Beach Gal. Wow! Was nice.


Travel plans

Tuesday, September 16, 2014
Kris: Friday is supposed to be sunny but on the cool side.  high of only 60.  little cool on bike. Saturday supposed to be warmer.  high of 70. maybe leave Saturday.  spend night someplace.  but would need to bring you home by 1:00 on Sunday.  I have to be home Sunday by 2:30.  Also, as far as where we go, would you be interested in seacoast ride thru NH into southern ME instead of R.I. or Gloucester?.  .Part of reason is helmuts.  only one really fits both of us.  I wouldn’t have to wear in NH or ME.  you could wear mine…didn’t that fit when u tried it on?  I know the full helmet with shield was too small for u and it’s tight on me. 1:30 PM
Me: Sounds great! 1:53 PM
Kris: Ok to have u back by 1:00 on Sunday? 1:57 PM
Kris: still need to have lunch with mom on Saturday.  leave after that? and finally, can u split costs?  don’t want to stress u out but money’s really tight lately.   2:09 PM
Me: Sounds fine – timing, paying. 2:11 PM
Kris: Ok.  great!.  I’ll find place to stay. tell me pick up time on Sat.  I’ll make every effort to be on time. (for a change)! 2:16 PM
Me: What time is good Saturday? Want to have lunch with Mom or no? 2:28 PM
Kris: Any time Saturday is fine. Wouldn’t mind having lunch with mom…but would feel funny not paying for everyone since we kidded about that last time. But can’t afford to. 3:46 PM
Me: I can get out of lunch with Mom. With you on your bike it doesn’t quite work anyway. I’ll do her pills tonight and can be ready anytime you say on Saturday. This is going to be so fun! 4:27 PM
Kris: You’re a great sport! You will be safe.  but wear a diaper just in case (you shit your pants).  .JUST KIDDING!  shopping for place to stay.  will let u know pick up time later.  Persistent Alfalfa 😉 4:53 PM
Kris: The place I want to stay only has one room left.  two double beds.  can you live with “enough room to have sex.  cuddle a little”.  but then I’d move to other bed to actually sleep.  …or would you rather I find other place with queen bed? 6:01 PM
Me: Whatever you think. Maybe call hotel for q room? Sometimes they have rooms they don’t offer online. 6:06 PM
Kris: Did call.  I’ll keep looking.  sounds like you’d prefer queen…me too.  found Ramada marked down from 169 to 116.   125 with tax.   63 each. That too much? can find cheaper.  but Ramada nice place. Open to what you’d like.  budget.  let me know.  don’t be shy 😉 6:13 PM
Kris: Changed mind.  going with Hotwire.  $79 total.   40 each.  won’t know exact hotel till after I book.  so little gamble. but had good luck in past.  so “pulling trigger”.  will let u know shortly “what we got” for 79 bucks!   🙂 6:26 PM
Kris: Nope.  still searching.  didn’t guarantee bed size.  I’ll find something! 6:32 PM
Kris: Ok! Done! King bed with ocean view.  Sea Breeze Motel.  Bar Harbor, ME… 99! Put your big girl panties on.  you’re going for a gorgeous but LONG motorcycle ride with a nice man who will go slow and make sure you are safe. Give me the earliest time possible to pick you up on Saturday. I’ll be there…and on time! I’m excited! (No not like that…but we’ll work on that too. Don’t forget toys this time. 😉 6:55 PM
Me: Wow! 9 am? 7:01 PM
Kris: Ok.  but I think I acted a little impulsively. it’s awfully far for one day trip.  and really didn’t want to be on highway. if I pay for another night.  could you leave work early Friday.  spend Friday night in Portland, head to Bar Harbor Saturday morning. Plus, you get two chances for poor to fair sex instead of just one. Your contribution for room stays at 50.  my mistake/poor planning. Can’t cancel Saturday room in Bar Harbor.  online non-cancel deal. Watcha think? 7:10 PM
Me: Sure. I have a lunch meeting, could leave by 2:30? Or cancel lunch if you need earlier. 7:12 PM
Kris: 2:30 would be early enough.  at your place? would we avoid Friday rush hour at 2:30? 7:15 PM
Kris: Fri nite staying at Grand Beach Inn, Old Orchard Beach.  Hotwire deal for only 62.69.  decent place for price.  don’t know what size beds.  can see at: www.grandbeachinnmaine.com 7:59 PM
Me: Those hotels look wonderful! Thank you ever so much for dealing with all that. 9:07 PM
Kris: I actually think it’s fun…you’re welcome! Pick u up at your condo at 2:30? Think we’ll miss Fri rush hour traffic? 9:26 PM
Me: Can you pick me up at work instead? 9:29 PM
Kris: Sure.  will u be able to bring everything? Don’t let the toys fall out of the bag at your desk. Picture your evil boss holding one up asking, “What’s this little silver ball with a cord and switch for?” And you say, “This AM guy’s trying to convert me to a clit girl…still prefer a good hard fucking…but the little ball feels amazingly good!” You can see yourself having that conversation… right? LOL 9:41 PM
Me: Plan to have just my duffle. Can you strap that on the bike somehow? You are a bad bad man… I like that. 9:46 PM
Kris: It will fit easily inside the tour pack (compartment behind the seat).  or some can go in side “bags”…no problem…2:30 then? What’s the address? 9:50 PM
Me: [my work address] 9:52 PM
Kris: Dress very warmly.  winter jacket.  gloves.  scarf.  think “70 mph wind chill” (not directly…cuz windshield/faring/behind me will shelter you).  but can get chilly.  especially Friday when temps are low. 9:56 PM
Kris: Could u look for a restaurant to stop at on the way Friday night, someplace near Wells, Kennebunk or Kennebunkport.  where we should be around 6:30-7.  if that’s not too long to wait. Or a little south of there, like Ogunquit.  thanks! 12:16 AM