Second chat with Kris – Part 2 Setting up a meet

April 2, 2014 Wednesday (continued)

·       Apr 02 11:22 PM Sassy: What should I talk about?
·       Apr 02 11:22 PM Kris: what would you like to?
·       Apr 02 11:22 PM Sassy: Hmmm
·       Apr 02 11:23 PM Sassy: Are you barefoot?
·       Apr 02 11:23 PM Kris: no…have socks on…sitting on sofa with feet up on coffee table…
·       Apr 02 11:24 PM Kris: do you still have your work clothes on?
·       Apr 02 11:26 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 11:26 PM Sassy: Plunked down here at 6 PM and haven’t budged
·       Apr 02 11:26 PM Kris: where r u in your house…specifically?
·       Apr 02 11:27 PM Sassy: I have a desk in the living room
·       Apr 02 11:27 PM Kris: you’re sitting at it?
·       Apr 02 11:27 PM Sassy: yes
·       Apr 02 11:27 PM Sassy: on my laptop
·       Apr 02 11:27 PM Kris: is the chair comfortable you’re sitting in?
·       Apr 02 11:27 PM Sassy: I look out a glass wall – big patio doors, balcony
·       Apr 02 11:28 PM Sassy: 5 floors up…
·       Apr 02 11:28 PM Sassy: can see out all over
·       Apr 02 11:28 PM Kris: do u really live in the city?
·       Apr 02 11:28 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 11:28 PM Kris: do u like it there?
·       Apr 02 11:28 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 11:29 PM Kris: sorry if i’m assuming too much…but if we had sex where would we have it?
·       Apr 02 11:29 PM Sassy: Good question
·       Apr 02 11:30 PM Kris: a detail to think about later…not now?
·       Apr 02 11:30 PM Sassy: In my bed?
·        Apr 02 11:30 PM Sassy: In the kitchen?
·       Apr 02 11:30 PM Sassy: In a hotel?
·       Apr 02 11:30 PM Kris: how could we have sex in your bed…or kitchen?
·       Apr 02 11:31 PM Sassy: How big is your backseat?
·       Apr 02 11:31 PM Kris: way too small…i have a “manly bike” and a “girly car”
·       Apr 02 11:31 PM Sassy: Ha ha
·       Apr 02 11:32 PM Kris: i like your adventurous spirit
·       Apr 02 11:32 PM Sassy: I used to have a mini-van… so good for philandering!
·       Apr 02 11:32 PM Sassy: But it died last year
·       Apr 02 11:32 PM Kris: seriously…would it be possible to have sex at your house?
·       Apr 02 11:32 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 11:32 PM Kris: what about your husband?
·       Apr 02 11:33 PM Sassy: He goes out
·       Apr 02 11:33 PM Kris: wouldn’t you worry he might come home unexpectedly?
·       Apr 02 11:33 PM Sassy: No
·       Apr 02 11:33 PM Kris: why?
·       Apr 02 11:33 PM Sassy: Because I tell him… go away. I’ll text you when it’s safe to come back.
·       Apr 02 11:34 PM Kris: so he knows what you’re doing…just not with who?
·       Apr 02 11:34 PM Sassy: well not exactly what but generally what
·       Apr 02 11:34 PM Kris: he knows you’re with a man?
·       Apr 02 11:34 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 11:35 PM Kris: omg…hard for me to imagine…what keeps you married…money?
·       Apr 02 11:35 PM Sassy: We are good friends, make a good team…
·       Apr 02 11:35 PM Kris: you’re not hurt and angry that he rejected you sexaully?
·       Apr 02 11:36 PM Sassy: I would rather he not have… life would be so much simpler
·       Apr 02 11:36 PM Sassy: But what can he do?
·       Apr 02 11:36 PM Sassy: You can’t make someone be attracted to you
·       Apr 02 11:36 PM Sassy: I tried
·       Apr 02 11:37 PM Kris: how long have u been married?
·       Apr 02 11:37 PM Sassy: I was very surprised he would not help me…
·       Apr 02 11:37 PM Sassy: once I figured out what a man could do to get me off
·       Apr 02 11:37 PM Sassy: 17 yrs
·       Apr 02 11:37 PM Kris: sorry for interrupting…keep going
·       Apr 02 11:38 PM Sassy: But he can’t really function alone… he’s one of those creative types who the realities of life are beyond them
·       Apr 02 11:38 PM Sassy: Needs a keeper. And I volunteered to do it.
·       Apr 02 11:39 PM Kris: go back to what you were saying about surprised he would not help you…once you figured out what a man could do to get you off
·       Apr 02 11:43 PM Sassy: I asked him to help me wit his fingers or mouth…
·       Apr 02 11:44 PM Kris: on your clit?
·       Apr 02 11:44 PM Sassy: yes
·       Apr 02 11:44 PM Kris: that’s one of the first things my first wife taught me how to do…and exactly how…
·       Apr 02 11:45 PM Kris: sorry…why didn’t your husband want to do it?
·       Apr 02 11:45 PM Sassy: Do you like it or just do it to please a woman who likes it?
·       Apr 02 11:45 PM Kris: both
·       Apr 02 11:45 PM Sassy: Not clear why
·       Apr 02 11:45 PM Kris: so you asked him to?
·       Apr 02 11:46 PM Sassy: After I got back from visiting old flame
·       Apr 02 11:46 PM Sassy: I resolved to focus on Hubby, show him what I’d learned, thought he might renew his interest
·       Apr 02 11:47 PM Kris: do u remember his exact reaction…what he said?
·       Apr 02 11:48 PM Kris: does it bother you to talk about this…we don’t have to…i just find it helps me know the “real you”…so i can “get inside you” in more ways than one…sex works that way for me…
·       Apr 02 11:49 PM Sassy: Hmmm
·       Apr 02 11:49 PM Sassy: Can’t recall exactly
·       Apr 02 11:49 PM Kris: he just didn’t seem interested… and you were…what? hurt? angry? disappointed? all the above?
·       Apr 02 11:50 PM Sassy: After 10 yrs of nothing, not surprised. Sad.
·       Apr 02 11:50 PM Kris: so you had sex for how many years…before you stopped?
·       Apr 02 11:51 PM Sassy: we met online
·       Apr 02 11:51 PM Sassy: he moved here about a year later
·       Apr 02 11:52 PM Sassy: we married the following year
·       Apr 02 11:52 PM Sassy: He stopped wanting me about three years later
·       Apr 02 11:52 PM Sassy: So about 5 yrs of sex, now and then
·       Apr 02 11:53 PM Sassy: He had gained a lot of weight, made it tough
·       Apr 02 11:53 PM Kris: he came when you had sex…but you never did…that’s hard for me to imagine…although i had a “one night stand” once with a woman who came with me and said that was her first orgasm…i wasn’t sure if i believed her…but i think she was telling the truth…
·       Apr 02 11:54 PM Kris: how did his weight make it hard?
·       Apr 02 11:54 PM Sassy: He got above 500 lbs
·       Apr 02 11:54 PM Kris: wow…that’s big
·       Apr 02 11:54 PM Sassy: then had bariatric surgery, got down to 268
·       Apr 02 11:55 PM Sassy: I thought we’d start again then
·       Apr 02 11:55 PM Kris: is that the surgery where they cut out part of your stomach?
·       Apr 02 11:56 PM Sassy: He had the ruen-Y procedure where they tie off part of the stomach and reconnect things into the small intestine
·       Apr 02 11:56 PM Sassy: So you can’t eat as much, there is malabsorption etc
·       Apr 02 11:57 PM Sassy: It saved his life
·       Apr 02 11:57 PM Kris: so when he got down to 268 did you directly do anything to try and ask him to have sex with you again?
·       Apr 03 12:00 AM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 03 12:00 AM Sassy: I’ve tried everything
·       Apr 03 12:00 AM Sassy: lingerie, p0rn, erotica, back rubs
·       Apr 03 12:00 AM Sassy: overnights away
·       Apr 03 12:01 AM Kris: so if nothing was working…but you’re all horny because you’ve discovered how pleasurable sex is…what did you do before starting affairs/trysts with other men?
·       Apr 03 12:02 AM Sassy: Lots of cybersex with old flame
·       Apr 03 12:02 AM Sassy: wrote a lot of erotica
·       Apr 03 12:02 AM Kris: video cam?
·       Apr 03 12:02 AM Sassy: no. tried it once… eh
·       Apr 03 12:03 AM Kris: eh…meaning…didn’t like it?
·       Apr 03 12:03 AM Sassy: had tech issues – kept cutting out
·       Apr 03 12:03 AM Sassy: felt odd… performing…
·       Apr 03 12:03 AM Kris: with old flame?
·       Apr 03 12:03 AM Sassy: yes
·       Apr 03 12:03 AM Kris: so just did what…chatted?…emailed?
·       Apr 03 12:04 AM Sassy: chatted, phone
·       Apr 03 12:04 AM Sassy: shared porn
·       Apr 03 12:04 AM Kris: was the old flame the military man?
·       Apr 03 12:04 AM Sassy: yes
·       Apr 03 12:04 AM Kris: how did you share porn?
·       Apr 03 12:04 AM Sassy: I’d email him links and we’d watch it together
·       Apr 03 12:04 AM Kris: did you masturbate?
·       Apr 03 12:05 AM Sassy: sometimes
·       Apr 03 12:05 AM Kris: did you use your fingers or a toy or vibrator?
·       Apr 03 12:05 AM Sassy: my hand
·       Apr 03 12:05 AM Sassy: haven’t used the toys
·       Apr 03 12:06 AM Kris: what toys do you have?
·       Apr 03 12:06 AM Sassy: hoping you will help me break them in
·       Apr 03 12:06 AM Kris: i would LOVE to…
·       Apr 03 12:06 AM Sassy: I have a stunt cock – this massive 9 in thing
·       Apr 03 12:06 AM Sassy: and a 4 other smaller ones
·       Apr 03 12:07 AM Kris: smaller “stunt cocks”?
·       Apr 03 12:07 AM Sassy: no… a bullet like thing and a couple of tubular thing
·       Apr 03 12:07 AM Kris: like a “dildo”
·       Apr 03 12:07 AM Sassy: and a rabbit keychain
·       Apr 03 12:08 AM Kris: i know what a rabbit is…but what’s a rabbit keychain?
·       Apr 03 12:08 AM Sassy: it’s like the rabbit only little with a metal loop for keys
·       Apr 03 12:08 AM Sassy: silly
·       Apr 03 12:08 AM Kris: do you have a rabbit?
·       Apr 03 12:08 AM Sassy: no
·       Apr 03 12:09 AM Sassy: I think if I were doing it again, I’d get a rabbit and one of those hitachi wand things. Or a Lelo
·       Apr 03 12:09 AM Kris: don’t know what any of those are…other than rabbit
·       Apr 03 12:11 AM
Sassy: Lelo link http://www.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=femme-homme&groupName=GIGI-2

·       Apr 03 12:11 AM Kris: lol…i’ll check it out later…you’re funny!…but thanks…
·       Apr 03 12:12 AM Kris: do you think you’d actually find it fun to try some of those things?
·       Apr 03 12:12 AM Sassy: the wand is that big massager thing you can buy at any pharmacy
·       Apr 03 12:12 AM Sassy: I think so, with the right guy
·       Apr 03 12:12 AM Sassy: Have you played with them?
·       Apr 03 12:13 AM Kris: no…but i think it would be fun to try them out
·       Apr 03 12:13 AM Sassy: Yeah.
·       Apr 03 12:14 AM Sassy: Was thinking to put it between us maybe
·       Apr 03 12:14 AM Sassy: But I am mostly clueless
·       Apr 03 12:15 AM Kris: me too…so what we’d need to do is just get to a point where we were just comfortable playing and learning and finding out what worked and what didn’t…just “being comfortable” and “not too worried about it all” helps…
·       Apr 03 12:15 AM Sassy: yes
·       Apr 03 12:15 AM Sassy: try… talk about it…yes? No? higher? etc.
·       Apr 03 12:16 AM Sassy: try different ones… compare and contrast. Heh
·       Apr 03 12:16 AM Kris: right…
·       Apr 03 12:16 AM Sassy: You want them inside you?
·       Apr 03 12:16 AM Sassy: Find that p-spot?
·       Apr 03 12:16 AM Kris: not sure…never done that…yet
·       Apr 03 12:17 AM Sassy: I tried it once with my finger
·       Apr 03 12:17 AM Kris: how did it feel?
·       Apr 03 12:17 AM Sassy: while I was sucking on someone… reached lower
·       Apr 03 12:17 AM Sassy: pressed a finger inside him at the same pace
·       Apr 03 12:18 AM Kris: i could imagine that could feel good…just never did it
·       Apr 03 12:18 AM Sassy: Got to hear those immortal word
·       Apr 03 12:18 AM Sassy: “I’ve never cum so hard in my life”
·       Apr 03 12:18 AM Sassy:  : ) 
·       Apr 03 12:18 AM Kris: that’s what the guy said?
·       Apr 03 12:18 AM Sassy: yes
·       Apr 03 12:19 AM Sassy: I had read about it… he let me try
·       Apr 03 12:20 AM Kris: ok…so now i’ve got a hard on…and when we’re finished chatting if i go look at my cock there will be a small flow of seminal fluid…and i don’t want to rush you…but I hope i get to fuck more than words on a screen someday…and not 3 months from now…
·       Apr 03 12:20 AM Sassy: I hear you
·       Apr 03 12:20 AM Sassy: I wonder if you will…
·       Apr 03 12:20 AM Kris: will what?
·       Apr 03 12:21 AM Sassy: Want me
·       Apr 03 12:21 AM Kris: why wouldn’t i?
·       Apr 03 12:21 AM Sassy: You haven’t wanted the others
·       Apr 03 12:21 AM Kris: i forget what i told you…remind me
·       Apr 03 12:21 AM Sassy: heh
·       Apr 03 12:22 AM Kris: what did i tell you…about not wanting others?
·       Apr 03 12:22 AM Sassy: You said you’ve been on AM  6 mos, met 3 women, no sex
·       Apr 03 12:22 AM Sassy: Makes me wonder if you’re a chaser
·       Apr 03 12:23 AM Kris: i would have had sex with 2 out of 3 of them…only 1 wanted me…the other 2 broke it off…not me…what’s a “chaser”?
·       Apr 03 12:23 AM Sassy: guys who get off on the chase but don’t close the deal
·       Apr 03 12:23 AM Sassy: due to guilt or whatever
·       Apr 03 12:24 AM Kris: well…there’s a quick and easy way to find out…
·       Apr 03 12:24 AM Sassy: life is so odd… you want 2 but they don’t, 1 wants you but you don’t?
·       Apr 03 12:25 AM Kris: ok…be a little patient…i’ll explain…but try not to “go on” too much…
·       Apr 03 12:25 AM Sassy: You don’t have to now… it’s okay
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·       Apr 03 12:25 AM Sassy: So meeting
·       Apr 03 12:25 AM Sassy: How do you see that?
·       Apr 03 12:25 AM Sassy: Weekday?  Weekend? Best time?
·       Apr 03 12:26 AM Kris: first…what is the meeting for?
·       Apr 03 12:26 AM Sassy: to see if there’s chemistry?
·       Apr 03 12:27 AM Sassy: a meal… talking… then if we want… steam up the windows of my car?
·       Apr 03 12:28 AM Kris: ok…the meal…talking…and if we want sex right then and there fine…but rather be in a bed someplace…at least for the first time.
·       Apr 03 12:28 AM Sassy: maybe say… not sex first time… kissing… touching…
·       Apr 03 12:28 AM Sassy: plan another meet soon?
·       Apr 03 12:30 AM Kris: Ok…a meal…lots of talking…and if we feel like kissing/touching maybe…but i have to admit something about kissing and touching…
·       Apr 03 12:30 AM Sassy: Yes?
·       Apr 03 12:31 AM Kris: i’m not very good at being “romantic” with things like kissing and touching that doesn’t lead to…or is just part of…sex all the way…
·       Apr 03 12:31 AM Kris: i can try to learn…but it’s just never been a big part of how i show affection…except playful hugging or very light kissing…
·        Apr 03 12:32 AM Kris: but when i’m having sex i love deep kissing
·       Apr 03 12:32 AM Sassy: what if the woman is a very good kisser? Like… better than anyone you’ve been with?
·       Apr 03 12:33 AM Kris: then i’ll want to fuck your brains out
·       Apr 03 12:33 AM Sassy: So were you thinking a meal and if that works… a hotel?
·       Apr 03 12:34 AM Kris: no…i was thinking a meal…and a big tease of anticipation…planning a hotel on the next meeting…if the chemistry is there on the first…but if you grab me and kiss me…that can be part of the tease…
·       Apr 03 12:35 AM Sassy: mmm
·       Apr 03 12:35 AM Kris: or maybe i’ll change my mind…after you give me that kiss like i’ve never had before…but i think if I have to wait for the second meeting that would be fun…and it wouldn’t have to be a long wait…just a second time…
·       Apr 03 12:36 AM Kris: what r u thinking…doesn’t have to be what i’m thinking…what do u what to do?
·       Apr 03 12:37 AM Sassy: Thinking
·       Apr 03 12:38 AM Sassy: I think we’re mostly thinking the same
·       Apr 03 12:38 AM Sassy: Worth a look
·       Apr 03 12:38 AM Sassy: talking
·       Apr 03 12:39 AM Kris: and?
·       Apr 03 12:39 AM Sassy: you’ll tell me if you want more
·       Apr 03 12:40 AM Kris: and if i do…you’re ready to go?
·       Apr 03 12:40 AM Sassy: If I feel it too
·       Apr 03 12:40 AM Kris: GOOD ANSWER!!!!!
·       Apr 03 12:41 AM Kris: ok…back to when/where, etc.
·       Apr 03 12:41 AM  Sassy: : )
·       Apr 03 12:44 AM Kris: you work 9 to what?…M-F?
·       Apr 03 12:44 AM Sassy: Yes. tomorrow night? Friday lunch? Monday?
·       Apr 03 12:45 AM Sassy: Thursday lunch?
·       Apr 03 12:46 AM Kris: I could do tomorrow night…a little later…but wouldn’t be able to do more than eat and talk…which would be ok…then we could do more if we felt it… on Friday…
·       Apr 03 12:47 AM Kris: or lunch on Friday with more time left for…maybe we’ll want to do more than talk…but i don’t want that experience “rushed”…especially the first time…
·       Apr 03 12:48 AM Sassy: I am off work Friday
·       Apr 03 12:48 AM Sassy: And Monday
·       Apr 03 12:49 AM Kris: i’m off Friday…just have to take delivery of my new bike at noon at the storage shed i’m hiding it from my wife in…could be an exciting day of “hiding things”…on Friday…
·       Apr 03 12:50 AM Sassy: Do you know this area at all?
·       Apr 03 12:51 AM Kris: generally…but i have a GPS in my car so if i have an address i’d be fine…
·        Apr 03 12:51 AM Kris: what restaurant do you like?
·       Apr 03 12:51 AM Sassy: When are we talking now?
·       Apr 03 12:51 AM Kris: 1:30-2:00
·       Apr 03 12:52 AM Sassy: Friday?
·       Apr 03 12:52 AM Kris: yes…but now that i think of it…better make it 2:00
·       Apr 03 12:53 AM Sassy: Okay
·       Apr 03 12:53 AM Kris: where…you choose a restaurant you really like…
·       Apr 03 12:55 AM Sassy: Could you deal with PF Chang’s?
·       Apr 03 12:55 AM Sassy: There’s one in the mall
·       Apr 03 12:55 AM Sassy: So easy parking underground
·       Apr 03 12:56 AM Kris: i assume it’s chinese food?
·       Apr 03 12:56 AM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 03 12:56 AM Kris: sounds good…sure…do you have an address…or i can just google it
·       Apr 03 12:57 AM Sassy: [detailed instructions]
·       Apr 03 1:01 AM Kris: i just googled it…i’ll find it…
·       Apr 03 1:01 AM Sassy: Let me give you a Sassy phone number
·       Apr 03 1:01 AM Sassy: in case
·       Apr 03 1:01 AM Kris: k
·       Apr 03 1:01 AM
Kris: here’s mine: [xxx-xxx-xxxx]
·       Apr 03 1:02 AM Sassy: [xxx-xxx-xxxx]
·       Apr 03 1:02 AM Kris: thanks!
·       Apr 03 1:02 AM Sassy: That’s a google voice number
·       Apr 03 1:02 AM Sassy: It will ask your name the first time you call
·       Apr 03 1:02 AM Sassy: then ask me to approve answering
·       Apr 03 1:02 AM Sassy: so connection takes a few seconds
·       Apr 03 1:03 AM Kris: k
·       Apr 03 1:03 AM Sassy: I think it shows are a CA number
·       Apr 03 1:04 AM Kris: k…but all i need to do is give my name…and wait…
·       Apr 03 1:04 AM Sassy: right
·       Apr 03 1:04 AM Sassy: can you test it now or no?
·       Apr 03 1:05 AM Kris: yes…doing it right now…can’t wait to hear your voice!  

 He called me and we talked for a few minutes.  He’s nice.  And he has a great voice.  🙂 


Second chat with Kris – PART I History

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

·       Apr 02 10:28 PM Kris: i’m here
·       Apr 02 10:29 PM Sassy: Hiya!
·       Apr 02 10:29 PM Kris: Hi!
·       Apr 02 10:29 PM Kris: sorry it’s a little late…just came from the gym
·       Apr 02 10:29 PM Sassy: No worries. How are you this fine evening?
·       Apr 02 10:30 PM Kris: good!…you?
·       Apr 02 10:30 PM Sassy: Great! Did you think about my chest some more?
·       Apr 02 10:30 PM Kris: yes…stop teasing me
·       Apr 02 10:30 PM Kris: just kidding
·       Apr 02 10:31 PM Sassy: Do you think about touching me?
·       Apr 02 10:31 PM Kris: yes
·       Apr 02 10:31 PM Sassy: tasting me?
·       Apr 02 10:31 PM Kris: yes
·       Apr 02 10:31 PM Sassy: letting your cock get lost between them?
·       Apr 02 10:32 PM Kris: between what?
·       Apr 02 10:32 PM Sassy: my right breast and my left breast
·       Apr 02 10:32 PM Kris: yes…and a “variation” on that theme…
·       Apr 02 10:33 PM Sassy: what?
·       Apr 02 10:33 PM Kris: my balls between your breasts while you suck on my cock
·       Apr 02 10:34 PM Sassy: Mmmm… yum
·       Apr 02 10:35 PM Sassy: I like the way you think
·       Apr 02 10:35 PM Sassy: Where are you now?
·       Apr 02 10:35 PM Kris: at home
·       Apr 02 10:35 PM Sassy: be specific
·       Apr 02 10:36 PM Kris: i’m sitting in the tv room…my wife is sitting to my right…she just handed me her cell phone with a picture that made her laugh…it had a picture of bananas with a sign that said “boneless bananas: 69 cents”…
·       Apr 02 10:36 PM Sassy: Oh my.
·       Apr 02 10:37 PM Kris: what?
·       Apr 02 10:37 PM Sassy: She’s right there? Sassy waves!
·       Apr 02 10:37 PM Kris: yes…she right here
·       Apr 02 10:38 PM Kris: do you want me to tell you why i can do this…or do you know…i forget if i told you
·       Apr 02 10:38 PM Sassy: Do what?
·       Apr 02 10:38 PM Kris: sit right next to her and chat with you
·       Apr 02 10:38 PM Sassy: No… why?
·       Apr 02 10:39 PM Kris: she thinks i’m working…either teaching an online class or communicating with people at my full-time job…i’m on the computer all the time…and she trusts me completely…and so far has no reason not to…i’m hoping you’re going to change that soon…
·       Apr 02 10:40 PM Sassy: I adore it when you answer my question before i ask it. Description: )
·       Apr 02 10:40 PM Kris: what were you going to ask?
·       Apr 02 10:40 PM Sassy: What does she think you’re doing?
·       Apr 02 10:40 PM Kris: oh
·       Apr 02 10:40 PM Sassy: What do you have on?
·       Apr 02 10:41 PM Kris: don’t know…haven’t been paying attention…waith a minute…
·       Apr 02 10:42 PM Kris: chicago pd…just asked my wife if she’s watching it…she said “a little’…you can put something else on…
·       Apr 02 10:42 PM Kris: we both sit here side by side “in our own worlds” with the tv on…barely paying attention to it…
·       Apr 02 10:43 PM Kris: sounds thrillling doesn’t it…did i put you to sleep yet?
·       Apr 02 10:43 PM Sassy: No… I meant clothing. Hee!
·       Apr 02 10:43 PM Kris: omg…now i feel like an idiot
·       Apr 02 10:43 PM Kris: still want to know?
·       Apr 02 10:44 PM Sassy: Sure
·       Apr 02 10:44 PM Sassy: trying to envision… “context” you
·       Apr 02 10:45 PM Kris: jeans, casual blue shirt, grey “hoodie” (same one under my leather jacket in my photos)…pretty much what i wear all day…even to meetings…because it makes them feel more comfortable and relaxed…when i’m in their homes…
·       Apr 02 10:45 PM Kris: what r u wearing?
·       Apr 02 10:46 PM Sassy: work clothes
·       Apr 02 10:46 PM Kris: describe
·       Apr 02 10:47 PM Sassy: black long shirt, dark blue slacks, silk scarf, white bra, neon blue undies, black sock and clogs!
·       Apr 02 10:47 PM Kris: sounds sexy/business casual…
·       Apr 02 10:48 PM Kris: i thought of a question today i wanted to ask you
·       Apr 02 10:48 PM Sassy: Ok
·       Apr 02 10:49 PM Kris: when you talked about the affair you had with the childhood boyfriend /military man…
·       Apr 02 10:49 PM Kris: you said “he made sure i had fun…which i’d never experienced before…”…or something along those lines…what did you mean?
·       Apr 02 10:52 PM Sassy: In my past men had their fun and didn’t pay much attention to me
·       Apr 02 10:52 PM Sassy: I played along, waited for it to be over
·       Apr 02 10:52 PM Kris: r u talking about sex?
·       Apr 02 10:52 PM Sassy: yes
·       Apr 02 10:53 PM Kris: NO man worked to see that you had pleasure during sex?
·       Apr 02 10:53 PM Sassy: nope
·       Apr 02 10:53 PM Kris: not even your husband…EVER?
·       Apr 02 10:53 PM Sassy: nope
·       Apr 02 10:53 PM Kris: omg
·       Apr 02 10:54 PM Sassy: I didn’t get what all the fuss was about, why women liked it
·       Apr 02 10:54 PM Kris: more than half my pleasure is seeing you get off…i can’t imagine it some other way
·       Apr 02 10:54 PM Sassy:  : )
·       Apr 02 10:55 PM Sassy: Military man asked me what I wanted… I was like.. hunh?
·       Apr 02 10:55 PM Sassy: Pitiful
·       Apr 02 10:55 PM Kris: sorry…but that made me laugh
·       Apr 02 10:55 PM Kris: so how did he help you figure it out?
·       Apr 02 10:56 PM Sassy: He tried things, asked questions, paid a lot of attention to my reactions…
·       Apr 02 10:56 PM Sassy: He made me cum first thing… stunning
·       Apr 02 10:56 PM Kris: what do you mean “first thing”
·       Apr 02 10:57 PM Sassy: hotel door closes… big hug, serious kissing, then he dropped to his knees
·       Apr 02 10:57 PM Sassy: hottest moment of my life
·       Apr 02 10:57 PM Kris: licked your clit?
·       Apr 02 10:57 PM Sassy: yes
·       Apr 02 10:58 PM Sassy: fingers inside me…
·       Apr 02 10:58 PM Sassy: BOOM
·       Apr 02 10:58 PM Kris: you came…standing up?
·       Apr 02 10:58 PM Sassy: yup
·       Apr 02 10:58 PM Kris: then what?
·       Apr 02 10:58 PM Sassy: He stripped me and said nice things about my body
·       Apr 02 10:59 PM Sassy: I stared at him and thought… wow… I get to look at this beautiful man!
·       Apr 02 10:59 PM Sassy: Then it dawned on me
·       Apr 02 10:59 PM Sassy: I get to TOUCH this man!
·        Apr 02 11:00 PM Sassy: He apologized… said he had planned to go slow but he just HAD TO BE INSIDE ME!
·       Apr 02 11:00 PM Sassy: He’d been wanting to since he was 16…
·       Apr 02 11:00 PM Sassy: So there was some very hot, fast sex
·       Apr 02 11:01 PM Sassy: And I was like… mmm… I think I get what this is supposed to be like and I ADORE IT!
·       Apr 02 11:01 PM Kris: so nothing before was like that at all…not even a little?
·       Apr 02 11:02 PM Sassy: nope
·       Apr 02 11:03 PM Sassy: There was one guy I talked to on the phone in the very early days of the internet… lying on my bed… I was 34 yrs old
·       Apr 02 11:03 PM Sassy: Had not been on a date in 8 yrs
·       Apr 02 11:03 PM Sassy: This kid from Ontario got talking and I got this funny flushed feeling
·       Apr 02 11:04 PM Sassy: I went to look it up and the symptoms told me it was my first orgasm!
·       Apr 02 11:04 PM Kris: LOL…”symptoms”? …you make it sound like a disease
·       Apr 02 11:04 PM Sassy: So that guy has forever been “The O Man” in my mind
·       Apr 02 11:04 PM Sassy: For Ontario. Ahem.
·       Apr 02 11:05 PM Kris: were you touching yourself when you had that orgasm?
·       Apr 02 11:05 PM Sassy: No
·       Apr 02 11:06 PM Sassy: My imagination is very powerful
·       Apr 02 11:06 PM Kris: meaning?
·       Apr 02 11:06 PM Sassy: I can think about sexy things and my body reacts
·       Apr 02 11:07 PM Kris: to the point of orgasm?
·       Apr 02 11:07 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 11:07 PM Kris: be specific…what do you imagine?
·       Apr 02 11:07 PM Sassy: I run a whole scenario…
·       Apr 02 11:07 PM Sassy: imagine a man with me
·       Apr 02 11:07 PM Sassy: and what we’d do
·       Apr 02 11:08 PM Kris: here’s my chance to “be taught” what you like…keep going…tell me your fantasy
·       Apr 02 11:08 PM Sassy: How old were you when you first had sex?
·       Apr 02 11:08 PM Kris: 17
·       Apr 02 11:08 PM Kris: but started masturbating at 13
·       Apr 02 11:09 PM Sassy: Was it with someone you were dating?
·       Apr 02 11:10 PM Kris: it was one of my best friend’s “fuck buddy/girlfriends”…he knew I was a virgin and he asked her to fuck me…want more of the details?
·       Apr 02 11:11 PM Sassy: Sure! Was it good?
·       Apr 02 11:11 PM Kris: not the first time…but later it became unbelievable…i ended up marrying her…my first wife…
·       Apr 02 11:14 PM Sassy: So you had only been with her when you married?
·       Apr 02 11:14 PM
Kris: my first wife taught me pretty much everything i know about sex…she was “insatiable”…(and completely unfaithful for all two years of our short marriage)…i don’t think i’ll ever get fucked the way my first wife fucked me…but then i was only 17 and she was 15…but she knew how to do it…and did it all the time…with lots of men…even when we were married…i didn’t find out about lots of them until after we were divorced…some were close friends…and that pissed me off a little…sorry…dribbling on here
·       Apr 02 11:15 PM Kris: no…i fucked other girls/women besides her before we married
·       Apr 02 11:15 PM Sassy: Interesting!
·       Apr 02 11:15 PM Kris: in what way?
·       Apr 02 11:15 PM Sassy: Never heard a story quite like yours
·       Apr 02 11:16 PM Sassy: Did she settle down?
·       Apr 02 11:16 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 02 11:16 PM Sassy: Get married again, have kids, be mundane?
·       Apr 02 11:17 PM Kris: i got her pregnant when she was 16…
·       Apr 02 11:17 PM Kris: i was 18…
·       Apr 02 11:17 PM Kris: her father wanted to have me arrested for statutory rape because i was a legal adult and she was a minor…
·       Apr 02 11:17 PM Kris: it was before Roe v. Wade and abortion was still illegal in the U.S.
·       Apr 02 11:18 PM Kris: her parents were very rich
·       Apr 02 11:18 PM Kris: so they flew her to London where abortion was legal
·       Apr 02 11:18 PM Kris: and aborted the baby.
·       Apr 02 11:18 PM Kris: it was a boy
·       Apr 02 11:18 PM Kris: then after that
·       Apr 02 11:18 PM Kris: her parents wanted to get rid of her
·       Apr 02 11:18 PM Kris: so they let us get married
·       Apr 02 11:18 PM Kris: and we moved out West
·       Apr 02 11:19 PM Kris: 2 years later she got pregnant again
·       Apr 02 11:19 PM Kris: she wanted to abort it
·       Apr 02 11:19 PM Kris: i said no
·       Apr 02 11:19 PM Kris: that’s my oldest daughter…who is in her 40s
·       Apr 02 11:19 PM Kris: i’ll stop now…your turn
·       Apr 02 11:20 PM Kris: sex was always her “drug of choice”…
·       Apr 02 11:20 PM Kris: she married again…several times…but never really “settled down”
·       Apr 02 11:21 PM Kris: she died of an overdose of prescription drugs and alcohol when she was in her 40s
·       Apr 02 11:21 PM Sassy: Wow
·       Apr 02 11:21 PM Kris: sorry…i kept going…your turn
·       Apr 02 11:21 PM Sassy: Please don’t be sorry…
·       Apr 02 11:21 PM Kris: ok…don’t want to do all the talking…want to listen too…
 TO BE CONTINUED!  

First Chat with Kris

Tuesday April 1, 2014

·       Apr 01 2:56 PM Sassy: Hiya
·       Apr 01 2:56 PM Kris: Hi!…that was fast!
·       Apr 01 2:57 PM Sassy: Thanks for your email!
·       Apr 01 2:57 PM Sassy: I didn’t get your message at yahoo, so I thought I’d try this.
·       Apr 01 2:57 PM Kris: because i sent it to the wrong email address…just resent it to the correct one
·       Apr 01 2:59 PM Sassy: I got it!
·       Apr 01 3:00 PM Kris: well…we’re already “doing it” (chatting that is)…wink…
·       Apr 01 3:00 PM Sassy:  : )
·       Apr 01 3:00 PM Sassy: I hope the first message didn’t go to a nun in Peoria…
·       Apr 01 3:01 PM Kris: LOL….can I “fast track” this just a little to tell you a little about myself?
·       Apr 01 3:01 PM Sassy: Sure! Or do you want to wait until tonight? I can be around after 8…
·       Apr 01 3:03 PM Kris: ok…let’s do tonight…just one thing about myself (hope this doesn’t turn you off)….my full-time job is a therapist…..i do a lot of “in home therapy”….working with families in their homes…i have a session in 25 minutes….sitting in my car on my laptop….can we chat after 8:00 tonight?
·       Apr 01 3:03 PM Sassy: Ha! I guessed something like that… you were holding a book in one of the photos.
·       Apr 01 3:04 PM Sassy: Sounds good. Ping me tonight?
·       Apr 01 3:04 PM Kris: Later… 

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·       Apr 01 8:07 PM Kris: Hi
·       Apr 01 8:07 PM Sassy: Hiya!
·       Apr 01 8:07 PM Kris: surprised you’re still talking to me
·       Apr 01 8:08 PM Sassy: Awww… why?
·       Apr 01 8:08 PM Kris: read my email…with my “crazy past” i talked about?
·       Apr 01 8:08 PM Sassy: Sounds like you’ve got some great stories.
·       Apr 01 8:08 PM Kris: ok…so you’re not freaked out?
·       Apr 01 8:09 PM Sassy: Nope.
·       Apr 01 8:09 PM Kris: ok
·       Apr 01 8:09 PM Kris: how late do u usually stay up?
·       Apr 01 8:09 PM Sassy: Midnight or so… you?
·       Apr 01 8:09 PM Kris: about the same….
·       Apr 01 8:10 PM Kris: reason i ask….
·       Apr 01 8:10 PM Kris: i’m either going to chat now with you and then workout at the gym…
·       Apr 01 8:10 PM Kris: or workout first and talk to you later….if you’d be up
·       Apr 01 8:10 PM Sassy: Either way is fine.
·       Apr 01 8:11 PM Kris: would 10:30 be too late….or i could cut my workout short…I REALLY want to chat with you
·       Apr 01 8:11 PM Sassy: I may have to go out for a few minutes around 10ish, not sure
·       Apr 01 8:11 PM Sassy: 10:30 is fine. If I end up going up, I’ll leave a note here.
·       Apr 01 8:12 PM Sassy: Catch up when I get back.
·       Apr 01 8:12 PM Kris: k…..i’ll check back….10:30 at the latest…..
·       Apr 01 8:13 PM Sassy: Don’t think about my chest.  ; ) 
·       Apr 01 8:13 PM Kris: OMG

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·       Apr 01 10:22 PM Kris: Hi
·       Apr 01 10:22 PM Sassy: Hiya!
·       Apr 01 10:23 PM Kris: did u already step out?
·       Apr 01 10:23 PM Sassy: no.
·       Apr 01 10:23 PM Kris: need to?
·       Apr 01 10:23 PM Sassy: don’t know. Waiting for Hubby to call… or he may get a ride.
·       Apr 01 10:24 PM Kris: may need to pick him up?
·       Apr 01 10:24 PM Sassy: Yup
·       Apr 01 10:24 PM Kris: when he gets home do you have to stop chatting?
·       Apr 01 10:24 PM Sassy: No
·       Apr 01 10:24 PM Kris: you messed up my workout
·       Apr 01 10:25 PM Sassy: Oh?
·       Apr 01 10:25 PM Kris: i couldn’t stop thinking about imaginary boobs i was told not to think about
·       Apr 01 10:25 PM
Sassy:  : )
·       Apr 01 10:26 PM Kris: truthfully…i love big breasts
·       Apr 01 10:26 PM Sassy: Shall I send a photo and really mess with you?
·       Apr 01 10:26 PM Sassy: Or you want to wait…
·       Apr 01 10:27 PM Kris: just of your face….and if i’m going to wait….does that mean we have a future…..you’re a combination of relaxed and “let’s get on with it”…
·       Apr 01 10:27 PM Kris: which i like and makes me laugh…and a little impatient and curious all at the same time
·       Apr 01 10:28 PM Sassy: I am not an email queen, but I like to know a little bit first.
·       Apr 01 10:29 PM Kris: ok….let’s get on with what you need to know….because at a minimum i’m dying to treat you to dinner…if nothing else….ask away…
·       Apr 01 10:31 PM Sassy: Crap. Hubby just called. Argh! Can we re-start about 11 pm?
·       Apr 01 10:31 PM Kris: yup….later
·       Apr 01 10:32 PM Sassy: I’ll send two photos, since you were so good to post five on AM!
·       Apr 01 10:32 PM Kris: k
·       Apr 01 10:34 PM Sassy: If you’re still interested, I’ll ping you when I get back.
·       Apr 01 10:35 PM Kris: i’ll be here…definitely
·       Apr 01 10:35 PM Sassy: Back soon!

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·       Apr 01 11:04 PM Sassy: I’m baaaack!
·       Apr 01 11:04 PM Sassy: You still talking to me?
·       Apr 01 11:05 PM Kris: Hi, Yes—definitely… you’re pretty and your breasts…..well…..i’d just want to get lost in them in a number of ways….some of which you’ve instructed me about…. : )
·       Apr 01 11:06 PM Sassy: Ha ha… Alright!
·       Apr 01 11:07 PM Kris: So i know that everything has to happen in it’s own time….but…..
·       Apr 01 11:07 PM Kris: i appreciate that you said you’re not an email queen….
·       Apr 01 11:07 PM Sassy: I know guys worry about that.
·       Apr 01 11:08 PM Kris: i chatted for hours on end with a woman for 3 months…we had lunch…she said she wanted to be my lover…..then suddenly broke it off…..???????????
·       Apr 01 11:08 PM Sassy: Oh no! I’m sorry.
·       Apr 01 11:09 PM Kris: u don’t seem like you need 3 months of chatting….do u?
·       Apr 01 11:09 PM Sassy: Nope
·       Apr 01 11:09 PM Kris: so not to be impatient…but what are you curious about?
·       Apr 01 11:10 PM Sassy: I don’t have a specific list of questions
·       Apr 01 11:10 PM Sassy: Just want to get to know you a bit
·       Apr 01 11:11 PM Kris: ok…so a random question or two….
·       Apr 01 11:11 PM Sassy: I did want to say that I don’t drink alcohol. I’m allergic
·       Apr 01 11:12 PM Kris: really? never heard of that before! wish I was….would have saved me and a lot of other people a lot of pain (bad joke)
·       Apr 01 11:12 PM Sassy: I hear ya
·       Apr 01 11:13 PM Kris: ok…so i have some serious questions…some of which have pissed some women off….ready?
·       Apr 01 11:13 PM Sassy: Sure
·       Apr 01 11:14 PM Kris: the two things that seem to bug me the most are “What exactly is the nature of what we’re doing?” Does this woman want more than one lover at a time…or just one at a time…and can I trust her to tell me the truth?…that’s the first one… and the second one is….
·       Apr 01 11:14 PM Kris: STDs
·       Apr 01 11:16 PM  Sassy: Interesting questions.
·       Apr 01 11:17 PM Kris: care to comment further?
·       Apr 01 11:17 PM Sassy: Thinking…
·       Apr 01 11:18 PM Sassy: Do you want a woman seeing only you?
·       Apr 01 11:19 PM Sassy: Had advantages in terms of safety but heightens the attachment risk
·       Apr 01 11:20 PM Kris: not necessarily…but if she’s not…that immediately raises the issue of STDs…i can handle a woman who wants to see more than me….but the issue of STDs is real….and needs to addressed responsibly….
·       Apr 01 11:20 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 01 11:20 PM Sassy: exclusivity lowers the STD risk but raises the risk of emotional intensity if she is focused on you
·       Apr 01 11:22 PM Sassy: For the record, I like to stick to one guy.
·       Apr 01 11:22 PM Sassy: I want someone I like
·       Apr 01 11:22 PM Sassy: and I’d prefer to stay off AM for a while
·       Apr 01 11:23 PM Kris: why would you like to stay off AM for a while?
·       Apr 01 11:23 PM Sassy: Prowling is tough
·       Apr 01 11:23 PM Sassy: nerve-wracking
·       Apr 01 11:23 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 01 11:23 PM Kris: in what way?
·       Apr 01 11:25 PM Sassy: Trying to figure out if the guy is a creep or nice, trying to convince him I’m nice… putting a lot in and then silence… it’s a roller coaster
·       Apr 01 11:25 PM Kris: ok…here’s the thing…
·       Apr 01 11:25 PM Kris: you ARE nice….
·       Apr 01 11:26 PM Kris: but you may not want to get “too serious”…which is fine
·       Apr 01 11:26 PM Kris: so you may want to have a few lovers at once…
·       Apr 01 11:26 PM Kris: to “spread the emotional intensity around” a little…as you put it (never thought of it that way before)
·       Apr 01 11:26 PM Sassy: Yes.
·       Apr 01 11:27 PM Sassy: I get that by having online pals far away
·       Apr 01 11:27 PM Kris: meaning you have erotic chatting and so forth?
·       Apr 01 11:28 PM Sassy: Sometimes
·       Apr 01 11:28 PM Kris: but not physical lovers at the same time?….i’m not judging….i can handle it….it’s just that…..here’s the thing……
·       Apr 01 11:29 PM Kris: if we’re going to lie to our spouses….why wouldn’t we lie to the people we’re cheating on them with too?…it bugs me….
·       Apr 01 11:29 PM Sassy: I don’t lie to my spouse.
·       Apr 01 11:29 PM Kris: does your husband know you’re having sex with other men?
·       Apr 01 11:29 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 01 11:30 PM Kris: oh…my wife doesn’t and i can’t let her…
·       Apr 01 11:30 PM Sassy: Of course
·       Apr 01 11:30 PM Sassy: My situation is very rare
·       Apr 01 11:30 PM Kris: which is?
·       Apr 01 11:30 PM Sassy: That I don’t have to hide from H
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Sassy: He does his thing and I do mine
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Sassy: I don’t share details
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Sassy: He doesn’t know names etc.
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Kris: does he have lovers too?
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Sassy: He is usually dating a couple of women at a time
·       Apr 01 11:32 PM Kris: is that your real preference also?
·       Apr 01 11:32 PM Sassy: No. I find having one local man is enough
·       Apr 01 11:33 PM Sassy: But I am not possessive
·       Apr 01 11:33 PM Sassy: or jealous
·       Apr 01 11:33 PM Sassy: If you are nice to me, see me now and then, I don’t think about what you do otherwise
·       Apr 01 11:33 PM Sassy: As long as you are safe
·       Apr 01 11:34 PM Sassy: If you are just starting out, you may want to play the field, yes?
·       Apr 01 11:34 PM Kris: that’s the thing…i can wear a condom but if i go down on any woman i can contract an std….unless i used an “oral dam”…which would completely ruin the fun of it….
·       Apr 01 11:35 PM Kris: no…i don’t want to play the field….don’t have the time or emotional energy…not that big a “player”….
·       Apr 01 11:35 PM Sassy: As for truth… it is best
·       Apr 01 11:35 PM Sassy: I can be “the one you talk to”
·       Apr 01 11:36 PM Sassy: you can relax… not filter… be yourself
·       Apr 01 11:36 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 01 11:36 PM Kris: by truth is best?
·       Apr 01 11:36 PM Kris: i think leaving some things unsaid is best sometimes…like the arrangement you have with your husband.
·       Apr 01 11:36 PM Sassy: You have to lie to your wife, but there is no reason to lie to me
·       Apr 01 11:37 PM Sassy: Sure… omit if you like
·       Apr 01 11:37 PM Kris: you’re too nice
·       Apr 01 11:37 PM Sassy: Heh
·       Apr 01 11:37 PM Sassy: But you don’t have to waste mental energy wondering what you can say or not say, if you’ll offend me…
·       Apr 01 11:38 PM Sassy: Just tell me you are not a Yankees fan
·       Apr 01 11:38 PM Kris: LOL
·       Apr 01 11:40 PM Sassy: Did I answer your questions?
·       Apr 01 11:41 PM Kris: yes…having trouble with my keyboard…sorry for the delay….you didn’t even scold me for asking a question twice…most women get “highly pissed off”….like
·       Apr 01 11:42 PM Kris: like…”how dare you insinuate i’m not telling the truth”…instead of just answering the question….which you did…..that’s why you’re too nice (but I like you for it)
·       Apr 01 11:42 PM Sassy: My impression, is that most men do not tell the truth
·       Apr 01 11:43 PM Sassy: I try not to bet my life on it
·       Apr 01 11:43 PM Sassy: But at a certain point…
·       Apr 01 11:43 PM Sassy: I have to get over that and have fun.
·       Apr 01 11:44 PM Kris: remember when you asked me what fantasies i had?
·       Apr 01 11:44 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 01 11:44 PM Kris: i thought of one that isn’t directly about sex…but about a “kind of lover”…
·       Apr 01 11:44 PM Kris: you already told me you could be it….
·       Apr 01 11:45 PM Kris: know what it is?
·       Apr 01 11:45 PM Sassy:  What?
·       Apr 01 11:45 PM Kris: someone i could actually tell the truth to…who wouldn’t freak out and could handle it…. hard to find….
·       Apr 01 11:46 PM Sassy: Are you the same?
·       Apr 01 11:46 PM Kris: doesn’t mean I want to “unload crap” on someone…but just to not have to hide and work so hard at “editing” all the time…
·       Apr 01 11:46 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 01 11:46 PM Sassy: Will I freak you out?
·       Apr 01 11:47 PM Kris: i highly doubt it…but i’d like to see you try….remember….i’ve “seen a few things” in my day…..try me…
·       Apr 01 11:47 PM Sassy: How did you find AM?
·       Apr 01 11:48 PM Kris: i can’t remember…probably through a porn site…
·       Apr 01 11:48 PM Kris: you?
·       Apr 01 11:49 PM Sassy: I found a sexy blog written by a man about his AM adventures
·       Apr 01 11:49 PM Kris: so how long have you been on AM?
·       Apr 01 11:50 PM Sassy: Let me back up a little further
·       Apr 01 11:50 PM Kris: k
·       Apr 01 11:50 PM Sassy: In August 2010 I got email from the first boy who ever kissed me.
·       Apr 01 11:51 PM Sassy: We dated for 3 weeks when I was 14 and he was 16, which amounted to sitting together at lunch and kissing in the choir room at church
·       Apr 01 11:51 PM Kris: lol
·       Apr 01 11:51 PM Sassy: He broke up with me and I was crushed.
 Apr 01 11:52 PM Sassy: So 37 years later he writes to me
·       Apr 01 11:52 PM Sassy: I remember his name and that he broke my heart.
·       Apr 01 11:52 PM Sassy: Not much else.
·       Apr 01 11:52 PM Kris: this is a great story…keep going..
·       Apr 01 11:53 PM Sassy: He apologizes, says he has thought of me over the years whenever he um… well… you know, was alone… and he’s never felt the chemistry we had and he wants to see if it still burns
·       Apr 01 11:54 PM Sassy: I’ve never cheated. He’s never cheated. I am not 14 anymore.
·       Apr 01 11:54 PM Kris: this was only 4 years ago?
·       Apr 01 11:54 PM Sassy: I figure we’ll talk, it will be fun… he will never touch a curvy old married lady
·       Apr 01 11:55 PM Sassy: He tells me stories about that sassy teenager…
·       Apr 01 11:55 PM Sassy: our first kiss
·       Apr 01 11:56 PM Sassy: invites me to D.C. to have dinner and see what happens
·       Apr 01 11:56 PM Sassy: I tell Hubby in that “can you believe this?” way
·       Apr 01 11:56 PM Sassy: and he says, “Go… have fun.”
·       Apr 01 11:57 PM Sassy: So I did.
·       Apr 01 11:58 PM Sassy: He surprised me. He wanted me.
·       Apr 01 11:58 PM Kris: ah…the crux of it all… being wanted..
·       Apr 01 11:58 PM Sassy: The chemistry was nuclear.
·       Apr 01 11:59 PM Sassy: And he made sure I had fun… which no man had ever done.
·       Apr 01 11:59 PM Kris: how did he make sure you had fun?
·       Apr 01 11:59 PM Kris: you can tell me at the end of the story…keep going…
·       Apr 01 11:59 PM Sassy: So… he’s military. Miles away.  Married.
·       Apr 02 12:01 AM Sassy: Lots of emotion.
·       Apr 02 12:01 AM Sassy: So eventually he says, “You need a local option.”
·       Apr 02 12:02 AM Sassy: I cannot imagine being a success at online dating.
·       Apr 02 12:02 AM Sassy: But I have a lot of friends on AM
·       Apr 02 12:02 AM Sassy: I’ve even helped them with their profiles
·       Apr 02 12:02 AM Sassy: But I am sure no man will want me… old, curvy…
 Apr 02 12:03 AM Kris: you underestimate how much most men “think with another head”…
·       Apr 02 12:04 AM Sassy: So one rainy night in Sept. 2012, when both Hubby and my military man have forgotten my birthday, a woman friend online tells me to go on AM
·       Apr 02 12:04 AM Kris: sorry….keep going….
·       Apr 02 12:04 AM Sassy: Make a profile. Enjoy the attention
·       Apr 02 12:04 AM Sassy: I bet her that no one will contact me
·       Apr 02 12:05 AM Sassy: She takes the bet and helps me write a profile, then calls in a couple guys she has dated to fine tune it and I posted it
·       Apr 02 12:05 AM Sassy: So I’ve been on and off since then
·       Apr 02 12:06 AM Sassy: Sorry for the long answer!
·       Apr 02 12:06 AM Kris: no…i like it….so how many lovers besides your military man have you had in the past 2 years?
·       Apr 02 12:06 AM Sassy: How long have you been on AM?
·       Apr 02 12:07 AM Kris: about 6 months
·       Apr 02 12:08 AM Sassy: Have you met anyone?
·       Apr 02 12:08 AM Kris: yes….had several dates with 3 different women…no sex with any though….
·       Apr 02 12:10 AM Kris: lunches…dinners…even treated one to the Boston Holiday Pops Concert at Symphony Hall….then dinner after….she wanted to be my lover….but wasn’t really my type…..couldn’t do it….
·       Apr 02 12:11 AM Kris: the “chemistry/connection” thing…besides just “sex”…it’s all kind of hard to figure out…..you?
·       Apr 02 12:13 AM Sassy: I’ve talked to a couple dozen guys…
·       Apr 02 12:13 AM Kris: how many lovers you’ve had really isn’t important…just curious…as you described some “encounters” with some men…
·       Apr 02 12:13 AM Sassy: met 16
·       Apr 02 12:14 AM Kris: that you’ve had sex with?
·       Apr 02 12:14 AM Sassy: nooo
·       Apr 02 12:14 AM Sassy: about half of them.
·       Apr 02 12:14 AM Sassy: I went a bit nuts when I first started
·       Apr 02 12:15 AM Sassy: But I got attacked in July
·       Apr 02 12:15 AM Kris: i appreciate you telling me the truth about this…since you don’t really have to…..but are…..
·       Apr 02 12:16 AM Kris: attacked????????
·       Apr 02 12:16 AM Sassy: Yeah
·       Apr 02 12:16 AM Kris: what happened?
·       Apr 02 12:16 AM Sassy: Law of averages caught up with me I suppose
·       Apr 02 12:16 AM Kris: do you mind telling me what happened?
 Apr 02 12:17 AM Sassy: Guy was very rough
·       Apr 02 12:17 AM Sassy: Started with a vibrator
·       Apr 02 12:18 AM Kris: innocent enough…then what?
·       Apr 02 12:18 AM Sassy: he was very violent with it, made me bleed
·       Apr 02 12:18 AM Kris: OMG!!!!!!!!!
·       Apr 02 12:18 AM Sassy: I protested, so he got even rougher with his hands
·       Apr 02 12:19 AM Sassy: I started to try to get away
·       Apr 02 12:19 AM Sassy: so he kind of… sat on me
·       Apr 02 12:19 AM Sassy: bit me. I told him it was not my thing.  To stop.
·       Apr 02 12:20 AM Sassy: then he raped me
·       Apr 02 12:20 AM Kris: omg… i’m so sorry…..
·       Apr 02 12:21 AM Kris: r u ok right now?
·       Apr 02 12:21 AM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 12:21 AM Sassy: I had good people to talk to
·       Apr 02 12:21 AM Kris: how long ago was that
·       Apr 02 12:22 AM Sassy: July
·       Apr 02 12:22 AM Sassy: I’ve only been with one man since then
·       Apr 02 12:23 AM Sassy: I finally decided that jerk was not going to keep me on the shelf
·       Apr 02 12:23 AM Kris: i was going to ask how you managed to get back on AM after that
·       Apr 02 12:23 AM Sassy: I changed the way I interact
·       Apr 02 12:23 AM Kris: how?
·       Apr 02 12:24 AM Sassy: No private first meets
·       Apr 02 12:24 AM Sassy: and take a little more time talking to the guy first
·       Apr 02 12:24 AM Kris: so you had sex with men the first time you met them in person–after just meeting them a little through AM?
·       Apr 02 12:25 AM Sassy: At first I did
·       Apr 02 12:25 AM Kris: can i go back to before all this a little….and ask about your marriage?
·       Apr 02 12:25 AM Sassy: Sure.
·       Apr 02 12:25 AM Sassy: Sorry… I usually try to stay light and fun
Apr 02 12:26 AM Sassy: Not lay out all this first night out!
·       Apr 02 12:26 AM Kris: is this the first night out?
·       Apr 02 12:27 AM Sassy: Well… you know, the first time we’ve talked
·       Apr 02 12:27 AM Kris: gotcha….
·       Apr 02 12:27 AM Sassy: But it seems to be the answer to what you’re asking
·       Apr 02 12:27 AM Sassy: You were going to ask something when I started talking about July?
·       Apr 02 12:28 AM Sassy: i appreciate you telling me the truth about this…since you don’t really have to…but are…..
·       Apr 02 12:28 AM Kris: i appreciate everything you’ve told me…..lots of women won’t do that….for me it “connects me” with you….in ways “just fun” can’t…back to my other question…
·       Apr 02 12:29 AM Sassy: marriage?
·       Apr 02 12:29 AM Kris: if at any point you don’t want to answer a question…or want to change the subject…please tell me…yes…marriage….
·       Apr 02 12:29 AM Kris: why did you stop having sex with your husband?
·       Apr 02 12:30 AM Sassy: He told me I was not attractive anymore and pushed me away
·       Apr 02 12:30 AM Kris: ouch…how sad…how long ago was that?
·       Apr 02 12:30 AM Sassy: 1999
·       Apr 02 12:30 AM Kris: did he start having affairs with other women?
·       Apr 02 12:31 AM Sassy: no. not until about… hmmm…let’s see… Feb. 2013
·       Apr 02 12:31 AM Kris: how do you know…did he tell you?
·       Apr 02 12:31 AM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 12:31 AM Kris: did you tell him about yours?
·       Apr 02 12:31 AM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 12:32 AM Sassy: He wanted to start while I was ill but I asked him not to
·       Apr 02 12:32 AM Sassy: He went on OKCupid anyway
·       Apr 02 12:32 AM Kris: that’s so different from my experience…have a hard time imagining it…my wife would divorce me and I don’t think i would want to live with her.
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Kris: speaking of you being ill…
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Kris: i wanted to say i’m glad you beat cancer.
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Sassy: Thanks!
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Sassy: I was very lucky
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Kris: how so?
 Apr 02 12:33 AM Sassy: I was rather random about mammograms
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Sassy: no cancer in my family, they hurt etc.
·       Apr 02 12:34 AM Sassy: So I tended to let them go
·       Apr 02 12:34 AM Sassy: Old flame got on me about it
·       Apr 02 12:34 AM Sassy: Talked me into catching up
·       Apr 02 12:34 AM Sassy: At exactly the right moment to catch a tiny tumor
·       Apr 02 12:35 AM Sassy: So… caught it early, had access to MGH Women’s Cancer team
·       Apr 02 12:35 AM Sassy: was able to work the entire time except surgery days or chemo day
·       Apr 02 12:36 AM Kris: so is it completely gone?
·       Apr 02 12:36 AM Sassy: Yup
·       Apr 02 12:36 AM Kris: GREAT!!!!!!!!!
·       Apr 02 12:36 AM Sassy: Yep
·       Apr 02 12:37 AM Sassy: I try hard not be about that…
·       Apr 02 12:37 AM Sassy: went to the doctor a lot, over it… moving on
·       Apr 02 12:37 AM Sassy: don’t wear any pink. : ) 
·       Apr 02 12:38 AM Kris: Besides keeping you here…it would seem from one of the pictures you sent some “great assets” have been preserved…mind if i change the subject to your sexy emails/messages to me?
·       Apr 02 12:38 AM Sassy: I fought hard for those… get to show them off in a demure way, right?
·       Apr 02 12:39 AM Kris: right!
·       Apr 02 12:39 AM Sassy: Sure —emails. what?
·       Apr 02 12:40 AM Kris: i liked your descriptions of what you’d like and want during sex…besides just turning me on…..it’s part of what i’m hoping for…the “teaching me”….”i’ll teach you” part of communicating what you like and want….turns me on….just FYI…..smile
·       Apr 02 12:40 AM Sassy: Trying to make sure you know my style…
·       Apr 02 12:41 AM Kris: it helps…sounds like you like a variety of things…and depends on your mood of the moment too…is that right?
·       Apr 02 12:41 AM Sassy: that I don’t waste your time if you’re looking for something else
·       Apr 02 12:41 AM Sassy: Yes.
·       Apr 02 12:42 AM Sassy: Seems like a lot of men are used to wives who want the same thing, in the dark, quick
·       Apr 02 12:42 AM Sassy: I am not that
·       Apr 02 12:43 AM Kris: ok…here’s that “can i talk to you” part…about sex with my wife…don’t have to though…but about why it will be different….
·       Apr 02 12:43 AM Sassy: Sure
·       Apr 02 12:44 AM Kris: first…does it bother you that i still have sex regularly with my wife?
 Apr 02 12:44 AM Sassy: no
·       Apr 02 12:44 AM Kris: and actually…it’s not “bad”
·       Apr 02 12:44 AM Kris: but it is pretty much “the same”
·       Apr 02 12:45 AM Sassy: Are you hitting the “if I am ever going to get to try other stuff, I need to do it now” point?
·       Apr 02 12:45 AM Kris: no….actually it’s not about trying other stuff…it’s more about “with someone different”…let me tell you a little more about what i mean.
·       Apr 02 12:45 AM Sassy: ok
·       Apr 02 12:46 AM Kris: remember i said i had a 3 month chatting relationship with a woman?
·       Apr 02 12:46 AM Sassy: yes
·       Apr 02 12:46 AM Kris: she kept insisting….
·       Apr 02 12:47 AM Kris: that everything we might do had to be completely different than what i did with my wife…as if it were some kind of “competition” for “good sex” or something….
·       Apr 02 12:48 AM Kris: I kept trying to tell her….
·       Apr 02 12:48 AM Kris: the MAIN thing that will be different is YOU…
·       Apr 02 12:49 AM Kris: she didn’t get it….
·       Apr 02 12:49 AM Kris: “technique” is all well and good…
·       Apr 02 12:50 AM Sassy: Trying to fathom… so not what I am like
·       Apr 02 12:51 AM Kris: but it’s about the person too…their passion…personality…all of it/you.
·       Apr 02 12:51 AM Sassy: I want you to have a confidante
·       Apr 02 12:51 AM Sassy: I want you to feel good
·       Apr 02 12:51 AM Sassy: Passion
·       Apr 02 12:52 AM Sassy: Pleasure
·       Apr 02 12:52 AM Sassy: Fun
·       Apr 02 12:52 AM Sassy: Laughs
·       Apr 02 12:52 AM Sassy: I want you not to get caught
·       Apr 02 12:52 AM Sassy: Other than that… can’t imagine imposing rules or competing or controlling much.
·       Apr 02 12:53 AM Kris: ok… pretty much nailed it….sorry for getting “too heavy”….i really want to have fun too.
·       Apr 02 12:54 AM Sassy: So are you a Yankees fan?
·       Apr 02 12:54 AM Kris: LOL…no…but
·       Apr 02 12:55 AM Kris: i’m not a big baseball fan in general…like football better…
·       Apr 02 12:55 AM Sassy: S’okay
·       Apr 02 12:55 AM Kris: lol
Apr 02 12:55 AM Sassy: Should I let you get to bed?
·       Apr 02 12:56 AM Kris: i’m ok…but it makes sense to go
·       Apr 02 12:56 AM Sassy: Freaked out yet?
·       Apr 02 12:57 AM Kris: no….appreciate your honesty…frankness…humor…pretty face….and big tits (sorry)
·       Apr 02 12:58 AM Sassy: Ha ha
·       Apr 02 12:58 AM Kris: nite…hope to talk to you again soon.
·       Apr 02 12:59 AM Sassy: Want to try tomorrow night?
·       Apr 02 12:59 AM Kris: yes…hold on so i can tell you about when….
·       Apr 02 1:01 AM Kris: realistically…i have a late session…then to the gym after…is 10:00 too late?
·       Apr 02 1:01 AM Sassy: Nope. Fine.
·       Apr 02 1:01 AM Kris: what time do you have to be at work?
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Sassy: 9 am. You?
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Kris: hope you get enough sleep tonite.
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM
Kris: same…9
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Sassy: I’ll be fine
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Kris: k….nite
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Sassy: Mwah!
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Sassy: Sweet sexy dreams!

·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Kris: same to you!


Sassy in charge

Sunday, January 12, 2014
Yahoo IM with Mr Truck
12:30 PM Mr Truck: Today would be a great day to get naked with an affectionate curvy woman like you!
12:31 PM Sassy: You are so right!
12:32 PM Sassy: I’ve just been looking at more videos you sent me! How did you know!
12:35 PM Mr Truck: Maybe it’s because I was looking for some new videos for YOU!
12:35 PM Mr Truck: what are you in the mood for?
12:35 PM Sassy: Naughty
12:36 PM Sassy: I was just watching a MILF teacher bang two college students!
12:37 PM Mr Truck: Mmmmm. I was just watching various BBW girls sucking cock.
12:37 PM Mr Truck: Gosh I love their soft tummies
12:37 PM Sassy: Also, if you ever seen anything where the woman has benwa balls inside, I’d like to see
12:37 PM Sassy: Oooh…
12:37 PM Mr Truck: Ok, I’ve seen a few of those about a month ago, will be on the look out
12:39 PM Mr Truck: You want ass or cunt stuffing?
12:39 PM Sassy: I found one with like…. three seconds of a guy fucking a woman standing up with them inside her.. something about the clacking sound really set me off
12:39 PM Sassy: then he took them out and they licked them!
12:39 PM Mr Truck: Mmmmmmm!!! NICE
12:39 PM Sassy: Did I send that to you? It was the outdoor sex one…
12:40 PM Mr Truck: I don’t know, ok I’m mixing up benwah with those string of beads
12:40 PM Mr Truck: You ever use the balls?
12:40 PM Sassy: no
12:41 PM Sassy: I wonder what they’d feel like… a fullness? Cool… metal… then extra full and funky during sex? Hmm…..
12:41 PM Sassy: You ever tried them?
12:41 PM Mr Truck: I don’t think they’d work well with sex. No never have!
12:42 PM Sassy: Bet they’d be fun in your ass….
12:42 PM Sassy: Pressing them in and pulling them out…
12:42 PM Sassy: Hearing them clack and knowing they were going to fill you?
12:43 PM Mr Truck: oh fuck yes, you’d make me your ass slave
12:43 PM Sassy: Maybe I’d suck you at the same time
12:44 PM Sassy: Clack… gently press one inside… then clack… another…clack up against the first… suck suck lick…
12:44 PM Mr Truck: Yes definitely what a double sensation and those sounds
12:44 PM Sassy: You squirming over there yet?
12:45 PM Mr Truck: Let’s just say my precum is tasting very sweet right now…
12:45 PM Sassy: Really?
12:46 PM Mr Truck: Oh yes, I love it
12:46 PM Sassy: So you’re touching?
12:47 PM Mr Truck: a little, I have to be careful, not alone in the house!
12:49 PM Sassy: Naughty man… I adore that
12:49 PM Sassy: Wish I could be touching you…
12:49 PM Mr Truck: Me too, I need those soft hands and mouth of yours
12:50 PM Sassy: I need something to suck on
12:51 PM Mr Truck: You really do, it’s so natural for a woman like you to crave cock as a pacifier
12:51 PM Mr Truck: I want to record our encounter on video
12:53 PM Mr Truck: I wanna cum on your face then kiss you passionately
12:54 PM Sassy: You want to focus on my wet finger inside you?
12:54 PM Mr Truck: Oh honey……
12:54 PM Sassy: While I deep throat you?
12:55 PM Mr Truck: Oh baby, yes, yes honey I soooooooooooo need that
12:55 PM Sassy: Or maybe just my tongue teasing your nipple while I twist the other one
12:55 PM Mr Truck: You KNOW I’ll do anything when you fondle my nipples, you can own me
12:56 PM Sassy: Maybe you could focus on my big bouncing tits and tummy while I ride you… mmmm
12:57 PM Mr Truck: You’re such a treasure so full of things that would hypnotize me
12:57 PM Sassy: Geesh… you have got me so hussied-up today!
12:58 PM Mr Truck: ME TOO! Maybe you can fondle my smooth hairless ass while sucking me
12:58 PM Mr Truck: it’s as smooth as a woman’s
12:58 PM Sassy: oh yes…
12:59 PM Mr Truck: rub your massive white tits on my ass
1:03 PM Sassy: Gonna grab it, squeeze it, pull your cheeks apart… liiiiick
1:03 PM Mr Truck: Oh fuck, are you going to lick my ass pussy?
1:04 PM Sassy: start at the top… slowly… move down… while you squirm and wonder…
1:04 PM Sassy: flick
1:04 PM Sassy: lick
1:04 PM Sassy: closer and closer
1:04 PM Sassy: then blow on your wet crack
1:04 PM Sassy: tingling
1:05 PM Sassy: ?
1:05 PM Mr Truck: Oh god I’ve never been eaten out at all, now I’m craving it
1:05 PM Mr Truck: Makes me want to be submissive to you
1:06 PM Sassy: You can let me work my magic on you…
1:06 PM Mr Truck: Fuck yes, you’ll make me build up a huge load for you
1:06 PM Sassy: relax… enjoy… not have to plan the next move
1:06 PM Sassy: Let me play
1:06 PM Mr Truck: Exactly, with lots of erotic talk and noises
1:06 PM Sassy: Yes… let me know how you feel
1:07 PM Mr Truck: Yes
1:07 PM Sassy: what’s good…what drives you wild
1:07 PM Mr Truck: yes
1:07 PM Sassy: You can be in charge of the next round.
1:07 PM Mr Truck: That’s right
1:07 PM Sassy: But this one is mine…
1:07 PM Mr Truck: you wanna have me first?
1:08 PM Mr Truck: have me naked while you’re dressed for a little while?
1:08 PM Sassy: You want to stand there naked? Show off your body to me?
1:09 PM Mr Truck: Yes I do, I want you tell me what to take of, one article at a time
1:09 PM Sassy: Let me see your nipples…
1:09 PM Mr Truck: Oh honey
1:09 PM Sassy: peel off your clothes bit by bit
1:09 PM Sassy: I’ll tell you what I think
1:09 PM Sassy: what I going to do with you
1:09 PM Sassy: My man toy
1:09 PM Mr Truck: yes, so verbal, so matter of factly
1:09 PM Mr Truck: yes
1:09 PM Mr Truck: all for you
1:09 PM Sassy: I’m going to make you burn
1:10 PM Mr Truck: I need to be used
1:10 PM Mr Truck: mmmmm
1:10 PM Sassy: I’m going to play
1:10 PM Mr Truck: by a woman who knows how
1:10 PM Sassy: I’m not going to take a direct route
1:10 PM Mr Truck: tease
1:10 PM Sassy: I’m going to push you to the edge of the cliff…. but not let you go over
1:11 PM Sassy: then let you rest… breathe….
1:11 PM Sassy: wonder…
1:11 PM Mr Truck: I soooo want to be edged by you
1:11 PM Mr Truck: edge me for hours
1:11 PM Mr Truck: I’ll return the favor
1:12 PM Mr Truck: (being called away, back later MMMMMMMMMM)

See it and wear it

Wednesday, January 8, 2014
Yahoo IM with Mr Truck 
2:56 PM
Mr Truck: Hey I don’t hear from you anymore even when i write messages  🙁
2:56 PM
Sassy: You write messages? Yahoo IM is freaky.  I always respond when I see them!
2:57 PM
Mr Truck: I’ve written about 3 , I know it’s fucked up and unreliable
2:57 PM
Sassy: Hiya hot stuff!
2:57 PM
Mr Truck: how’s things? good christmas and new years?
2:57 PM
Sassy: Yup. Very low key. You?
2:57 PM
Mr Truck: Same. How’s work? How’s your project group?
2:58 PM
Sassy: Rolling along!  I’m off the next couple of days… have tickets to watch figure skating national championships in Boston!
3:00 PM
Mr Truck: Cool I did that once at TD Garden, actually it wasn’t competition, just a big skate show with stars, should be fun huh?
3:00 PM
Sassy: so cool to see the folks headed to the Olympics
3:00 PM
Sassy: I took my niece to watch Novices on Sunday… she was enthralled
3:01 PM
Sassy: Do you skate?
3:01 PM
Mr Truck: Oh no, tried it once when i was 12. You? I’ll be going out West in a few weeks to see X Games, lots of skiers and boarders there will be going to Sochi
3:02 PM
Sassy: Cool! I used to skate a lot, mostly outside on streams, ponds in upstate NY but not since college
3:02 PM
Mr Truck: nice
3:02 PM
Sassy: There is just something about watching people on TV at the Olympics and saying “I saw them live last month.” Heh
3:03 PM
Mr Truck: “I wish I had a river I could skate away on…”
3:03 PM
Mr Truck: Yeah I know
3:03 PM
Sassy: And I used to travel to skating events a lot, so now my favorite skaters are coaches
3:03 PM
Mr Truck: Seriously, how cool, you’re big time into it
3:03 PM
Sassy: And it’s such a small sport, you can talk to them, they’re in the stands with you…
3:04 PM
Sassy: I hadn’t been in a long time, was afraid I forgot everything… but it came rushing back
3:04 PM
Mr Truck: that’s nice
3:04 PM
Mr Truck: like riding a bike, or a guy!
3:04 PM
Sassy: Oh yes
3:05 PM
Mr Truck: I’ve been bad, went back to watching lots of BBW porn again
3:05 PM
Sassy: You getting any action?
3:06 PM
Mr Truck: Nothing but a tiny chat with a woman on occupied
3:06 PM
Sassy: Ah. Hubby uses that
3:06 PM
Mr Truck: it’s kind of lame
3:06 PM
Sassy: He has two Gfs from it right now
3:06 PM
Sassy: One he likes a lot, the other he is trying to shed
3:06 PM
Mr Truck: he gets around!
3:06 PM
Sassy: Yeah
3:06 PM
Mr Truck: are they slutty?
3:06 PM
Sassy: no
3:07 PM
Sassy: one is a librarian… the other works in an office… both… hmmm… women that other men overlook mostly
3:08 PM
Sassy: I like the office one
3:08 PM
Mr Truck: big girls?
3:08 PM
Sassy: Yes
3:08 PM
Mr Truck: mmmmm Maybe hubby and I should have a chat about our ‘tastes’ sometime!
3:09 PM
Sassy: heh. I was just looking at some milking videos you sent me last year
3:10 PM
Mr Truck: prostate milking?
3:10 PM
Sassy: A guy was talking about how his gf tried prostate massage on him and he didn’t like it and how could he learn to?
3:10 PM
Sassy: I sent him to read a blog article about it, and watch your videos.  : )
3:11 PM
Mr Truck: how hot, I sent that or is this another thing?
3:11 PM
Sassy: You sent me to short videos…
3:12 PM
Sassy: You share the best stuff!
3:12 PM
Mr Truck: vaguely remember the details, I’ll have to go watch some. Would you consider milking me?
3:12 PM
Sassy: Sure
3:12 PM
Sassy: Someone done that for you before?
3:13 PM
Mr Truck: yes a few different times. I used to get finger fucked a lot in my ass-pussy
3:14 PM
Sassy: I’ve done it a couple of times with excellent results
3:14 PM
Sassy: I adore it when a man says “I’ve never cum harder in my life!”
3:15 PM
Mr Truck: Wow! I love that, and for you to see a man spurt so strongly must be a turn on
3:16 PM
Sassy: I never see it… it’s always in my mouth!
3:16 PM
Mr Truck: Good girl!! But I’m gonna make sure you see it and wear it
3:17 PM
Sassy:  : )
3:19 PM
Mr Truck: Ok gotta scoot, GREAT finally chatting again, we need to meet as soon as my wife is on the road
3:20 PM
Sassy: Mwah!
3:20 PM
Mr Truck: xoxo

Two ships passing

Yahoo IM 
to The Lawyer
Dec 29, 2013 8:26 PM Sassy: Boo?
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From: Sassy
To: The Lawyer
Sent: Thu, Jan 2, 2014 2:32 PM
Subject: Let’s say
Happy New Year hot stuff!  I hope your 2014 is off to a grand start. 
Let’s say… you’re back from your holiday travels.  And the snow is canceling meetings, so there might be a gap in your schedule.  And my office is closed now and tomorrow.  The driving will be bad but not that bad.  So we could make it to a certain hotel has rooms available.  For not too much.  And you would be interested in seeing me… touching me… tasting me.  Naked. 
If any of that is true… and leads you to invite me to see you… I’d like that.  🙂 
If not, have a great weekend!  Mwah!
 -S
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Yahoo IM 
from The Lawyer 
Jan 06, 2014 5:14 PM The Lawyer: Happy new year!!!

Looking forward

Thursday, December 19, 2013
3:38 PM The Lawyer: Looking forward to Monday!
3:39 PM Sassy: I am so distracted!
3:39 PM Sassy: I want to see you smile.
3:39 PM The Lawyer: I already am!!!
3:40 PM Sassy: So happy to give you something fun to anticipate.
3:40 PM The Lawyer: Mmmn. Hope you feel the same!

The Lawyer wants me

Wednesday, December 18, 2013
4:41 PM The Lawyer: Where’s Sassy?
4:41 PM Sassy: just about to leave work.  Hiya handsome!
4:42 PM The Lawyer: How are you????
4:42 PM  Sassy: I’m great!
4:43 PM Sassy: You?
4:43 PM The Lawyer: Ok!!  Missing you!
4:44 PM Sassy: Awww… I think of you often!
4:44 PM The Lawyer: How was your christmas party?
4:45 PM Sassy: Nice!
4:45 PM The Lawyer: We need to do more than think!!!
4:45 PM Sassy: It’s low key… just decorate a room with snow flakes… bring in some finger food and invite everyone we work with during the year
4:46 PM Sassy: Yes please.
4:46 PM Sassy: When I leave the office tomorrow, I don’t have to go back until Jan 2.
4:46 PM Sassy: 13 days. You want to claim one?
4:47 PM The Lawyer: At least part!!!!  When are you taking them?
4:48 PM Sassy: I am completely off work except the morning of Dec. 24
4:48 PM Sassy: You can’t have Christmas. Or NYE after 10 PM
4:48 PM Sassy: You can have any other time! You going away? Working?
4:49 PM The Lawyer: Wow!!!
4:50 PM The Lawyer: I’ll be away most of the time 25th to 1st– but time before?
4:50 PM Sassy: Yes.  Friday? Weekend? Monday?
4:51 PM Sassy: I want you
4:52 PM The Lawyer: Fri and weekend are tough — Monday? Tomorrow?
4:52 PM The Lawyer: I want you too
4:53 PM Sassy: Monday?
4:54 PM The Lawyer: Ok !
4:54 PM Sassy: What time?
4:54 PM The Lawyer: When’s good?
4:55 PM Sassy: whenever… I’m open
4:55 PM The Lawyer: Noonish?
4:55 PM The Lawyer: I intend to take advantage of that!!! Lol
4:55 PM Sassy: Sure.
4:56 PM Sassy: You want to do the hotel thing again? Rates are low
4:56 PM The Lawyer: Sounds good to me!
4:56 PM Sassy: May not be able to check in that early…
4:56 PM The Lawyer: Sounds good__ your preference!
4:57 PM The Lawyer: That could be a problem— true
4:57 PM Sassy: Will you have a few hours?
4:57 PM The Lawyer: Expect to– plan on wearing me out??? Lol
4:58 PM Sassy: Was thinking I can try to check in
4:58 PM Sassy: If that doesn’t work, we could do lunch?
4:59 PM The Lawyer: Sounds good– i will have to go back to office at some point
4:59 PM Sassy: There’s The 99 right there, or Regina’s, Sushi place, etc at Wellington
4:59 PM Sassy: Would it work better to say 3 PM ?
5:00 PM The Lawyer: Whichever should work
5:00 PM Sassy: Can’t bank on early check in
5:01 PM The Lawyer: Possible– will need to check if that’ll work
5:05 PM The Lawyer: Can’t tell right now
5:05 PM Sassy: Sure. There’s time
5:06 PM Sassy: I wish it could be tomorrow…
5:06 PM Sassy: but it’s my last day here… then have plans in the evening
5:06 PM The Lawyer: Ok—kid is coming in that day
5:06 PM Sassy: aha
5:07 PM The Lawyer: So do i– understand!
5:07 PM Sassy: What about early morning?
5:07 PM The Lawyer: Always a possibility– how would that work?
5:07 PM Sassy: I could check in on Sunday… then we could use the room in the morning
5:08 PM Sassy: until check-out time
5:08 PM The Lawyer: Aah!!!  Like it
5:09 PM Sassy: Should I make a reservation?
5:10 PM The Lawyer: Yes!!!
5:11 PM The Lawyer: Ok with you???
5:11 PM Sassy: Okay. So I’ll go check in Sunday… you appear EARLY Monday morning!
5:11 PM Sassy: I will hug you
5:11 PM The Lawyer: And I will hug you!
5:11 PM Sassy: Yay! A plan!
5:12 PM Sassy: I might want you to kiss me too…
5:12 PM The Lawyer: I will.  And much much more
5:12 PM Sassy:  : )
5:12 PM Sassy: Yay!
5:12 PM Sassy: Okay… gotta run! Monday… think Monday!
5:12 PM Sassy: And BOOBS!
5:12 PM The Lawyer: Sounds soooo goood!
5:13 PM Sassy: Mwah!
5:13 PM The Lawyer: Mmmmmn awesome!!! I can’t wait!
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From: Sassy 
To: The Lawyer
Sent: Wednesday, December 18, 2013 7:11 PM
Subject: Monday
Dear Tom, 
I made the arrangements we discussed.  It comes to $105 ($94 + tax).  Whee!  
If we need to cancel, please tell me before 6 pm Sunday. 
Let me know what time to be there Monday.  I’m thinking 8:30 or 9 am? 
We’ll have to end by 12 noon.  Might be able to stretch to 1 pm. 
Any questions? 
-S
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From: The Lawyer
To: Sassy
Sent: Dec 19, 2013 10:49 AM
Re: Monday
mmmn… questions?   lol  
what do you have in mind for me?   what might you be wishing from me?? lol
I’ll be able to be there hopefully as early as 8 or so… and I will have to be gone by 11– my guess.   I can’t wait!!

Yours for the taking!!!!

Monday, December 9, 2013 
3:39 PM The Lawyer: Hi!
3:39 PM Sassy: Tom!
3:39 PM The Lawyer: Sass
3:39 PM The Lawyer: Y. Lol
3:39 PM Sassy: Mwah mwah mwah!
3:40 PM The Lawyer: How’s the sweet and sexy one?
3:41 PM Sassy: Doing great! Racing from work to project to Mom’s…
3:41 PM Sassy: You?
3:41 PM Sassy: HUGS!
3:42 PM The Lawyer: At work– have to give a speech — let’s catch up tomorrow????
3:42 PM The Lawyer: Xxxxox!
3:43 PM Sassy: Holiday party from 3 pm on… look for me earlier or later! Or try Wednesday!! Mwah!
3:43 PM The Lawyer: Ok!!! Miss you!
3:43 PM Sassy: Pssst… I want your mind and your BODY!
3:44 PM The Lawyer: Yours for the taking!!!!

Great man

Saturday, November 23, 2013
11:21am 
Good morning kid!  Happy Saturday!  Off to Mom’s for lunch.

11:2am Phil

Steamed up windows are always good too.

11:22am
I was a naughty girl.

11:22am Phil

Good morning! Have a great lunch!
Worked out, walked the dogs and now off to buy suits. My new uniform.

I love naughty girls

Hope you both had orgasmic experiences

11:24am

It always make wish I could be naughty with you instead.
Why are you so damn far away kid?

11:24am Phil

Something about doing it in a car
Going to be a lot closer soon

11:24am

He has a Ford Explorer with that big third row bench seat…

11:25am Phil
Even better

11:25am

I want you this close… ||
Note – there is no space between those characters!
11:26am Phil
Ha ha, that would be balls deep which is always fun
       
11:27am
Mmmm… I adore that phrase… always make me twinge!
You rascal!

11:28am Phil

Ha ha! Like my socks?

[photo of his cock… and his socks]
11:28am 
What socks? : )

11:30am Phil

Just trying to add a smile to your day!

11:31am
Oh, you do, mister.
And a dripping c u n t!

11:37am Phil

Mmmmmm, I like it

11:37am

Just right for putting your gorgeous cock into!
Over and over…

2:42pm